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Racheal
Platinum Member
47
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Lakewood, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Male 47 - 60
Nigerians , Ghana and Gambia kindly don’t text me.
Outgoing
Irene
Standard Member
40
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Male 42 - 70
Kindhearted & Ready for Something Real
I'm a proud mom to an amazing kid who keeps my heart full and my life grounded. I value stability, laughter and a good conversation. Life has been a journey and I've learnt to appreciate the little things; a spontaneous adventure or a genuine connect
"Em"
Standard Member
49
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Redding, California, United States
Seeking:
Male 47 - 67
Hello! I hope you're here with genuine intentions, because I sure am. I'm not interested in anyone fake, dishonest, manipulative, or out to sell a dream. If that’s you, please swipe left. I'm a free-spirited, independent, professional woman who doesn’t entertain drama or nonsense. I'm grounded, self-aware, and living a whole life, and I’m looking to meet a mature, handsome man (yes, I said handsome!) who’s ready to walk this road with me and see where it leads. I’m looking for someone honest. If you like to lie around all day and lack drive, please swipe left. I take great care of myself, feel comfortable in my skin, and love romance — especially when there's real chemistry involved. I'm also a proud mom to two amazing young adults (24 and 21) who are thriving and independent. I’m affectionate, love to laugh, and genuinely care about people. I enjoy good company, energy, and times, with no room for drama. And let me be clear: If you're a control freak, impersonator, con man, or someone looking for a woman to take care of you and your baggage ,please keep it moving. Also, if you’ve viewed my profile more than once and still haven’t said hello… yeah, that’s kind of weird 😄 I hope I didn’t scare off the good ones — just trying to keep it honest. If you're here for the right reasons, let’s connect. I’m in no rush — taking it slow, enjoying the moment, and open to seeing where things go. I like beautiful, romantic, and productive conversations- not a time waster😊
matilda
Standard Member
40
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Kansas City, Kansas, United States
Seeking:
Male 50 - 80
single and open minded
I have been alone for a few years and I long to find a sincere man to spend my life with. I am intelligent, considerate, gentle and caring character. I'm considerate and thoughtful with a kind heart. If you get close to me, you will see my smile every day. I do not want play around, I want to settle down as soon as possible. I hope you help me finish my single life.
Joy
Standard Member
40
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Bellevue, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Male 41 - 53
Made to receive love
Looking to build a solid relationship with a long term Agenda.Walk into love with my soul-mate.On Weekends, You’ll Find Me: Out in nature, soaking up some sun. Golfing , Planning my next trip—whether local or international. Enjoying deep, thoughtful conversations with friends and family. Unwinding with something creative or adventurous. What I’m Looking For: I’m seeking a man who’s as ambitious and goal-oriented as I am. Someone who values loyalty, honesty, and integrity—because those are non-negotiable for me. You should love to travel, whether it’s exploring new spots nearby or globe-trotting across continents. I’m not looking to have more children, so if you’re on the same page, that’s a big plus. Let’s enjoy life, build something beautiful together, and make unforgettable memories. Fun Fact: I can pack for a weekend trip in under 30 minutes—challenge me! Deal-breakers: Dishonesty, lack of ambition, or someone who isn’t ready to build a real connection. I’m all about honesty and integrity.I am a Kenyan living in Washington.
E
Standard Member
42
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Bowie, Maryland, United States
Seeking:
Male 38 - 48
Feminine, intellectual, playful, and caring lady who has a wide range of interests in hobbies, topics, music, and movies. A well-rounded understanding of the world and of people. I value honesty, respect, my religious and cultural values, family, and communication. I am goal-oriented, and I like neat, clean, and beautiful environments. I love the beach and tranquility.
Angie
Standard Member
41
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Gilbert, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
I’m a caring, loyal soul who want real connection
First, I'm a proud mum of 2 adorable kids(a daughter and a son).I'm a divorced women with no baby daddy dramas. No co-parenting. I'm a Kenyan by birth and residence. I’m a caring, loyal, and God-fearing woman who enjoys reading, cooking, traveling, m
Millie
Standard Member
43
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Des Moines, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Male 45 - 68
I am in for good times, finer things in life
Okhasia here, a fitness enthusiast, I work out at least 3 times a week. I like jogging in the morning, I do at least 6 miles. I like to cycle and do aerobics on my own when I have no time for gym. I am an excellent cook. still journing in this trip of knowledge acquisition… who said learning is a life long process?
