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Brenda
44 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 50
it's a risk not to take a risk in life.
friendly, patient, caring, kind, forgiving, funny stubborn as in never give up in challenges. I speak out if not happy,I like we resolve differences before night fall, am a practitioner for ECD ( foundational phase). want to experience looking after the elderly.(even for my partner I would love to)
khosi
40 • Nelspruit, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 56
The heart is ready, Just Missing My Knight🤍
I am ambitious & Balanced,driven by purpose, guided by values. I love meaningful work, family time, and self-growth. I’m here for authentic connection , not games. Let’s inspire each other and build a beautiful future. I will be in Washington for holiday
Nondumiso
41 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 58
Guess What? Your Search Ends Here! 😉
Hello! I’m Nondu from South Africa. I have a passion for adventure, whether it’s discovering new destinations or embracing unique experiences. I cherish authentic connections and enjoy sharing laughs and engaging conversations. I’m seeking someone who also loves to travel and is open to embarking on exciting new journeys. Let’s explore where this adventure leads us!
Pearl
48 • Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 52 - 65
Mature & established men aged 53 and above ONLY
Iam a cheerful, respectful, and kind-hearted lady who believes that life is meant to be enjoyed and shared with good company. I am originally from Zambia and have made South Africa my home. I have been an educator for over 20 years, a journey that
Ross
40 • eSikhawini, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 69
Dont forget to smile no matter what situation. 😊
Am a good person, l like decorating the house, i enjoy taking care of my family and the people around me,i work very hard, i also love travelling and experiencing new things and i love gardening and the dogs, Am a jovial person always optimistic ☺️
Jodae
41 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 36 - 55
Prayer, Priorities, Peace, Positivity and Patience...
41 and feeling good. Grateful for what I have and for what’s to come. I’m a mom of boys. At my age I’m no longer a snack. I’m a happy meal. I come with toys and kids. So if you don’t like children, move along. I’m feminine and fierce. I know what I want and I make it happen. I lead with care and desire a man who can provide, protect and take pride in supporting his woman. Also please note, I don’t do NUDES but if you’re lucky, I might show you my favorite lipstick. If a man truly desires me, he’ll find a way to meet me face to face.
lily rose
46 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 61
“Exploring Love, Life and Everything in Between”
I’m a 45-year-old professional woman with a passion for fitness, whether it’s hitting the gym or taking relaxing walks. I cherish time spent with family and friends and love diving into a good book. I have a great sense of humor and pride myself on being sincere and kind.
salome
43 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 70
Eat,play, love and adore!!
STRICTLY NO BELOW 40 YEARS. READ MY PROFILE! I'm an energetic, kind and creative soul, who appreciate s the simple things in life.I love to write, working out, yoga,pilates, travel,cook and meeting people,but I'm always up for a new adventure.I'm looking for a thoughtful,compassionate man who believes it's never to late to start something new. Are you real? Scammers and below 40 years are BLOCKED immediately.
Nellie
45 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 59
kind hearted, loyal and committed.
I am a funny and kind-hearted individual who loves to travel and explore new places. I enjoy making people laugh and spreading positivity wherever I go. Let's embark on adventures together and create unforgettable memories, old fashioned, modest, I v
Londo
40 • Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 36 - 58
Looking forward to settle down with a husband..
A mother of 1 child,looking for my better half to start making a family and have another child and marry,,i believe in true love mentioned by GOD,im a down to earth person, raised in a village with kind personality,i am a submisive,humble and respectful woman who allows a Men to be the he'd and lead,please make me laugh and am simple to adapt to any change; culture,race,language & place,please open your heart for me and be able to communicate when addressing matters.
Eshell
41 • Tzaneen, Limpopo, South Africa
Seeking: Male 35 - 58
I'm not here for games.
Love to read, travelling, fun and outgoing.. A very hard working woman. Family oriented. I'm willing to relocate. I'm not here for fun, so please do not text me if you just want to sex chat with African women. I don't do that. I don't do games. Atleast be able to hold a conversation down.
