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Michelle
Platinum Member
Verified
45
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Seeking an extraordinary new.
Down-to-earth & genuine connections only 🙏 I value *honesty*, *respect*, *kindness*, and a good dose of humour 😄. I'm non-judgmental and believe in treating others how I'd want to be treated myself. For me, emotional connection comes first – I don't experience sexual attraction without forming a strong bond 💭. Let's chat authentically here, build comfort & see if there's mutual interest 🌱. No rush for numbers or video calls – I'd rather have genuine convos first and see where it goes naturally 😌. Comfort grows, next steps might follow 😉. Looking for depth, not superficial swipes 💬. No premature jumps, no random number exchanges – let's connect meaningfully or not at all 🙌.
Tina
Standard Member
39
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Rustenburg, North-West, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 42 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
traveling and learning and trying new things 💕
I love to travel, open to trying new things, going on dates, having adventures. I would like to get out of my comfort zone and try something atleast once. I will cry,laugh,have fun adventures with you. Treat you like a king. Complement,respect and listen to you.Learn new cultures. I love loving whole heartedly 💕💕💕
Pearl
Standard Member
29
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Ballito, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 70
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Romance her? Spoil her? Protect her? Yes to all.
I’m a soft-hearted, emotionally deep woman who leads with love, laughter, and just enough sass to keep things interesting 😌 I’m the type who’ll encourage your dreams, send sweet texts just because, and randomly crave deep convos at 2am. But I also k
Colleen
Standard Member
40
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 99
Smoke:
Don't smoke
A life Partner
I think the first word many of my friends would use to describe me would be "funny" or even crazy. I do have somewhat of a sarcastic (or sometimes demented) sense of humor. I believe in chivalry in it's truest sense. Courage, valor, fairness, protecting the innocent and weak, good over evil, and gen...
Simphiwe
Standard Member
27
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 35
Smoke:
Don't smoke
beautiful in and our Lady🌹
Hi! I'm Simphiwe,a creative and outgoing individual. I love listening to music and having deep conversations about life, culture, and everything in between. Looking for someone who is genuine, friendly, and ambitious. I enjoy traveling, trying new foods, and taking on new adventures and I'm always looking for someone to share in my love of exploration. Looking for someone who is confident, kind, and always up for a challenge - whether that's trying a new restaurant or taking on a new adventures.
Manzamahle
Standard Member
39
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Kathu, Northern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
To be or not to be..
If you are Neo from Kuruman I saw your profile. I’m a proud mom navigating the beautiful chaos of parenthood, and my daughter truly is my world. As an introverted extrovert, I find joy in both cozy nights at home binge-watching Netflix or Showmax and
Angy
Standard Member
35
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Ballito, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Looking forward to meeting my future partner
Dear future hubby : please note that i have 4 kids n i don't want more kids in future. Um telling u abt my kids so u know, it's not dat um looking for a sponsor. Um an honest, loyal n bubble lady looking for a matured partner for a serious relationship
Vuyiswa
Standard Member
39
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 58
Smoke:
Don't smoke
A kind beautiful woman. Very considerate and sexy.
I am Vuyiswa or Gladys if that is hard to pronounce. Beautiful and kind with a lot of compassion. Willing to build to a strong bond with a loving man. No hookups or men who are not willing to have a long term solid relationship with a friendship.
mpho stelence
Standard Member
24
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Tzaneen, Limpopo, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 26 - 51
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Queen& Princess treats
Àm Mpho, I'm person who is goal oriented. Am a lover, so am willing to find a partner who will love and cherish me. I'm from South Africa. I'm looking for a companion someone with big personality but be able to give attention too. Those whom are seri
Belle
Standard Member
47
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Mossel Bay, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Quality above all
I consider myself to be a loving, loyal and an open-minded woman. God-led, family-oriented, intelligent and a great friend. I love reading when I find the time and I'm playful at times. I value the relationships I build, my life's experience has taug
Vuyokazi
Standard Member
55
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 48 - 58
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Try me , you wont regret
I am a single mum of 2 grown up girls, i do not smoke nor drink....i love my quality time with my man, am a 1 man woman , love me for who i am , like 2alking along the beach , hug me , kiss and hold me....having braai with family and friends, like wa
Rose
Standard Member
59
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 65
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Love 💕 and Peace
I am very caring loving have lots of patience very good listener I like planning ahead I am a early person hate doing anything late love people& meeting people from different culture's I like music travelling, shopping I am very plain and simple
Bekka
Standard Member
34
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 66
Smoke:
Don't smoke
The darker the berry the sweeter the juice.
A chocolate skinned melanin who love life because it’s beautiful the art of being a sensual human being in creating a smooth operation intimacy I am a the type of girl who is very unique. Polite and down to earth. A great Ebony girlfriend with some nice stories for my own age. I am a great muse to look at and inspire you. My quirky look makes me stand out in a good way. I dares to be different. Anyone would enjoy my company as i accept everyone and see everyone as normal. I am very discreet and classy. I'm looking to have a fun time with you . I am someone you'll never forget!
