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Louise
41 • Morpeth, Northumberland, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 42 - 60
never judge a book by it's cover!
hi , how are you? hope your fine. this site is madness x-) but I'm looking for stability, connection, values and above all love. love is the most hardest to find these days . I don't care what job you do but you must be ambitious, not a gold-digger,
lele
48 • City of London, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 46 - 60
loving,fiercely loyal..READ MY PROFILE FIRST
laid back,mature,humble,respectful,kind,loyal and the rest it's best my future partner discovers for themselves as it's sometimes not easy for one to describe themselves.. I prefere video call soon as we start communicating.I'm not going to send nudes or money I'm not here to be scammed cz I've never scammed anyone I've never known that kind of behaviour...by the way I'm an intelligent normal and very beautiful African lady you definitely wont regret the effort of getting to know me ..that I'm confident about..by the way I'm sorry to say this but please Nigerians stay off my profile don't bother...I insist Nigerians please forget it cz all you want is to scam its a shame...Nigerian man or any man interested in me just know that I'm not going to give you or borrow you money the minute you start that conversation be sure that I'm nit going to hesitate or waste energy explaining my self to you I'm going to block you straight away....I'm mentioning Nigerians because that's their habit of asking money from women they don't want to man up
Massy
46 • Birmingham, West Midlands, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 39 - 57
Looking for a life partner.
Explorer and Adventurer . Family oriented. Respectful and caring. Loves travelling and responsible as well as reliable honest individual who values that you get back what you put out there. I am not looking for a one night stand or a casual relationship. Can be shy at the beginning but easily open up to the right person. No games please. I am self sufficient and can look after myself well. I would love to give my time and effort to the right person. I hope one lucky guy can snatch this lucky girl out of here lol!. Thanks reading my profile.
Lilian
42 • Dartford, Kent, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 40 - 45
Looking for the one
If you are looking for sex and flings, stay off my profile🙏🙏I am a passionate baker, Cool, smart, daring, humorous, funny and sometimes wity , a believer of the almighty God and Jesus Christ his son. I'm a happy soul , friendly and love to make a difference in the lives of others.
Tina
49 • Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 50 - 60
Honest ,loving,fun,and lam very much genuine.
Iam a lovely person to get on with easy going lam honest,genuine l enjoy going in and out for meals very affectionate l enjoy cuddling,holding hands,what you see is what you get I hate arguments l bealive in solving problems in a mature way.l do have a respect for a man if you want to know more about myself please say hello and l will always answer your questions.
Patience
46 • Liverpool, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 40 - 60
FABULUS.....Looking for a serious relationship
I'm fabulous, intelegent and smart, good looking, fun to be with and always happy when you are with her. Am a fabulous person. If you don't want serious relationship please and please don't message me. I don't want games. No scam zone please 🙏
PatienceChiq
47 • Coventry, West Midlands, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 42 - 52
Any souls outside UK, leave me alone, please
Single mom, intelligent, sel-reliant, compassionate, loyal, confident and somewhat blunt. Good fun to be around (Please don't confuse this statement with "I'm here for fun" cos I ain't that cheap. Serious about long term relationship. I've got enough friends thank you. Def not looking too far from where I live. So if you're outside the UK, back up cos there is no point of trying your luck. You won't be entertained and just know you've been filtered. Filtered messages are instantly DELETED by me.
Quinee
49 • Basildon, Essex, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 45 - 65
“Let’s camp, hike , and enjoy nature together.”
I’ve lived and continue to love living life to the fullest, just when I thought I’d done all the living, I discovered there’s a lot more living to do. With just the right partner, we can make everyday an adventure…😊 I’m such a hopeless romantic and always see the good in everyone. I’m straight forward with what I like and honest when I feel hurt so my ideal partner will be a straight forward person with a positive outlook on life. I’m a firm believer that communication is key to a happy life !!!!
Felicia
48 • Westminster, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 50 - 70
PLEASE READ: looking for my white soulmate
Am currently living in Johannesburg, South Africa. Am an Economist currently pursuing PhD in Economics whilst being a lecturer. Though i teach students, I am an introvert, humble with a big heart. What you see is what you get. Am quite shy but once you get to know me, am fun to be with. Am here to find that special someone to spend the rest of my forever with.
Purplerose
41 • Southwark, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 38 - 50
Elegant mind. Quiet fire. Seeking real connections
London-based book lover with a deep soul and a subtle smile. I find beauty in small moments, wisdom in silence, and humour in the unexpected. I value honesty, emotional depth, and meaningful connections. I live a full life – juggling work, family, and purpose – but I believe there’s space for love to bloom gently and steadily. I admire men who are confident but grounded, passionate yet kind and generous. If you’ve lived abroad, walked through both shadows and sunshine, and still lead with heart, we might just be aligned. Bonus if you're curious about life, enjoy deep convos, and respect boundaries. Let’s build something steady, joyful, and spiritually rich." Let’s start with thoughtful chats on here — I prefer taking time to connect before moving it offline. Not into rush, games, or surface-level vibes. I respect privacy and boundaries, and I appreciate the same in return. If you're emotionally available, globally minded, and have a calm presence — we just might align.