Chihera
40 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 35 - 55
COULD YOU BE THE ONE I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR?!🙈
First & foremost; I'm a mom to a beautiful 11 year old girl. I love her to the moon & back. Yeah, I'm a certified mommy! I love the outdoors, nature walking, fishing, soccer(I'm a staunch Arsenal supporter), cooking, reading, photography, trying out different restaurants, shopping, learning languages, visiting historical sites, museums & art galleries. I love listening to RnB, hip-hop, contemporary jazz & soul music. I'm a sophisticated, smart, mature, humble, loving, honest, sociable, down to earth & fun to be around kinda person😊
ArWen
44 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 46 - 56
Infallible Hope
There MUST be a reason why I have found this site :) (Here's to Hoping) I am open, honest and direct not to mention considerate :-) ...Rather playful with an award winning sense of humor :D ... A free spirit... A rather delightful girly girl...(Promise)... ...oh ye and very very feminine
AuntB
48 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 55 - 99
WISER,SOFTER ,MORE INTENTIONAL, LET'S CONNECT
Please read until to the end! A little introverted ,a good listener. A single mother of 2 grown-up children, a down-to-earth person who appreciate small things, good food, good conversation and peaceful energy..By day I'm focused on my daily work, by evening I enjoy relaxing listening to music, reading or workout,I'm in this site looking for a real, honest connection-no time wasters Please...TIME IS PRECIOUS TO ME! My biggest fear is to connect with a man that is soo poor in love, that all he has is money,Im not here for materialistic Send me a message if you love good laugh and want to get to know each other.
NLM
42 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 42 - 54
Shy, introvert but open minded
I'm looking for something permanent here so if you here for games Im not a play ground. I value honesty, open book kind of a person because I'm the same, and communication. If you think checking on a woman everyday isn't important please pass my profile. I love to be given attention because once I commit to a person I go all in and I give as much attention, not to say I'm being clingy no lol...
Liv🧘‍♀️
46 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 55 - 65
A day in my size 6 shoes 👠
In tune with myself, loving and observing the beautiful journey of life🤗. I have come to learn that balance ☯️🧘‍♀️Is key. Finding oneself as in knowledge of Self shall open doors to deeper Spiritual connections with other positive energies. We all have incarnated into LOVE and at that we are Beings of LOVE, if only we allow ourselves to🔥… I am an easy going Nature lover💚. I wear my hats ( role’s) in this timeline with dignity, kindness and respect. I value honesty, humility and self respect of which I demand from myself first and in that way it is reflected back to me. Lots of LOVE to give, laughter and appreciation of the simple things in life🤗🌸… My health and well being are my wealth. I steer away from lab food’s and judge not those who prefer that🙏🏾.. Much to say, if you are interested in being engaged further… well, step into my space😂🤗
Maria
42 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 58
you can't do life alone
Am a good, honest, person who like to commit to one person, I don't mind long distance relationship, because my work keeps me busy, am not looking for a stepfather for my children, don't be scared and run, once you know me you won't regret it, just t
chatty
46 • Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 59
Please No Nigerian don't try I Beg thank you
Easy going and understanding. Always looking for business opportunities. I like quality time with family taking walks,playing board games. I love kids that i wouldn't mind starting a day care in future everywhere I go I get along with every age
Barbz
40 • Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 65
looking for a long term relationship 💞🙏🏽🫶🏽
I’m a fun, loving and adventurous person with a passion for exploring the world and trying new things. I’m hardworking and driven, but I also make time for what really matters, like creating meaningful connections and making memories. Soft-spoken, understanding, and compassionate, I value open communication and kindness. I’m looking for someone who shares a love for life, is ready to build something real, and is open to all the adventures life has to offer🫶🏽 🌎 💞🙏🏽🤞✌️
Siwe
44 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 73
Hi! I'm a kind, caring, and hardworking woman from South Africa who values honesty, loyalty, and meaningful connections. I enjoy good conversations, laughter, and spending time with the people I care about. I'm looking for a man who is respectful, genuine, and ready for a serious relationship. I believe the best relationships are built on trust, communication, and supporting each other's dreams. In my free time, I enjoy learning new things, taking care of my home, and appreciating life's simple moments. If you're kind-hearted, family-oriented, and looking for a real connection, I'd love to get to know you.
Blessed
44 • Westville, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 55
What you see is what you get. African Goddess 💎
A very simple but fun person to be with ,with a very strong Christian background a true African Queen , to my king but also a very straight forward person who can't tolerate nonsense hence in a very polite and respectful manner not hash at all .but can't stand lies.A beautiful woman inside-out.❣️
Lisa
48 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 42 - 59
Lisa for a loving and caring man
I am a caring person who respect people as they are. I am an open person with no hidden agenda what I say is what I mean. I don't pretend when I don't feel or like something. I believe in communication respectfully. I am a person of indoors but do out sometimes. I like nature , mountains, rivers just a place where nature is communicating a lot.
Lindiwe
41 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 57
I am very extrovert.i like to be in door most times .my outing I pref vacations not adventures style,I goes to church on Sundays.I also enjoy good food,I like to look beautiful and comfortable,I drink occasionally not much .willing to explore nothi
neldronel
46 • Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 36 - 55
Read my profile before sending a flirt
First of all I am a Christian and will love to be in contact with someone who have the same believes. And secondly I have a mental illness called generalised and social anxieties that causes panic attacks sometimes, hope to be friends or date someone one who atleast have an understanding what that may be. I tried to hide it most of my life but hiding only makes it worse.
