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Josephine
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45
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Homa Bay, Nyanza, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 50 - 68
soulmate and Relationship
This forum is very intoxicated. I hope you are not one neither am I.Im a business woman, always there for the children,I'm just a simple natural single mother, who has been busy working hard to ensure that the children aquire their education. Now that two are graduated and looking for jobs, and the other in her final year of secondary education, I think I'm now good to start a relationship. I'm not in a hurry to find someone. I want a serious partner who no longer want children. You could be having grown children like me, yes it's ok. They will be coming to visit. I don't want young boys. You can look for your age mates. I don't want to destroy your life. I want to feel good, enjoy life, visit places. seeing the sunset with our heads locked together, wow! walking through a candle lighted room just for surprise, yes, I will cry. Sweet music to sooth a weary day. Gospel songs, worship is heart worming. Someone outside here needs me for the betterment of the community. Im always in touch with them. I Love giving back to my community. Touch a heart to touch a heart. I hate scammers, they always waste time for serious people. kindly make this journey memorable. I don't have money to be stolen. Wish to get the right person who's ready to visit my country.
Betty
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45
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Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 50 - 58
Beautiful ♀️
A beautiful, loving and understanding mother of one son who just turned 16. Enthusiastic and always willing to learn. I love to cook and always practicing new recipes, taking walks, the beach and road trips and exploring new destinations. I read travel and business journals.
Nikiwe
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47
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 99
Plz I'm not here for sx or sending u nudes
I'm a black woman looking 4 a good loving man. I know how to love and respect my man. I'm fun and want to learn new things and see new things. I'm willing to get on a bus even to get to the man I love. I'm fun and exciting too be with. Let me rock ur
Rebecca
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Accra, Greater Accra, Ghana
Seeking:
Male 50 - 70
I am in Dubai now ❤️
Hello I am Rebecca , A beautiful thick curvy lady working as cook assistant here in Dubai , Never married and no kids. Been single by my own choice but now missing a good , serious and matured man in my life . I am kind , open minded , loyal and fun to be with . Please I don’t entertain liars , deceivers and men who are only here for nudity and aimless conversations . I need a man who is ready to live with me and enjoy life together , I have my own house in Ghana where my little brother live at the moment . All I need is a good , loving , generous and a honest man who is not here to waste my time .
Princes Fridah
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Kampala, Central Region, Uganda
Seeking:
Male 35 - 60
Looking for some one serious .
My name is princess Fridah from Kampala Uganda.Never married and have no children but am afamily person and love kids alot. I’m new to online dating, but I know what I’m looking for in a man,am looking for some one serious and genuine. If you think maybe we could be right for each other, don't hesitate to contact me.We'll never know if we're a great match unless you click that message me button.Thanks for taking time to read my profile.See you then
Chinyere
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40
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Aguata, Anambra, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 39 - 52
I'm easy going and sociable
I'm introverted but can be very warm and lively when I'm around familiar people. I love reading, research, listening to music and outdoor activities. I am a fast learner and never turn my back on an intellectual challenge. I always put my best foot forward and look at the brighter side of live. I love to have a good laugh and I'm witty as well.
Sexxy
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44
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Akureyrí, Norðurland Eystra, Iceland
Seeking:
Male 37 - 60
Love, safety, s*curity,, the whole package.
Beautiful and sexy black woman originally from Kenya living in Iceland. 163cm, 75kg and trying to loose abit of weight. Am loving, honest,caring, loyal and hoping to find my better half here, hopefully my future husband. I have alot of Love to give and I long to receive love too. I love to be intimate with whom I Love. I would like to share this journey of life with someone special to me. Everything is possible for the willing. I want to enjoy everything together, to enjoy the good, survive the bad together. Im looking for Love, affection, security, safety, stability and I want to give the same. There has to be mutual respect and understanding no matter the dimensions of the relationship and however it is agreed upon. We both must be willing to put in the work and investment into the relationship to make it work. You won't believe it but it's true that unfortunately I live in the real world where Love is work, commitment, honesty, friendship, support, care, desire, fulfillment , communication, And I want it all. The whole package. Please, men with serious intentions only. If you are an online sex predator and want only sex chat and cam sex, you can forget it. I'm not here to entertain you unless you are my man. This applies to those who are after endless chat without action. If you are unable to keep the conversation meaningful without seeing nudes, I'm sorry for you.Im not distributing my nudes online. Im open minded yet reserved and respectful. Other privileges are for the final man who will be my husband. Im here to find a serious man who is looking for Love dating and marriage.Those who get things done. We get to know each other, if we like , we can verify on camera, know each other better and plan a meeting in person and keep the ball rolling. Nice to meet you! I CANT STAND those men who think black women are objects... just to be used!! For the record, I don't condone selfish inconsiderate men Oh, you have demands, sure . You have needs, sure, and cool. But... Is this ONLY about you?? Oh.... it is? 😳 Time wasters and scammers please don't contact me. Note; THIS IS A DATING SITE, NOT A PORN SITE!! Yes, I love Sex. And I will have sex with the right man. Lots of it, with MY MAN. Not you just because you think you can use me!!
