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WILDTHOUGHTSBET
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24
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 75
Drink:
Don't drink
I KNOW MY SOULMATE IS OUT THERE AND I AM WAITING.
I view my freedom as a gift, a second chance to find the true love of my life. My goal mate and my soul mate, the one who makes me react whenever I hear his voice, see his face, or hold his hand. I am an accomplished, intelligent, very attractive, yo
Zama
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53
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 46 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
😇😇
am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write; I like to think, I like to dream; I like to talk, I like to listen. I like to see the sunrise in the morning, I like to see the moonlight at night; I like to feel the music flowing on my face, I like to smell the wind coming from the ocean. I like to look at the clouds in the sky with a blank mind, I like to do thought experiment when I cannot sleep in the middle of the night. I like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn, and snow in winter. I like to sleep early, I like to get up late; I like to be alone, I like to be surrounded by people.
Nomsa
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37
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Lenasia, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 57
Drink:
Don't drink
Spirit d' Afrique
9ether Goddess, grounded in African spirituality and enlightenment. earthing is important, be one with nature. I'm a cynophile. I have a charismatic personality, I command attention, my presence in a room is noticeable, I'm a special kind of likable. Some people find me approachable and some don't. My profile is verified and I don't need men I met a few minutes ago pressuring me for a video call, I'll video call in my own time and on my terms. Thank you! 💚
Mavis
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38
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for the special one!!
I am a very creative and active woman. I have many other interests, sometimes there is not enough time for me for them. You may ask what makes me special from all of them? I have a sincere heart and just looking into my eyes you can feel it. I consider that a task of a woman is to watch herself and to decorate the world! I dream of finding a man whom I can make happy; for some people even a small thing is enough to be happy. Maybe we already found each other. Write me and I will answer.
Omuhle
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27
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male
Drink:
Don't drink
I'm sweet, ambitious and thoughtful.
I am a hopeless romantic and always strive to believe in the good within everyone. I'm straight forward about my needs; and honest when I'm hurt. I am looking for an equally positive partner who loves to try new experiences and is a great; and open communicator.
T. M
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36
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Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 52
Drink:
Don't drink
Forever a realist
I'll keep it brief: To me friendships are as important as romantic relationships so thats my priority. I don't care about race, occupation, or even the number of kids a person has, but religion is a tricky one because I'm Christian and I would never want anyone to impose any of their beliefs on me just as much as I wouldnt impose mine on them. Accepting each other for who we are is paramount, mutual respect and understanding that none of us is a project that need to be worked on. About me: Lets get this out of the way for your peace of mind and mine, I am South African so if you believe in all these stereotypes about Africans I genuinely don't have time for that conversation, whatever you have heard about Africans from TV or whoever please don't come to me to fact check any of those silly stereotypes I'm not Google. I am looking for the same thing that everyone is looking for, a genuine connection, respect, kindness and just peace. It's not too much to ask right? Ill be honest, Im opinionated but I prefer to listen more than talk, I love people who know what they want in life and I respect that a lot. I work in an environment where we need to be serious and professional all the time but when I get off work I prefer to chill and be goofy. I like to keep things light and just love positive vibes in general, I absolutely hate drama and self-absorbed people. I just love laughing and cracking dry jokes. The rest you will just have to find out.
DIKELE
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53
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 46 - 66
Drink:
Don't drink
Lovely.
Chef at heart, bookworm by choice. I enjoy road trips. I find joy in creating new recipes, losing myself in stories, and exploring the unknown. Looking for someone who appreciates a home-cooked meal, a good book discussion, and spontaneous tr
Nellie
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 59
Drink:
Don't drink
kind hearted, loyal and committed.
I am a funny and kind-hearted individual who loves to travel and explore new places. I enjoy making people laugh and spreading positivity wherever I go. Let's embark on adventures together and create unforgettable memories, old fashioned, modest, I v
beaulay
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33
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Bedford, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 48
Drink:
Don't drink
Genuiness, communication and love
Hi, i'm Beaulay — a calm yet intriguing mix of brains, heart, and laughter 🎉. i believe in the power of seep conversations, good food 🍯( my cooking is legendary👌), and quality time with loved ones. Honestly and kindness are very important to me, and i truly value people who treat others with respect and courtesy. Please be nice—it cost nothing but means everything 💕
Pamela
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37
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Alberton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 75
Drink:
Don't drink
be yourself
I'm shy but easy to get along m hard worker i love to laugh and jokes with good of sense of humor like to traveling, hiking, camping mountains, i like to learn new things I'm humble and caring, honest, trustworthy, i hate lies, I'm open minded, I r
Londo
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39
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Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 36 - 58
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking forward to settle down with a husband..