Chiọma
41 • Caterham, Surrey, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 39 - 54
Mature lady looking for her happily ever after!
Do people read profiles anymore? I’m loyal, driven, have a positive outlook on life & much more. We will get along if we have shared values, you know how to treat a lady, know what you want in life, love the Lord, looking for a long term relationship built on solid friendship…and are willing to be my cheerleader 😝 I like travelling, reading, keeping fit, tennis 🎾 Please do not message me if you don’t already live in the UK 🇬🇧. Long distance relationships aren’t for everyone!
Cee- READ MY PROFILE FIRST
43 • Plymouth, Devon, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 43 - 50
UK ONLY!! Let’s chat! Good vibes, laughter n Smile
Hi there! I'm a friendly and compassionate introvert who's always up for meaningful conversations. I spend most of my time working hard (some might say I'm a bit of a workaholic!), but I truly value the moments when I can unwind and chat with someone
Black
47 • Edinburgh, Lothian, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 48 - 60
I can't stand beards, I am sorry.🙇
If you are looking for a lady below 40, please pass! I don't want to be an option, I am ready for a man who is ready for me. To begin with, profile pic was taken in Turkey this January 2025 . 2nd pic was taken this February 2025 in the UK, last three pics were taken in Australia last February 2024 while I was on holiday. I am not looking for a boyfriend,I am looking for a partner, a man I look forward to return home and spend time with doing everything we like together as a couple. I respect culture and tradition very much especially when it comes to relationship, love and marriage. "I understand emancipation of the black woman differently," if you know what that has thrown our relationships and marriages into today. I will not respond to messages here from any man younger than me, I want to feel secure and comfortable in the arms of my age mate and an older man. If you are reading this profile, only write to me if you are a family oriented man, if not, pass. Men! God gave you the authority to lead, please be a leader and I will be your helper. I strive better in warmer places, my indoor temperature in the UK is 21⁰C throughout summer and 22⁰C in winter .🤣🤣🤣 Does that sound expensive? I am African and grew up back home in tropical weather, I am struggling to cop with this cold but working even harder to keep my space warm and pay my bills.
Rose
42 • Haringey, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 36 - 45
Live Laugh Love
Am a true shorty. That means am tall in the short category. I am a happy person, most of the time. I have a ready smile. I love goofing around. I am the woman who will amaze you with lots of useless sometimes funny stories. I enjoy giving and receivi
Neenee
45 • Tower Hamlets, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 35 - 45
➡️READ MY PROFILE FIRST⬅️ 🇬🇧🇬🇧UK ONLY! 🇬🇧🇬...
READ MY PROFILE BEFORE YOU SEND ME A MESSAGE❣️😉 Im a lover not a fighter ❤️ Looking for friendship! If your looking for a long term relationship unfortunately im not the one.. I live in United Kingdom 🇬🇧🇬🇧 Long distance will not work for me sorry, so I will not even entertain it or put my heart into it 🤦🏽‍♀️ I am actually taking my time to find true love because the next man I end up with will hopefully be my last, my forevership. Finding Real true love takes time, & I look for a connection/chemistry with someone. There has to be a spark 🔥 or I lose interest immediately❣️ Before you try to pursue a relationship with someone from overseas, ask yourself if you are willing to relocate to another country? I am not willing to relocate ! Can you see a distant relationship working out long term? Dont ask me for money, a visa or an invitation 👎🏽
Pre
45 • Kirkcaldy, Fife, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 40 - 50
Stay focused no rush 7
Am very simple girl God fearing, caring understanding,trustworthy and kind hearted person I'm fun loving ,optimistic . No rooms for foolish people or online dependence .. I'm not here to stay " here for a serious business. Please and please I don't want any relationship far from UK . I live in UK I want my relationship in England .I don't want to have it anywhere else,and i don't want anybody to be chatting me from any places I live here. you find love where you are .that is exactly how its for me please I don't want any more disturbance.no people from America no from canada no people from Africa because i can not share myself. here i stay here i fine thank you.
Phindie
46 • Sandbach, Cheshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 36 - 42
Loving, cheerful, outgoing ,Christian, love kids
I am a women looking to start a family with someone who love God respect his family & who always put his family first. I am Christian who is looking forward to have fun & spend the rest of my life with someone. I don't care about money because I believe in working for myself.
SAARAA
49 • Pitsea, Essex, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 45 - 60
In search of happiness with a special one
I am a caring and sensitive person who believes in trust. I like most of the things which this beautiful world offers. Understanding and non-judgemental I always be, outdoor activities are one of the things I like, and sometimes just relaxing at home with a good movie and a glass of wine. Having a mental stable makes me stronger than ever and I always cherish the finer things in life
Les
49 • Doncaster, South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 47 - 65
Im full of love, here to find a deserving man
Im a mom of 2, hardworking, loyal and fun person to be with. I love travelling & cooking. Im a very sociable person who doesn't take life too seriously. Not to sound rude but pls if you are in any country in Africa, dont bother messaging, i will just block you! I don't do long distance relationship
Nicky
43 • Bristol, Avon, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 40 - 70
Hoping to meet my king.