Jay
Standard Member
46
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Male 25 - 60
READ MY PROFILE BEFORE CONTACTING ME
I live in the United States in Los Angeles , I’m a loctician , I am looking for a man who is established, independent, and not seeking someone to take care of him. I want a man who is ready and able to take charge and lead . 🚫 Please do not message me if: • You are not attractive • If You are under 6 feet tall. • if You have a bald head. • if you can't hold your own in life please Do not message me and waste my time Let’s save each other from unnecessary headaches and wasting each others time Please respect my boundaries. Thank you.
lovetta
Standard Member
47
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New York, New York, United States
Seeking:
Male 35 - 60
Attractive, intelligent and strong minded lady.
Let me start by saying, only write if u are in Europe or in the U.S.A. I have been told there are a lot of scammers here ( men pretending to be women) . Rest assured with me, I am only looking for real love, I do not need nor want ur money for anything . With that being said, let me tell u a bit about muself. I like Intelligent conversations, education wise I have a post master degree, I have great cooking skills, I love to travel, walk, football, looking for a real Viking who knows how to make the most of this beautiful life. We will laugh, build, plan, work together and have very special times. I am extremely strong and know what I want, so if u r looking for nude pictures and other frivolous things, pls look elsewhere. Looking for serious, prosperous relationship only.
Elle
Standard Member
44
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Coral Springs, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Male 35 - 55
Being the Yin to my Yang requires humility!
I smile with my eyes closed ☺️ I am , loving, sensitive, passionate, compassionate intelligent , confident in my own skin and know what I am looking for and have no time or energy to waste on someone wanting to play games or someone that doesn’t know the value of a woman! Please don’t bother me if you’re just on this site to date as many women as possible at one time. (I am Not desperate and you being a player doesn’t turn me on)! No Married Men please THANX!
Ezinwanyi
Standard Member
48
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Baldwin Park, California, United States
Seeking:
Male 41 - 55
Seeking a Friend
I'm a loving, caring, unselfish person that's looking for friendship. I'm also adventurous enough to try an online dating site to do so. I enjoy cooking, traveling, shopping, laughing, and having fun. I love my heritage and learning new things.
Lynne
Standard Member
49
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Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Male 50 - 60
Ready to move forward.
if you dont have answers in your profile, please DO NOT contact me. I will NOT respond. You will be blocked & deleted. The age listed is incorrect. I am 57. Divorced waiting for Boaz. Christian woman, lives God, family and friends in th that order. 3 adult children, does not want anymore children, Loves all genres of music, traveling abroad and domestically, sporting events, comedy and theatre. Love to laugh and enjoy life to the fullest. Will disclose more later.
Brenda
Standard Member
42
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Ocala, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Male 38 - 50
Hello there looking a man who is honest n mature.
I am woman who love God and spending time with family and friends,i love staying indoors,outdoors especially out in nature but i enjoys outings as well with fun loving people,i respect n appreciate people that to me comes natural,i enjoy talking to J
Re-Re
Standard Member
48
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Redlands, California, United States
Seeking:
Male 35 - 45
Hershey Kiss!
Hello, I'm a 44 year young african american woman. I live in the U.S. I'm a busy mom of 3 who enjoys spending time with my family, and friends. I also like cooking, and a fine glass of wine. I'm open to new adventures, and I am a spontaneous person.
Tracy
Standard Member
49
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Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Male 46 - 99
I am a good bad girl next door!
Hi all and thanks for reading my profile, I'm a nice caring lady who is very kind, patient and a very down to earth person who is looking for their prince. I enjoy going for long road trips and dining out with the man if my dreams. I don't look at people's skin color as personality and respect for each other is more important to me.
Queenth
Standard Member
45
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Bangor, Maine, United States
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Not interested in contacts from WestAfrica & A...