Lucy
Standard Member
Verified
39
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 57
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Let's write our own life story
A mature, loving caring genuine woman, I know what I am looking for so please if you are looking for a sexual online partner, nude pictures or having fun I am not your girl sorry. Please dont send me your nude pictures also, I am interested in you, I wanna get to know you. There must be mutual connection, we must build on communication, remember I dont care about the size of your body parts it's the size of your heart that I am looking for.
Faith
Standard Member
38
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 57
Smoke:
Don't smoke
lets create beautiful memories and live life
I may not only describe all the qualities but i believe it takes quite a moment to know and understand someone, especially a total stranger , I'm a very simple young lady, working on my own and sometimes demonstrate communal project, i love life and enjoy every little bit of everything that comes my way, very passionate and enthusiastic with much laughter and energy to ride extra miles lol...I love cooking, cleaning and making people look good externally and internally, i love 80's rnb music with iconic soft tones, i don't easily get mad unless you push my emotions to the extra limits, i don't play with emotions nor underestimate anyone, love is pure and nice when you found the right partner.
Beauty
Standard Member
32
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Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Upgrade if you want to chat with me!!!
Hi, I'm Beauty, I'm a retail assistant by day, Doing body work outs is my go to stress relief, I really enjoy watching movies, it gives me peace of mind. I've been in a couple of great long term relationships and am ready to find someone special to build a life with. Please contact me only if you are interested in getting to know me better. Am really looking for someone who is ready to settle for marriage not casual or hookups.
Nikiwe
Standard Member
46
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 99
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Plz I'm not here for sx or sending u nudes
I'm a black woman looking 4 a good loving man. I know how to love and respect my man. I'm fun and want to learn new things and see new things. I'm willing to get on a bus even to get to the man I love. I'm fun and exciting too be with. Let me rock ur
Tehilla
Standard Member
Verified
43
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 74
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Let me be the sunshine of your life❤❤❤❤
Looking for a serious meaningful relationship.. I'm only here for serious guys from the age of 45years going up.. If you know that you here for fun and sex games please don't bother contacting me please if you not 45 years old and above don't bother contacting me.. Im not a rehabilitation centre for sexually frastrated badly raised men.. And guys from India, Pakistan, Algeria, Morocco, Egypt, Nigeria, Kenya, Ghana don't contact me please 🙏🙏🙏
Elle
Standard Member
40
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Hey there 😉
Honest, loving, caring, independent. Self-sufficient, great sense of humor. I'm not looking for anyone pretending to be who they're not (scammers), you MUST do a video call if you're not ready don't bother texting me. I love adventure, traveling and reading books. I'm not a pornstar/nudist nor am I planning to be one so DON'T ask me for nudes or sex-chat videos (you're barking up the wrong tree). I know what I'm looking for exactly. Large and lovely Queen
Busi
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 70
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Is there still love out there, I mean real love .
Am a independent humble, caring, loving, patient, passionate, focused, ambitious, helpful, proactive, honest, single mum...outgoing, open-minded, love traveling and shopping and sports. I have 4 boys, though staying with the two younger ones.
CEE
Standard Member
Verified
54
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Mdantsane, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 70
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Are you him?
I want a ÷+&*MAN*@.¥ I am so tired of white men who are just here looking for a woman to fulfill their sexual fantasies. I am a hardworking hustler. I am a compassionate, fun loving, caring woman. I would never take anyone for granted or play with someone's emotions and so don't want someone to play with my emotions. If you are not seriously looking please pass me by. I am *SUPER* confident of myself and very I AM A BEAUTIFUL AFRICAN QUEEN! I am who I am. Get to know me and you will love who I am.
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Petunia
Standard Member
Verified
23
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Brits, North-West, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 28 - 42
Smoke:
Don't smoke
A Young Beautiful African Queen looking for love.
I’m a free spirited (coffee) person😜, down to earth sometimes I can be very loud lol. I am an understanding human being and strict at times but I swear I’m not uptight 😛. I’m very affectionate and emotionally available!! I value communication & wil
Felicia..
Standard Member
30
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 34 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Enjoying life & it’s little moments( last pic😆)
I’m warm, kind, empathetic, funny and smart. Confident , I love being active and always open to trying something new.. I also love dressing up , going to new restaurants and just enjoying the finer things in life.. Loyalty & Honesty for me goes without saying .. Match me _I will be your lover & best friend
Lilly
Standard Member
33
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George, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 34 - 45
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Gentle soul, wild heart 😁
I am outgoing, inquisitive and independent. I' my a lover of good conversation, good drinks and long walks on the beach. Laughing is a priority to me. I enjoy downtime at home with my kids and great music. I'm basically an open book and could say muc
Ess
Standard Member
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 47
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Only serious candidature;)
Independent, fun loving women who enjoy traveling and discovering different cultures and especially authentic cuisines. I love food". I m traditional perceived "old school" because I m a non-feminist. I believe God created me a women for a reason and I know my "place as one. I love art, hiking and volunteer teacher.