Monica
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44
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Stadskanaal, Groningen, Netherlands
Seeking:
Male 45 - 50
Love is kind ♥
Hello I'm looking for friend someone with a big personality but able to give me plenty of care too. Please message me if you have good manners, appetite,interesting conversation and the ability to laugh under ❣ Love of God ❤ Modern but old school
Libjay
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40
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Read profile.seekinLove &loyalty with a white ...
I am caring, loving and affectionate.Often said that I'm hardworking and enterprising.i'm passionate in anything I put my heart to,plus I'm a goal getter and fun to be with.i'm into teaching,arts and crafts and been running my own business for close to a decade.i believe in God and always hope for the best.i don't care about a man's money,I earn mine and proud of it.i hate arrogance and laziness.Questions I'm often asked is why I'm this pretty and still single?it's because you have refused to get pass "hello" thinking I'm already dating or i bite🤦🏾♀️,you can know more about me if we get to chat,ask questions if you want.
ASHU
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44
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Limbe, South-West, Cameroon
Seeking:
Male 39 - 60
The world is a 'gobal village". Be nice..be kind
Kindhearted, honest , direct and outgoing. I am aged 43. I love engaging myself in Humanitarian activities. I feel fulfilled in doing that. I love genuine people with a good heart. I love treating people in the way I want to be treated too. I don't like people who take advantage of others and hurt them intentionally. My birth month is October and not August as stated on my profile.
Pauline
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Calabar, Cross River, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Serious men only, too many fake
I am a simple, intelligent,humble, honest, loyal ,& a trust worthy Christian lady with a good heart. I am a Nigerian. I have a bachelor degree in Education science. I am single and ready to learn and settle down. I am God fearing. I am not rich, but i am contented with everything God blesses me with. I value people and don't use them. But pls, don't take my simplicity for granted. I hope when you eventually find me, you will be happy & obtain favour from the Lord.I love family and desire to have kids too My king & Crown, I know that you will praise God when we eventually meet. I love living a simply life and also love travelling and tying out new things.i am a happy lady with an infectious smile. Happy people make others happy.I love God with every part of being, in him I live, move and have my being.He is the very essence of my being.
JOY
Standard Member
Verified
43
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Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Passionate Loving Hardworking Romantic Godly Woman
I am very Passionate Enthusiastic Focus-Driven Committed Selfless Loving+Caring Woman who is looking forward to match with a man of same personality and quality. I Thrive to Fulfil my dreams+set goals+aspirations. I am an Open, honest, Smiling, beautiful Romantic young woman full of life and love a peaceful and happy environment, Enjoys and Value Honest and Indepth Communication, Family Oriented, Values Family Moments. She Enjoys Laughing and Cracking Fun Jokes and also loves Cuddling+Hugging+Holding Hands+Quality Time. I Love Cooking and trying out new recipes.
Massy
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47
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Birmingham, West Midlands, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Male 39 - 57
Looking for a life partner.
Explorer and Adventurer . Family oriented. Respectful and caring. Loves travelling and responsible as well as reliable honest individual who values that you get back what you put out there. I am not looking for a one night stand or a casual relationship. Can be shy at the beginning but easily open up to the right person. No games please. I am self sufficient and can look after myself well. I would love to give my time and effort to the right person. I hope one lucky guy can snatch this lucky girl out of here lol!. Thanks reading my profile.
Mposhe
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
Connect and see where this journey takes us
I'm always up for a new adventure, young at heart kind of woman, seeking a kind man to share life's joys, you'll often find me exploring the outdoors in my free time, whether it's shopping, hiking, evening walks. I also like traveling with a special fondness for experiencing new cuisines and cultures. Kindness and open mindedness are the qualities I value the most. Open to new possibilities and lots of fun.
Jacquelene
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42
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Westlands, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 50 - 87
Ready to Build a Beautiful Connection?