It’s easier to ask me:) Am a 42year old global citizen hoping for a meaningful connection with someone towards a possibility of a long term commitment. P.s Kindly read my profile before contacting me and don’t bother if you have no pics on here. Only interested in mature, descent, honest gentlemen genuinely looking to find Love!
April
Standard Member
49
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Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
Don't ask me to download whats app?No
My bday is in March not October....the site put that smh lbs.I have no kids.Im a hard worker and want the same in my mate.I like different types of music.Anything else you like to know just ask etc. If you are older than 55 please do not message me!(I don't want no old ASS man!)
NEW
Mercy
Standard Member
43
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
44 - 66
READ MY PROFILE
Passionate woman who appreciates the beauty in people and life. After 2 years of being single, it's time to find someone to share adventures, from traveling to exploring local gems. Not here for casual hookups or games—looking for a meaningful connec
tina
Standard Member
42
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Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Male 41 - 62
A good profile heading should be concise, informat
I'm a romantic, and I'm looking for someone who's as interested in a long-term relationship as I am. Three words to describe me: adventurous, optimistic, spontaneous. I work in tech, so I'm always open to new possibilities. Seeking casual dates and lots of fun.
Besty💕
Standard Member
42
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Brentwood, New York, United States
Seeking:
Male 38 - 58
Down to earth, simple and hear to meet my soulmate
I am a Federal parastatals under law enforcement, Single, Christian, black woman from Africa, I am hopelessly romantic and always strive to believe in the good in others. I'm straightforward about my needs, and honest when I feel hurt. I am looking for an equally positive partner who loves to try new experiences and is a great and open, full of empathy and owner of a giant heart❤️ in which there is only pure and honest love. I decided to give myself the opportunity to open my heart again to love after staying dating for 5 years. I love diversity & to learn new cultures and I am only interested in trying love outside my race this time.
Queen
Standard Member
44
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Huntersville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Male 46 - 70
Highly intelligent humbled honest Loving Blessed
Caring, loving love the Lord highly intelligent very smart creative respectful honest trustworthy drama free life, easy spirit very laid back old fashioned raised beauty. Ready & willing to settle with the right person. I'M very new to online da
Lina
Standard Member
45
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Silver Spring, Maryland, United States
Seeking:
Male 44 - 64
Natural and Happy.
Am a jovial lady, I work and pay my bills..and enjoy traveling, drives,Dinner at home or restaurants But am in indoor lady , I like cooking and watching movies , I read a lot too.Enjoy listening to Blues and jazz...Family is Everything..When we connect I will know...If from Africa just Kenyans or South Africans..
Annmarie
Standard Member
Verified
47
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College Park, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Sweet, Sexy and humble that's me!!!
I'm Spontaneous,Intelligent and fun to be around. A very loving person that takes her relationship very serious. I am a very ambitious, hardworking woman that yearns a mature responsible man who is willing to sweep me off my feet. YEAH! I like feeling love n appreciated...If you're that man hit me up 😉....P.S. I live in Jamaica but I do have a Visa
Latifa
Standard Member
42
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Panama City, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Male 39 - 55
Comprehension and Communication
I want to move to Africa. I’m warm yet direct, giving yet grounded—I carry sweetness with strength. I enjoy deep, respectful conversations that inspire growth and connection. Passion is in me, and as a Black woman I embrace it fully. I’m not a “moder
Cindy
Standard Member
47
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Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking:
Male 44 - 80
Hi, nice to meet you
I am very sensual and i love myself. I am established, educated, loyal, caring, and just an all around sweetheart. I love to laugh and smile. Although I love the fancy life, I also enjoy the simple things like intimate conversations, picnics, a drive around the city and cuddling.
Keekee
Standard Member
47
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Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Seeking:
Male 42 - 52
Smiling is contagious
I'm a very spiritual woman. Continued happiness, peace and love are the goals. I'm an advocate for kids and there are times my life can be a little hectic. I'm a mom of 7 (5 still home). Biologically or not, they are mine. My heart is too big sometimes. You should have a big heart as well. I am NOT looking for sex, a roommate, a sugar daddy or to be a sugar momma 🤦🏾♀️( sad i have to say that). Just looking to smile, laugh and enjoy life.