Toni
Standard Member
48
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 57
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Soft heart, strong mind , genuine intentions .
A gentle soul with a warm laugh and a heart that’s known both storms and sunshine. Life has shaped me into a woman who values peace, authenticity, and real connection. I believe love should feel calm, kind, and inspiring , a partnership where we laugh easily, talk deeply, and grow together. I’d love to meet someone emotionally mature, grounded, and sincere, a man who’s ready for something genuine and lasting. A small note of preference: I’d like to connect within a closer age range (ideally under 57), and I’m not looking to engage with matches from West Africa. Thank you for understanding.
Hloni
Standard Member
46
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male
Smoke:
Don't smoke
What you see is what you get. Scorpio AF..
I'm a grounded, family oriented workaholic, mother of 2. I'm passionate about music and cooking, shopping, looking good and smelling good. A bit nerdy, introverted extrovert. I enjoy staying home, I love cozy nights in with a good movie and a glass o
Lungi
Standard Member
38
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 59
Smoke:
Don't smoke
im looking for a companion to go on a road trip wt
my name is Lungi from South Africa in a city called Durban, a single mom to a beautiful baby girl. I consider myself asimple who values peace and tranquility in life, coming from a God-fearing family has thought me to value little things in life
Zoya
Standard Member
41
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 95
Smoke:
Don't smoke
PLEASE READ PROFILE: CAUCASIAN GENTLEMEN ONLY.
I'm a well travelled, loving, kind, caring lady looking for a SERIOUS relationship. I'm smart, fun to be around, well travelled, driven, enjoy a good beverage/dinner at a discreet spot, happy in company or alone just tucking into a good docu-series/movie. I love piano but also appreciate most music genres. If you are a picture collector, please don't bother contacting me. I am not sending pictures to strangers. You can clearly see my pictures here online. I am looking for an INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP ONLY. Not a long winded back & forth online relationship about your weather and what you're making for dinner. If you'd like to know more about me, you're welcome to pick up the phone and to get a conversation going and to get to know me, that way we can tell very quickly if we are a match or not so we don't waste each others time. Personally, I'd like to find my lifelong partner and get off the website.
Tee
Standard Member
39
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 59
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Respectful and humble woman looking for true love.
I’m the calm in the chaos,a grounded, family first soul who loves deeply and gives fully. I believe in the quiet power of connection: long walks that lead to real conversations, cozy nights that turn into lifelong memories, and cuddles that speak louder than words. I thrive in meaningful moments, whether it’s cheering on a game or simply being present with someone I care about. My strength lies in my communication, I don’t just talk, I listen, understand, and respond with heart. If you’re looking for someone who leads with love, lives with intention, and values the simple beauty in togetherness, you’ve just found them.
Zandile
Standard Member
22
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Stanger, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 22 - 44
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Hi My name is Zandile from South Africa
Am from South Africa looking for serious relationship before getting into anything serious I would like to know the person first and do video call which is most important to me there are scammers everywhere just want to be safe throughout the process
Thandy
Standard Member
26
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 26 - 49
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Hello,
Hi there! 🌟 I'm a passionate student navigating the exciting journey of learning and growth. When I'm not buried in textbooks or acing my exams, you can find me exploring new hobbies, cooking up a storm in the kitchen, or enjoying a good book.
Asiyatu
Standard Member
27
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Middelburg, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 34 - 45
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Looking for a fellow Heart collector😊.
Well,friends and family describe me as a bubbly person ,intelligent and polite .a young lady with a warm heart .l recently started spending my spare time reading books.l love to cook and am a foodie lols.my life is a mixture of ambitious career goals and spending alot of time with family and friends.very family oriented .l find beauty in very simple things .am seeking longterm partner.seeking a partner who Values deep conversations ,sense of humour and a commited serious reletionship .
Maggie
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53
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Sasolburg, Free State, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 46 - 62
Smoke:
Don't smoke
looking for the best wife , lam here
lam a mom , and granny to my 10 year old, good and well raised by my parents. very respectful and loving. lam a Christian and not negotiable at all.. l love to be be loved and l inturn do as the Bible says about us women...l don't drinkor smoke..
NALAHSA🦄🦋
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28
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Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
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35 - 99
Smoke:
Don't smoke
always up for a good laugh and deep conversations
Constantly being reminded that Love deserves a chance. Am kind ,ambitious and humble sweet and warm hearted, a good listener and very caring person being around me brings happiness and peace ✌🏾 atleast that’s what my friends and family say 😀🥰
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