I’m a 41-year-old single mom with two amazing kids—a smart, adventurous 11-year-old son and a lively, spirited 4-year-old daughter—living in Nairobi. My life is full of love and laughter, but I’m ready to share it with someone special. I’m searching for a confident, kindhearted man (over 35) who is established in his career or business and secure in himself. If you’re the type of gentleman who knows the value of partnership and is open to building a life together filled with joy, growth, and shared goals, I’d love to hear from you. I appreciate a man who is thoughtful, fun-loving, and unafraid to embrace life’s adventures. Whether it’s exploring new places, sharing quiet evenings, or making memories with our families, I believe in living life to the fullest. If you’re a dad, I respect and admire present fathers who have built peaceful co-parenting relationships. Here’s what matters most to me: a kind and supportive connection free of unnecessary drama or negativity. I value mutual respect, emotional maturity, and the ability to uplift each other. If this speaks to you and you’re ready to create something extraordinary, don’t hesitate—I’d love to hear from you
Angie
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Kampala, Central Region, Uganda
Seeking:
Male 40 - 70
Looking for serious relationship
Am a good hearted lady,loving, caring and with a good sense of humor,I have true love but failed to find someone with true love on this site though still trying 🤞! Need a man with good sense of humour ready to share his life with me,it hurts to be on this site but only meet jokers, scammers,fake profiles,game players when am seriously looking for true love,happiness,caring man to love me & to be loved, am looking for a special honest man out there...I still believe in love and am here to try again my luck to meet a good serious man to love forever and ready for long term relationship full of passion 💞
Sunkesstt
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47
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 42 - 52
Researcher. Mandarin student. Blonde on weekends.
I'm not into nudes, and I'm not into sending money to help save some distressed pumas in some unnamed south american jungles.I also dont have any uncle in Tanzania who left a billion dollars needing to clear through customs. I'm eclectic and learning new things broadens my perspective. I'm also sapiosexual so i enjoy intelligent conversations. Nice to meet you all.
Michelle
Standard Member
48
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Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 47 - 60
Am passionate, honest and caring. 48yrs presently.
Am God fearing, accommodating, bold, kind, trustworthy and humble. I have a very good sense of humor, romantic and sexy. I'm 48 yrs old from Edo state, very fluent in English language. Am open to learning new things, I like adventures, cooking, making friends. Am busty, curvy with hips, lovely skin, pointed nose, sexy eyes, lips and a good kisser and lover. I keep it real, I like to be told the truth even if it hurts.
Helen
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Finding True Love
I'm a Christian that believe in true love. I work in the health sector and have passion for healthy living. I enjoy travelling to great destinations and cooking good food. I am very friendly, accommodating and respect honesty. I am not here for any games.
Cece
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Port Harcourt, Rivers, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 35 - 55
Welcome to my profile, please Read
Am intelligent,smart outspoken, beautiful open hearted well raised educated self reliance very well decipline hard working...am family oriented with good culture and values with a good sense of humor....if I am your kind of woman boss me up with a chat let's rock and roll.
Patty
Standard Member
Verified
44
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Port Harcourt, Rivers, Nigeria
Seeking:
45 - 55
I’d Truly Appreciate It If U Read My Profile First
I’m a God-fearing, down-to-earth Christian lady who loves to laugh, encourage others, and enjoy life’s simple blessings. My faith is the foundation of my life, and I strive to live each day with gratitude, kindness, and purpose. I enjoy cooking, singing, and listening to music, spending time with family and loved ones, and discovering new places. Whether it’s a quiet evening at home with a good book or an outing filled with laughter and taking of pictures. I appreciate both peace and adventure. I’m a professional by day and a passionate chef 👩🍳 by heart. I love nature, travel, adventures, sports, healthy living, and staying organized. Cleanliness and order matter to me. Integrity and honesty are very important to me. I value real connections with someone who knows what they want and is open to something genuine.
Tehilla
Standard Member
Verified
44
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 99
Let me be the sunshine of your life❤❤❤❤
Looking for a serious meaningful relationship.. I'm only here for serious guys from the age of 45years going up.. If you know that you here for fun and sex games please don't bother contacting me please if you not 45 years old and above don't bother contacting me.. Im not a rehabilitation centre for sexually frastrated badly raised men.. And guys from India, Pakistan, Algeria, Morocco, Egypt, Nigeria, Kenya, Ghana don't contact me please 🙏🙏🙏
Ivy
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Kampala, Central Region, Uganda
Seeking:
Male 30 - 55
Seeking companionship with fun and family orientat
I love to love, enjoy the fun side Of life. I want to do life to the fullest. I enjoy the outdoors, walk a lot and love nature. I don't own a pet but I love animals. I love water bodies yet I don't know how to swim😀I am seeking for a fun loving person, family oriented and someone who loves to travel. Someone who knows what he wants in life, and who is not afraid to take leads or just do life together. Truthfully I may not be able to have children, so I prefer someone to accept me the way I am. I will love you and not give you any cause to not believe in love.