Niiwe
Standard Member
45
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Seattle, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Male 44 - 70
Iam dating for marriage. ONLY PEOPLE IN USA
Iam tired of searching, most people here are nit serious are scammers, never serious, iam looking for someone who is like tired of fake people and wants serious relationship that leads to marriage, age is just a number I don't mind about the age what matters is the heart.
Chessia
Standard Member
42
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Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking:
Male 43 - 65
Hoping for the best
I am a woman who loves to live with passion and softness. I believe every day can carry a little romance if you let it in. I cherish deep talks, long hugs, and sweet kisses that stay in memory. My soul is searching for someone who sees beyond appeara
Daniella
Standard Member
49
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Manhattan Beach, California, United States
Seeking:
Male 45 - 80
DeAnna
Standard Member
46
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Conroe, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Male 46 - 66
Don't be shy.
Kendra
Standard Member
41
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Downers Grove, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Male 43 - 65
Maybe I’d find love here 🤷♀️
A mother of 2, I live with my kids alone
Cindy”Ella
Standard Member
Verified
43
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Male 40 - 70
Proverbs 31 Woman
Hello there, My name is Jennifer Cindy’Ella, and I'm excited to share a bit about myself as I venture into the world of online dating for the first time. Originally from Chicago, Illinois, I recently relocated to the Woodlands area of Houston, Texas, after spending some time in Jersey City, New Jersey, due to my job with United Airlines. After 25 years with the airline, I’ve just earned a promotion to call center manager here in Houston, starting on September 8 a fresh beginning that feels like a significant step forward. At 43 years old and the 12th born in a family of 21 children (14 brothers and six sisters!), family is incredibly important to me. My parents are still together, which has instilled in me strong values of respect and integrity. Although I was married for 13 years and my late husband and I spent a total of 15 beautiful years together, I faced an immense challenge when I lost him in 2021. His last words encouraged me to prioritize my health and seek out love again, which I have embraced wholeheartedly. I began my weight loss journey weighing 523 pounds, and thanks to my dedication and a successful surgery, I now weigh 172.3 pounds. The transformation has not only improved my physical health I'm free from diabetes, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol but has also revitalized my spirit. I feel ready to live life to its fullest! As I step into this new chapter, I’m looking for a man who understands how to love a woman well. I appreciate honesty and integrity, and I have no tolerance for games or insincerity. Growing up with strong male figures, including my father and my brothers, I know what it means to recognize a "real man." I’m loyal, honest, spontaneous, and have a kind heart. I’ve emerged from a period of brokenness to become whole and hopeful, with a mental state that’s at peace. Outside of work, I enjoy a variety of activities traveling, bowling, skating, horseback riding, fishing, camping, and indulging in the thrills of amusement parks. I love fine dining (though I'm not materialistic) and wouldn't mind treating my partner occasionally because I believe in mutual care in a relationship. Ultimately, I'm looking for someone to get to know, who shares my values, and hopefully, one day, to marry again. I have faith that the right person is out there for me. If you believe you might be that person, I’d love to connect perhaps through a video chat on FaceTime, WhatsApp, or Google Meet. I want to ensure we can communicate openly and see each other face to face. Thank you for taking the time to read my introduction. I’m ready for love, seeking my king, and I hope you’re ready too. Warm regards, Jennifer Cindy’Ella
Alice Wiredu
Standard Member
40
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Male 40 - 99
I’m Alice from Texas Houston
Single, genuine, and a good woman who knows her worth.
Rachel
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44
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Jackson, Tennessee, United States
Seeking:
Male 44 - 99
Looking for True Love
I am a tender, kind, and sincere woman with a strong sense of optimism. I believe that there's something positive to be found in every situation, and I love exploring new experiences that help me grow and develop. I'm a romantic at heart, devoted to being a one-man woman, and I value trust deeply. While I'm quick to forgive small offenses, I believe that loyalty is essential,
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