A mother of 1 child,looking for my better half to start making a family and have another child and marry,,i believe in true love mentioned by GOD,im a down to earth person, raised in a village with kind personality,i am a submisive,humble and respectful woman who allows a Men to be the he'd and lead,please make me laugh and am simple to adapt to any change; culture,race,language & place,please open your heart for me and be able to communicate when addressing matters.
Esme
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51
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Stellenbosch, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 65
Drink:
Don't drink
I'm new here
I'm from South Africa 🇿🇦 please if you not serious don't even send me I like you don't have time for fake and scammers life to short to play with others feelings I'm very honest love to communicate and giving advice im a very gud listener I'm a God
Nolleen
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58
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 57
Drink:
Don't drink
May God Write Our Love Story
I love to sing as l find relief &comfort when l sing. l recorded 2 songs on a CD wishing to record more songs. l am kind, unselfish, very reliable hates lies for they always catch up with you when you have forgotten what you lied about previously. l thank God for life, l cherish love, happiness and peace in my family and l hate drama. I am seriously searching for a God fearing man done playing games. l am involved in meals on wheels projects, l enjoy making a difference in less fortunate communities. John 3-16 "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only son, that whosoever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life!" Love is a verb in action, l am ready to settle down for God says in Genesis 2-18 "It is not good for a man to be alone, hecreated a helper for Adam that was Eve!" No man is an island, everyone needs a companion. I pray that God will write our love story.
Katlego
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30
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 25 - 40
Drink:
Don't drink
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I'm an open minded lady , Easy to talk to, Respectful and have a great sense of humor. I'm very family oriented and hardworking, I'm currently studying towards a bachelor's degree in GAD majoring in Political Science. Besides studying and working part time, I enjoy spending time with family, Gym, hiking, cooking and reading.With me, what you see is what you get – no surprises or drama.
Sharifa
Standard Member
Verified
33
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East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 61
Drink:
Don't drink
Tired of Online Dating? Let me b ur testimony
Iam Shifah physically fit and outgoing. I was born in Kampala Uganda, and that’s where most of my family is. But I finally had to move out here in South Africa for my job at my absolute best institution in the world🥰 (Maybe I’ll tell you more about it 😉
Irene
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57
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 53 - 64
Drink:
Don't drink
Making friends from50years to 60years only.
Loving,honest ,humerous and respectful.I know what I want and I believe you do as well. Without picture on your profile dont bother sending me a message. Any one below 50 please don't send me a message. Don't try to negotiate by saying age is just a number
Rhoda
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35
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Kleinmond, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 84
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for a man to share my world with
I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and positive, open-minded, hot, and passionate woman for one man). My goal is to find true love and create a harmonious relationship! My heart is full of emotions that I want to share.
izzy
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30
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 29 - 40
Drink:
Don't drink
Hi 👋I am a hopeless romantic and always strive to believe in the good within everyone. I'm straightforward about my needs, and honest about feelings. I’m looking for someone who is equally positive and loves to try new experiences and is a great and open communicator. I’m Christian so you must be too🙃. more about me: I’m ambitious- know what I want and get what I want I’m educated - two degree (and counting) Medical Doctor by profession I’m in my feminine era (yes I’m girly) I would like to believe I’m witty I’m big on family and would love to build one of my own , I don’t have kids yet , but would love to have them some day.
Maria
Standard Member
41
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 58
Drink:
Don't drink
you can't do life alone
Am a good, honest, person who like to commit to one person, I don't mind long distance relationship, because my work keeps me busy, am not looking for a stepfather for my children, don't be scared and run, once you know me you won't regret it, just t
chatty
Standard Member
Verified
45
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Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 59
Drink:
Don't drink
Please No Nigerian don't try I Beg thank you
Easy going and understanding. Always looking for business opportunities. I like quality time with family taking walks,playing board games. I love kids that i wouldn't mind starting a day care in future everywhere I go I get along with every age
christine
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59
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 65
Drink:
Don't drink
An ambitious, goal oriented lady, who loves to tra...
