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Dineo
Standard Member
48
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Rustenburg, North-West, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 58
Let love lead
I'm 48 years of age and mother of 2 kids. I'm staying with my 13 years old baby gal as my son is staying at his own apartment. I love kids even that are not my own. I'm very family oriented. I'm business driven and a risk taker, like to start new
Bella
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 52
I'm here! Stop searching ✋🏻🛑 No Aethiests👎
I love, love ❤️ When I fall inlove guy! I love hard😏 I do not want any narcissists to contact me, If you are not Christian do not contact me. Anyway I am fun, and funny and I have a great aura. I want someone who will support me like ill support them in everything they do. I do live streaming and oooh i also DJ online Im not just a pretty face🤪 You will not control me… read that again! You will not be allowed into my personal space if i dont see a future with you
Reggie
Standard Member
46
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 55
Radiating Charm and Wit: Seeking and Adventure!
I'm a free spirit with a passion for exploring new places, trying exotic cuisines, and engaging in deep conversations. Equally comfortable in a bustling city or amidst nature's tranquility, I thrive on adventure and meaningful connections. My friends describe me as compassionate, witty, and always up for a good laugh. Let's embark on a journey together filled with laughter, discovery, and genuine connection
Bawinile
Standard Member
41
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Sasolburg, Free State, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 50
Woman of Virtue : Proverbs 31
I am very focus , flexible and ambitious . I'm very educated and a business woman. I'm goal driven and still studying further for my honours degree. I will not settle for less . A friend or man has to match my standard or higher. No abusers, egoust
negramorena
Standard Member
48
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 55
looking for the perfect match!
I am funny, outdor, lovable, intelligent, easy-going, I like to travel around the worl, I like to meet different cultures, like music(jazz, R&B, Etc) as long is a good music I love it. I am an optimistic person who always look on the good side of people and things. You want to know more? Come closer!
KK
Standard Member
45
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Smart, Grounded & Genuine
I’m confident, curious and spontaneous. Love discovering the world through travel, good food or the roar of an F1 engine on a Sunday. Life is about experiences that stir the soul, exploring new cultures, trying out a dish on a menu or watching a race
Terra
Standard Member
40
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
Seeking a partner to do life with
I have a playful sense of humor that brings smiles to those around me, and I approach life with kindness, always ready to lend a helping hand or a listening ear. Many say I have a natural beauty that radiates both inside and out, and I pride myself o
Rae
Standard Member
43
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 32 - 44
"Sun-kissed with a thirst for something meaningful and a love for panoramic views. I'm on the lookout for something intriguing. Smart, classy, loyal, elegant and always up for a challenge, I'm open to new experiences and meeting someone special with a real connection. Relocation isn't off the table. Let's wander together and see where the journey takes us ..
Jo
Standard Member
43
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 55
Looking for a soul mate
I enjoy out door activities, hiking, to be in nature, traveling and also enjoy being at home, cooking, cuddling, I like to be at the beach, weekend trips away, and I just like to have a good time and being happy. A video is lmportant to see who I am chatting to live.
Melissa
Standard Member
41
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Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 52
Get to know me you wont regret it
I am a attractive , intelligent woman. I am not ur typical South African. Im looking and ready for a true, deep love starting out as friendship. I have done alot of self healing and self love. You cant let someone else in if you want that true love yet havent done the inner work. In my downtime like chilling with friends and family over good drinks and food. Im very spiritual and on a spiritual path. The unknown interests me. Hoping I can meet someone on the same level to explore further.
Faye
Standard Member
Verified
44
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 50
Enjoy good humor and good conversation. In general if i click with pple you can't shut me up but if we don't click my jaws shut on their own. No energy for baby mama drama or time wasters...do not offer me your nude pics pls. I'd love to be in a mixed relationship....that's my preference. Video call is a must, too many scammers on this platform.