Connie
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 69
Genuine match where are you
I’m a woman who believes in growth, purpose, and genuine connection. At my core, I’m deeply compassionate, creative, and driven by the desire to make a meaningful difference in people’s lives. I value sincerity, emotional maturity, and communication — I appreciate relationships where both partners are equally invested in understanding, support, and mutual respect. I live with intention. My work in community development and human-centered spaces reflects how much I care about people and transformation — but I also value balance. I love laughter, good conversation, peaceful spaces, and shared moments that feel honest and real.
Helen
46 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 65
I am a 44 year old .I am not a sex object ,I am looking for long-term relationship not dating for sex .I am a believer and had never been married .If you are looking for sex object just pass.I have two personalities , introvert and extrovert depending on my mood .I don't waste time with unverified or unsatisfactory profiles .Again I am not here for sex dating .read my profile again
Mpho
46 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 70
what you see is what you get☺️☺️
I'm loving, caring, romantic, spontaneous, adventurous, love traveling, im a good cook, good baker, love life in general, try me you won't regret knowing me, im waiting for you babe, let's take this journey together, I will give you the love you deserve, ♥️♥️ Come babe, come♥️♥️♥️
Zoe
48 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 47 - 66
Im a loyal,honest,real woman
Im a real serious woman looking for a serious relationship anywhere in the world.I am from South Africa and its my home Country ,residing in a beautiful Cape town.I am long time ready to love ...where are you?...forever u:-)).Please i must not beg u for a video call or it must not be an issue to video call each other.Thank you
Fredah
42 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 59
Committed.
Down to earth, I enjoy cooking, taking walks, watching movies or just trying new things, I am entrepreneurial though I haven't been in business for some time, therefore I don't have the means as yet to travel to you, I value family and life creating good memories with my partner and kids, For me honesty and loyalty is what strengthens a relationship, not necessarily finance, i am a very honest woman who values honesty and trust... And above All I Love Jesus Christ.
mel
41 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 35 - 55
I won't answer if you don't have a picture
My passion for fitness drives me to hit the gym regularly and keep my body in shape. Being an outdoor enthusiast, I love exploring nature and all the adventures it offers. I am seeking a special someone to share my life with - someone who is loyal and supportive. I am a kind-hearted and affectionate person who is ready to find their soulmate. Let's start as friends and see where the journey takes us.
Tinah
41 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 45
I’m a passionate and caring person
An adventurous down to earth and open minded African mom of one.I am blessed already😂.I love cooking and baking and enjoy home made meals😋.sometimes staying indoors and being lazy with my man gives me peace. I love attention and value communication so much .I am a hard working person because that's how i was raised as an African woman 😏little things and effort make me happy.
Lady
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: 35 - 76
i am gonna video call you to make sure its you
i am straight.dont know why many people are asking me that d9nt explain also.am looking for a cultured man to dedicate their life to me, if you live out of the country don't text me unless you have the money travel and come meet me not on a sexual basis. I know how sex tourists sound like and i can put up with your conversations' but when am bored you will be blocked coz then i cant keep faking it.i want a man in search of a wife. If am to relocate toyon then you have to commit to help me find a job. If you want to relocate to south Africa you have to be ready to face rejection of employers so best you have a skill and get self employed like me being two foreigners in a land like this. I dont have skype,if you can't give out your what's app number then definitely you are too good for me.i prefere to stay away from Americans...too frantic and superficial it's kinda of annoying...I just want a normal guy seeking 1 woman to marry not indulge in phone pleasures we all can do that with a million people am just not gonna be on that list for you
Tk
43 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 42 - 70
Im seeking lifetime husband ,partner
Im a born again christian, im respectifully, adventurous, love cofee,hiking,extrovert, love going church, im a family oriented, single mother of two children, i love walk,Sexy, Im not lover of Cats,im allergic, Im a lover of dog,i have birds,fish, I
Layla
40 • Randfontein, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 36 - 58
Im quiet down to earth very respectful I'm more of a introvert.Loves singing movies listening to music and going to Church.Im looking for a guy who can be my bestie my someone I can go and grow with. Communication is very important to me so if you no
Cakes
43 • Newcastle, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 58
🤎🤍
I'm a black South African Law student who is hopeless romantic. I have a laid back personality, I'm kind, hygienic, loving, trustworthy, have no kids and have never been married before. I've been single for over a year now. My studies are taking lot of my time and I don't usually go out to meet new people, that might be the reason why I'm single for this long. I'm patiently waiting for my significant other.

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