I'm a down to earth lady , very ambitious, goal driven, caring, hardworking, trustworthy, loving , cheerful and easy to get along with. I am family oriented and enjoy traveling. I'm looking for a long term friendship to create memories with!
Zoe
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30
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 25 - 40
Drink:
Don't drink
I am looking for a serious relationship♥️.
IG: zothandomzizi I’m a creative mixed media artist from sunny Durban, South Africa 🎨✨. I love letting my imagination run wild in every space I enter! Family is everything to me, and deep down, I’m a hopeless romantic 💕. While I’ve made peace with being on my own, I still dream of finding someone special. Whether it’s in my art, relationships, or daily life, I always bring a spark of vibrancy, creativity, and passion into everything I do 🌸💫.
Anita
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63
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 52 - 65
Drink:
Don't drink
l like to have someone from 65to 99
Im Anita living in South Africa a Zimbabwean born lm 64 lm a very loving and caring person love people lm looking for a long-term relationship l need someone who is serious because l see some came here for fun lm serious for my age lv got no time to play games l don't smoke no drink l need someone who going to make me happy and make him happy too,if you send me a message please check my profile first and the age.Please before sending me a message read my profile properly because l see some don't read it carefully according to the age restriction and if you are a scamer don't even try stay away and if you are not ready for this don't waste my time let's be realistic on what we both want.
Princess N
Standard Member
32
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
A lovin kind heart lookin for companionship
So describing myself, I am a kind hearted, easygoing type and I am areligious woman I love everything about God, , I have good sense of humor, I live life to the full with a sense of adventure, I love traveling and having sweet romance, I embrace new cultures and I love reading books get in touch to know more about me
Julie
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60
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 61 - 68
Drink:
Don't drink
Authentic, powerful woman of God,
I’m a retired Police Officer with 37 years of service, I am a widow for 16yrs now and live alone since. I live in my own house and believe in being independent and taking care of my self and never ask money from anyone. I like simple life that is not complicated. After so many twists and turns in life, I came to this site not out of curiosity but out of conviction. I am down to earth, humble, reliable, simple but decent and don’t appreciate lies and deceit, honest, sincere and straightforward, I’m not a fan of games and drama. I believe In real connections and looking for someone who values trust,authenticity and meaningful conversations. I am here to find my one true partner, the person I can build a life with and share all little moments that matter. I fully identify with the word discipline as I consider that to be one of the most important quality for achieving success in any task I undertake.After years of doubt, I deeply value possibility of finding someone special, someone that we can share cuddles,kisses, deep conversations, look deep into each other’s eyes and our hearts sing a song with one melody. i dont really care about the person’s physique and his wealth, what I really value is that you are willing to embark on new adventures and experience with me and you will never ask me for inappropriate pictures then we can be able to chat.
Nthaby
Standard Member
Verified
34
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 80
Drink:
Don't drink
i dnt hv time for everyday greetings,know ur story
Fun loving hands on mother, very open minded and adventurous,loves traveling and exploring,A foodie that eats in small potions,well mannered,raised well,I believe in love ,and all the princess treatment that comes with it ,you mention sex and nudes pictures, il mention money so we can both feel uncomfortable 😂
Blessed
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43
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Westville, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
Drink:
Don't drink
What you see is what you get. African Goddess 💎
A very simple but fun person to be with ,with a very strong Christian background a true African Queen , to my king but also a very straight forward person who can't tolerate nonsense hence in a very polite and respectful manner not hash at all .but can't stand lies.A beautiful woman inside-out.❣️
Koketjo
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38
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Polokwane, Limpopo, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 88
Drink:
Don't drink
I’m a caring, positive woman who enjoys meaningful conversations and simple joys in life. I believe every great relationship begins with genuine friendship and trust. I’m here to meet someone kind-hearted who enjoys laughter, honesty, and real connection. I love learning about different cultures and believe love has no color — it’s all about how two souls connect.