Roz
Standard Member
47
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 48 - 60
Loyal & Faithful
I'm single, ambitious and I just want to live. All I am looking for is someone who is seeking the same thing i seek (peace, understanding, calm life, respect and someone who wants to travel with me). I want honesty no matter what. i believe that people have a past but I don't judge and your past has absolutely nothing to do with me. I really just want peace and joy.
Diana
Standard Member
45
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 54
Taking a chance, hoping for the best.
I am taking a chance and hoping for the best. I honestly do not have time for games. I'm easy going and chllied. I have a great job, am educated, etc. Looking for a mature gentleman who is ready to get to know someone with a view of settling down. I'm not a very good cook, I enjoy the arts, am a sucker for anyone who can make me laugh and also enjoy spending time with people who matter to me. Never married, no kids but would love to have them one day.
Lesego
Standard Member
40
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
STRICTLY NO ECOWAS
Do not ask me for money or n*des please, this is a dating site not a p**n site or a bank. I'm celibate. I want a genuine relationship. I'm open minded and outgoing. I like traveling and enjoy the outdoors with good company. I like reading and watching movies. Im a pescatarian ,I don't go to clubs but I enjoy a glass of wine to relax. I listen to all types of music depending on the mood. I'm driven and like challenges.
Trudy
Standard Member
45
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 68
Not all African lady are here to ask for money
First off all...Im christian, I am working full time. Call me a simple girl and yes its true. I love my kitchen and cooking is my passion. Iam honest and loyal, I love to be happy and make people around me feel good . Iam not perfect atleast I'm really.
Mahlodi
Standard Member
46
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 62
highly favored
very humble willing to learn more about life,very funny and romantic.Good. hearted person willing to learn more about other culture.I'm a bit shy person and quet,just I dnt take no nonsense if it comes to people who are bully.i joined this app not to play I prefer a matured person who know what they want.i am not a person with weaves,makeups and all that is more like I am fake,I truly love my natural self.Fake/scammers please dnt bother.
Rolanda
Standard Member
43
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
African curved lady
Hi there! I'm Seddy/nickname, I'm a confident, genuine, and vibrant african woman looking for someone special. With a busy life and zero patience for games, I'm seeking a sincere partner who values honesty and authenticity. If you're a trustworthy, k
Precious
Standard Member
48
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 42 - 58
Life partner dating long term relationship
Am a goal driven ambitious loyal respectful oriented family persom bubblimg and understand that one is perfect love a man whose very romantic adventures I believe that everyone deserves to be loved right and loud am a very loving soft lover that's me & video call it's a must if you can't don't bother to inbox me
hi
Standard Member
48
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 55
Reserved. Loves humour.Loves love.Hate lies.
Down to earth,ever smiling petite lady,with utmost respect for others. Loves music,loves traveling,does not mind indoor time spending as long as it is with a loved one. Loves movies. Going out on a date. True believer in love regardless of color or race. Hates judgmental people,arrogant,conceited and rude ones. Hope to find the one .
Amarh
Standard Member
40
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Kind caring matured woman with the sense of humour
Hi👋 you can ask me anything you like to know about myself. I've been single for many years raising my kids now they grown up, they live with my family. I'm 40 years old although I'm still looking young! I'm free to date and I'm totally ready to star
Ntombz
Standard Member
46
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 66
Love and Warmth you'll always feel back
I believe that love is at its best when it's mutual, when care, warmth and efforts are shared equally. I'm soneone who gives wholeheartedly and highly value a man who knows his role. I create a space where kindness, support and happiness are felt.
Isa
Standard Member
40
•
Vanderbijlpark, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Full of Joy, life and ready to Love.
I love that colour of a beautiful sunset 🧡 Enjoy good food in a beautiful restaurant 😋. Take me around the World 🌎 but not too much hiking, camping and very hot weather. Now and then I love my time reading 📚 😊 Can we workout togeth
Nkuli
Standard Member
44
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 58
just need some company
hi I'm Nkuli from Cape Town South Africa. I'm a Correctional officer working on a farm prison.A single mom staying with my 3 beautiful children. I love my children they are everything to me. I love the outdoors hiking and camping and also love listening to music. I'm a straightforward person who doesn't like lies.And I'm not that much talkative.