Elle
Standard Member
40
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 60
Hey there 😉
Honest, loving, caring, independent. Self-sufficient, great sense of humor. I'm not looking for anyone pretending to be who they're not (scammers), you MUST do a video call if you're not ready don't bother texting me. I love adventure, traveling and reading books. I'm not a pornstar/nudist nor am I planning to be one so DON'T ask me for nudes or sex-chat videos (you're barking up the wrong tree). I know what I'm looking for exactly. Large and lovely Queen
Christine
Standard Member
44
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 48 - 55
Just Me!
My relationship with the Lord is my anchor and the center of my daily life. I’m a bit of a reserved soul who thrives on intellectual deep dives and meaningful family time. You can usually find me lost in the Word, dancing or reading a book at my leisure time. I particularly like to dance Salsa, Bachata and Konpa. I am also a bit of a travel enthusiast - currently dreaming of the beaches in Zanzibar. I'm looking for a man who loves Jesus first and isn't afraid of a conversation that goes beyond the surface. So, let's skip the small talk and share what's currently inspiring us.
Fundoh
Standard Member
42
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Lilongwe, Lilongwe, Malawi
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
Let's create our own love story!!!
I live for the beach, adventure and road trips - they're my therapy. I love music, dancing, cooking, eating good food and traveling. I prioritize peace, communication and fixing things through talking not fighting. I'm a generous and kind-hearted, co
Nubian_Princess
Standard Member
Verified
46
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Bulawayo, Bulawayo, Zimbabwe
Seeking:
Male 50 - 65
Please read my profile first before contacting me.
NB: If you are married, do not contact me. If you are younger than me, do not contact me. If you are shorter than me, do not contact me...And if you are a pervert, do not contact me✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾!!! An individualist who is elegant, classy, confident, sophisticated, exotically beautiful, unpretentious, free spirited, humble, down to earth, laid back and super organised. I love and appreciate the finer things in life. I enjoy meeting new people, socialising and networking, but at the same time, minding my own business. Other people's sh*t doesn't interest me. I'm a thinker who's very tactful and have a very sharp memory. An altruist with strength of character, veiled sensuality, incisive communication and shrewd logical thought. I carry myself with dignity and follow a strictly disciplined beauty routine. I devote as much time to good grooming as I do to my wardrobe and health. It's precisely this natural dedication to detail that keeps me looking stunning every time. I can't bear sloppiness and untidiness. I believe in quality and prefer light feminine scents and soft muted earth tones. My beauty comes from my dedication to and reverence for perfection. I'm a high achiever and always crave structure in my daily life. I'm blessed with an analytical mind and a natural ability for solving problems. I enjoy intellectual and practical pursuits, and I'm always driven by intelligence. While I'd take regular exercises for the sake of my health, I'm not a natural sportswoman. LIKES: Punctuality, dealing with details, making lists, a well stocked medicine cabinet, helping others, self improvement courses, grooming self and wearing well tailored clothes in muted colours and textures. DISLIKES: Crowds, noise, vulgarity, slovenliness, carelessness, dirt, hypocrisy, deceit, sitting still for a long time, disrupted schedules, any admission of weakness or failure, being obligated to others, brash/reckless people, those who move my personal things and people who whine and complain a lot. POSITIVE QUALITIES: I'm intelligent, efficient, reliable, kind, meticulous, diligent, precise, sensible, practical and helpful. CHALLENGES: I'm a perfectionist. Feel free to get in touch if you know you are "THE ONE"!!!
Busi
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 70
Is there still love out there, I mean real love .
Am a independent humble, caring, loving, patient, passionate, focused, ambitious, helpful, proactive, honest, single mum...outgoing, open-minded, love traveling and shopping and sports. I have 4 boys, though staying with the two younger ones.
Lavinia
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Verified
41
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Westlands, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 35 - 56
Pure heart
I am a tall, slender, athletic woman who is kind, social, down-to-earth, and caring. I play basketball in Kenya for a team in the National League, and I have a strong passion for sports, fitness, and living a healthy lifestyle. I appreciate the little things in life that many people often overlook. Simple gestures—like a hug before leaving for work or a kiss when coming home—mean a lot to me because they show love, care, and appreciation. When it comes to love, I wear my heart on my sleeve. I love deeply, sincerely, and wholeheartedly. I'm someone who values genuine connections, loyalty, and meaningful relationships. Get to know me, and I'm confident you won't regret it. I am here in search of true love—a partner with whom I can build a happy, lasting relationship, settle down, and eventually create a family of our own. I'm looking for someone who is willing to invest their time and effort into getting to know each other and seeing where a beautiful journey together might lead.
hi
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42
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Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Male 40 - 53
Waiting on my soul mate
Fun, love to laugh,open minded,blunt, curvy girl...I am not immigration, so please all non green card holders/ non citizens keep it moving .I need a man I don’t need to train boys to be Men!! Have compassion and be human not mean .. Am ready for positivity and just happiness anything else avoid me . Thanks 😊
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