Nandi
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37
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Adelaide, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
"Sunny soul seeking love"
I consider myself to be a honest and truthful person and expect the same in return, I'm not wealthy and don't want to take advantage of someone and i don't expect you to attempt to deceive me play me or to take advantage of me too. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the biginning that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting feelings hurt
Lucy
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27
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 99
Drink:
Don't drink
Video call sounds good to me
I don't know how to wear masks and pretend, I prefer to be honest and real, even if it's not always easy. In relationships, friendship and life in general, I value openness and depth of feelings. Romance occupies a special place in my soul. I believe in warm words, gentle touches. For me, it's not just words that are important, but actions that speak of love, care and attention. I like to create coziness, share warmth and make the world a little brighter. I always try to support those who are nearby, I know how to listen and empathize, because it is important for me that my loved ones feel needed and loved.
Selin
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49
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Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 48 - 65
Drink:
Don't drink
Trust and hope in the Lord all things are possible...
Am an African lady from South Africa 🇿🇦 single and God fearing.I value mutual respect and understanding believe in truth and honesty.Am transparent,authentic,caring and loving.Laughter is my middlename and very much sincere.Am ambitious and empathe
Buli
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54
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 63
Drink:
Don't drink
Serious Relationship
I am a simple, humble, straight forward, understanding, and reasonable patient person. I am 51 years old and have no much time to waste, I will only respond to serious people with photos, within the age range I specified in my profile. I am a Christian, and have high respect for people. I am looking forward to meet someone to share my life with; to grow, learn, laugh, and cry together. I am very loving, fun and love good life. I am not interested in a type that walks out of a relationship when there are problems/misunderstanding...let's sort it together Sir. I am looking to be a partner in a relationship, not a submissive admirer. Respect is reciprocal, I give it to you...I want it back. Communication is the key, I will communicate and I expect the same from you. Appreciation is a noble thing to do, we are both important in a relationship, we bring different inputs. I cannot be compared with ex partner/s..it wasn't me...I cannot compare you too...this is a new project with its own configuration. I can listen to your past years experience/s...I also have mine...let's move on while learning from them. Don't ask me what's the purpose of my life...that's a mystery for me...I'll die an infant in that topic. Don't ask me if I am a Godly woman.. that can be complicated...All I know is that I have reverence for God.... and on this platform I am just a single woman looking for a relationship with a willing partner. I love cooking....interior space concepts...travelling...sport...music. I love working smart...I value and respect time....I love ongoing self development...
neldronel
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45
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 36 - 55
Drink:
Don't drink
Read my profile before sending a flirt
First of all I am a Christian and will love to be in contact with someone who have the same believes. And secondly I have a mental illness called generalised and social anxieties that causes panic attacks sometimes, hope to be friends or date someone one who atleast have an understanding what that may be. I tried to hide it most of my life but hiding only makes it worse.
Scilla
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Verified
59
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
Genuine, would love to meet same
I am a divorced single parent with two grown girls whom l do not live with. l have a good sense of humor… 😉 I like to read mostly action and romantic books but have decided to expand my interests to educational books and biographies and keep up with many things–politics, social issues, culture, travels, people. I am a bit shy at first but value humour, being able to laugh at yourself, being able to communicate, staying and eating healthy (new year's resolution), and the freedom to think outside the box. I also like watching movies, sports esp. tennis athletics and swimming, hearing people’s stories, and simply talking with people. I am not a perfect person by any means. I still have work to do. With God’s help, I am striving to be the best person I can be. God Bless, I wish you success in finding your match.
Fush
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62
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 60 - 68
Drink:
Don't drink
I lost my number, can I have yours?
Before you read my profile, my last two pictures are for fun AI generated 😄 I am a fun person I want to enjoy my last golden years. I am a lover of health and fitness, indoor life and outdoor. Well traveled I take care of myself. I can work anywhere in the world with my laptop and good wifi while enjoying time with the man of my dreams. I'm calm in spirit, rich in wisdom, and still a little spicy when it counts! I believe a woman carries something sacred: warmth, softness, and that quiet magic you only understand if you’ve lived a little. I’m well-mannered, drama-free, and I know how to enjoy life — whether it’s good food, soulful chats, or dancing in the kitchen just because. I would like to travel to Europe again and see the historical building.
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