Donnelley
Standard Member
49
•
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 60
Pls feel free to be yourself, so precious
German mixed with African Descent. Fluent German and English speaking 🌹. Well travelled and I am old school. Down to earth, love a good laugh & Nature 🌎 . Mature Man only 🙏!! *I am mainly focused on a good intentional Albino man!* I welcome calls. I LOVE MY PRIVACY!!
Agnes
Standard Member
45
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 53
Kind hearted, Happy Aura, Lover of Jesus Christ.
I reside in Africa, looking to match up with that special somebody, can be from anywhere in the world, willing to relocate or have him relocate . Either way, looking for a serious, committed relationship that will hopefully lead to marriage.
Angela
Standard Member
46
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 57
Don't Fake it Keep it Real
I'm Beaty African queen with big heart ❤️ and beautiful personality.im a caretaker type 💖 I'm the kind of woman who thinks that chivalry is very important when it comes from conquering a man...I'm not here for games and I'm sure that if that handsome man I'm looking for is reading this message,he will not hesitate to contact me...Please No Fake Guy's!!!
Sphiwe
Standard Member
Verified
46
•
Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 42 - 48
💗
Am very quite at times but once i get to know someone, you find it very enjoyable to be with me, i love to go out and learn new things everyday, i love both indoors and out doors, i am a bit romamtic, love watching a nice movies and really enjoy good food as i can cook myself 🙈
Precious
Standard Member
41
•
Siyabuswa, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 60
I am very Loving & Caring hard working Woman ❤️
I am a very harworking Self employed Woman, very Focused but I can be funny at the same time. I love life, I am a Single Mother that loves to cook. I am a go gether. Precious loves attention, calls & Video calls. I love Sunday chilling with cool musi
Abgirl
Standard Member
40
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 45
Rooted in Faith, Growing in Love
Hello! I'm a God-fearing woman, rooted and well-versed in His word, believing that prayer is the foundation of every decision. I prioritize my faith and strive to live a life that honors God. I'm a hard worker, passionate about achieving my goals and living a purposeful life. I'm looking for someone who shares my values and commitment to Christ. If you're a like-minded individual seeking a partner in faith and life, let's connect and see where God takes us!"
Goldie
Standard Member
41
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 58
Yes
I'm an honest person an sweet but I don't tolerate nonsense..I am a straight forward person .when I love I love heartedly ❤️...I'm a very decent independent lady a single mother of 2 who loves life...I love happiness..but then God comes first ..
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Melody
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 69
I am a thoughtful, nurturing, and ambitious woman
I am a grounded, caring woman who values honesty, respect, and meaningful connection. I enjoy creating a peaceful, well-balanced life and appreciate good conversation, laughter, and shared values. I am family-oriented, hardworking, and believe that growth—both personal and emotional—is important in any relationship. I am open-minded, mature, and intentional about building something genuine with the right person. I value kindness, communication, and emotional stability, and I am looking to connect with someone who is sincere, respectful, and ready for a committed relationship.
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safair
Standard Member
41
•
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 66
sassy,sexy unique in my own way african rare lady
rare breed for smart handsome out there looking for reality
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Hellen
Standard Member
43
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 70
Looking for Meaning, Not Just Moments.
Grounded, thoughtful, and emotionally aware. I value meaningful conversations, growth, and laughter that comes naturally. I’m building a life with purpose and looking for someone who is secure, kind, and curious about the world. If you believe connection is built on honesty, respect, and shared values, we’ll get along just fine.
Barbara
Standard Member
44
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Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 66
Virginia Klaas
Standard Member
47
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Bathurst, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 47 - 67
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