I've decided to give love a chance again. I feel that I've got enough time now to give to a potential significant other. Timing needs to be right, and so I know that I can put the time in to making something beautiful out of a relationship. If you can resonate then feel free to say hello. This is the perfect time, for me to share the abundance of love that I've got to offer you. I enjoy quiet walks on the beach, travelling, cooking, family time with lots of cuddles and laughter. If you're not looking, for a serious relationship then please don't bother to message me.
joy
44 • Luton, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 34 - 46
HELLO DEAR
Am Joy ,Am here looking for my soul mate , someone to share my life with ,Am gentle and kind ,very hard working .i love to have fun hang out with frends . i love movies and i also love the beach , i love indoors as well as out door with someone l love . i know there are scams and lies and fake people in here ,but please !!! Am not here for that and i know there are good men out there that want peace and love in there life .so if u are that lovely man that want love and happiness . send me a lovely mail fill with a kiss...........
bonnie
43 • Leeds, West Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 43 - 60
Walk with me through this journey
. love laughing n having fun with pple I'm comfortable around.i have a good sense of humour. , i get along with everybody.good listener n very understanding. I hate tension n drama. like company of funny people and love meeting pple even though some are annoying but we never no where life will take us, maybe will get stuck with the annoying without realising n they become big part of u, hahahaha, No i dont want u. Love the outdoors, taking a walk in the sunset and sometimes enjoy staying home and cuddle with the one i love.love cooking but I'm bad at it.
Eno
43 • Stafford, Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 38 - 53
Working in healthcare, so compassion is kind of in my DNA. I’m someone who believes in showing up fully — whether it’s for a patient, a friend, or a relationship. Looking for something real and lasting, but open to wherever a genuine connection leads
cutebaby
49 • Aberdeen, Grampian, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 40 - 65
Life’s an Adventure—Looking for a Co-Pilot in Love
Kind-hearted, good looking woman, full of strength and empathy. I’m a woman who values honesty, laughter, and meaningful connection. Life has taught me to appreciate the little things—a good conversation, a walk in nature, or a shared smile. I’m now ready to open my heart again and find someone genuine, kind, and emotionally mature. If you’re looking for warmth, loyalty, and a fresh start with someone who truly cares, I’d love to hear from you.
Law
43 • Oxford, Oxfordshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 38 - 57
Loe
I've always had an incredible passion for living life to its fullest. I am a hopeless romantic and always strive to believe in the good within everyone. I'm straightforward about my needs, and honest when I feel hurt. I am looking for an equally positive partner who loves to try new experiences and is a great and open communicator.
Maria
41 • Derby, Derbyshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 35 - 58
Knock and the door shall be opened for you,
I'm looking for proper relationship, no games and etc, looking for matured man, God fearing. I'm kind, loving, respectful, full of sense of humour kind of a lady. What you see is what you get! I live in the UK but originally from Africa, I love frenchmen and Germans but I don't mind English man as well.
Queenie
40 • Hackney, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 35 - 50
A Queen looking for her King
Asks and all shall be revealed...... I'm like an open book, with beautiful captivating stories to keep you turning the pages.
Pauline
45 • Lewisham, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 44 - 66
Building a Life Together, Not Just a Chat
I'm a grounded, loving, and loyal woman who believes in building something meaningful — not just passing time. Originally from Kenya and now living abroad, I'm proud of my journey and everything I've overcome. I balance a strong sense of independence with a soft heart and deep respect for family values. I'm a mother, a nurturer, and someone who shows up with consistency and care. I enjoy calm days at home, good conversation, music, and the beauty of everyday life. I’m not here for games — I’m here to meet someone kind, emotionally mature, and ready to walk the path of life together. If you're someone who leads with honesty, ambition, and heart — I’d love to connect
Miss B
42 • Derby, Derbyshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 43 - 55
Don’t rush.When d time is right,it will happen..
I’m a calm, caring, and grounded person who values peace, honesty, and genuine connections. I enjoy the simple things in life good company, meaningful conversations, and creating a warm, loving environment. I’m always growing, learning, and striving to become the best version of myself, while staying true to who I am.
Muthoni
42 • Birmingham, West Midlands, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 40 - 55
Vanessa
40 • City of London, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 40 - 65
The closer you get the more fun I am
I believe true love exists
FitHeartExplorer
46 • Sutton Coldfield, West Midlands, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 41 - 70
Jenny
46 • Witham, Essex, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 44 - 47
Hello from here
PLEASE I AM NOT INTERESTED IN MEN BASED IN ANY PART OF AFRICA!!! If you stubbornly contact me I block you immediately I am a fun happy confident individual hoping to meet a decent human out here 😊.
GeGe
44 • City of London, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 40 - 58
please no time wasters. let respect one another.
I'm kind, caring loving, hard working, honest, respectful and humorous (fun).
Katelina
48 • Kingston-upon-Hull, Humberside, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 50 - 60
Simple Simple but strong
A simple lady looking for a soul mate No black please. Only looking for my white prince that's it. 

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