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ladnice
Standard Member
38
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Madinat Hamad, Northern, Bahrain
Seeking:
Male 36 - 58
Marital Status:
Divorced
long-term relationship
38yrs old Ugandan a devorced mum of 2 currently working in Bahrain. I'm here to make friends with people of different cultures as well looking for a suitable partner of which i wish it can end up for a long time or life time relationship. I'm humble
Mary
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35
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Machakos, Eastern, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 35 - 90
Marital Status:
Divorced
I feel normal because I accept my fate💕💕call me
Self-realization can be an empowering part of our lives. Coming to a place of self-acceptance and love (and forgiveness) is even more powerful. Boundary setting — don’t get me started. I learned all of this after my divorce and realized how important finding ME was and still is a daily journey. I was prompted to write this article because it speaks to many things: fears, hope, joy, and a future with another human being. Having been with the same person the majority of your life and then finding a new mate feels unfamiliar and uncomfortable. I get that. As we aren’t mind readers, wouldn’t it be nice to be given a playbook? An article of reference to understand the space and place another human is living in so we know where they are coming from? I think so. I hope you will enjoy this and use it yourself one day —adding your own special sauce to custom fit it to your needs, wants, and desires. Stir in some of your own blend and I hope we have a love letter worth giving and also receiving. It should spark a beautiful conversation, at the very least. Dear Lover, I am ecstatic that you are in my life and we’ve come to this place. I’m giddy with excitement of what we are now and what we can be together. I honor and respect you. It has taken me a lifetime of work for me to get here; to be present with you. But, before we take the leap of physical intimacy, I would like to share with you the place I am coming from, and I also want to hear your experience. It’s important to me to fully understand you. My entire life I have lived with the notion that there is one person for me, and that this love lasts a lifetime. Sadly, it’s just not true. Time wears away at us and sometimes moves us apart; emotional exploration takes a new avenue for us and, as our bodies age, we need and want different things. Perhaps the love was taken from us, or it was taken for granted. Maybe my spouse died or left; maybe I left. Whatever it is, I want you to know that I am wounded, and I am not afraid to say it or own it. The wounds I have are scars of my life. You see, in loving someone else, I realized that I surrendered who I was to become “us.” In becoming a couple, I cast aside some of the wants and needs that I so desperately desire. The need for time spent alone — of self-reflection and inner work. The need for friendships outside of the relationship you and I may have. The need for self-growth and taking classes that may not interest you. The need to be whole as I enter into a union with you. For me, it’s the only way that it will work. We both need to be whole before we can be together. So, with that preface, I want to clear a path for you to come into my life. I want to give you a key in understanding who I am. I want to be transparent, honest, and authentic with you. I want you to know my many sides — both good and bad. I am imperfect and while I am open to being with you in every way possible, I am also optimistically guarded entering into this. I want to give you a key to me. To know what I need. To hear what you need as well. To understand what my triggers are, and what triggers you, too. We both have so much to learn about each other and I want this to work. I don’t want to navigate this life alone and want to have you as my potential last first date. So, my future lover, I am giving you the playbook on me: ∙ I want and need to be acknowledged and heard. We will not always agree with each other but, if we respect each other, we can take the world on as a united force. ∙ I want you to understand my fear. My fear of being hurt again, and that entering into this, with you, I have our best interest in mind. I will hold your heart in my hand and treat it as a newborn with the grace and tenderness you deserve. ∙ I want you to touch me. Touch me tenderly, roughly, sexually and arouse me. Rough, soft, spontaneously, erotically — I want it all. I will tell you when it’s too much or uncomfortable, but please be aware that I have not been touched in a long time. This is like learning to ride a bike again and it will take me some time to get the training wheels off. I also want you to hold my hand, take my arm and hug me — just because. This is equal in importance to the sexual portion because I want and need both. ∙ Listen to me. When I speak, many of the words will be awkward. Many may be prickly. Many may be said with anger or upset but know that all are said with a purpose to get closer to you or solve a problem with you. I will falter; I will screw up. I will apologize when something pops out of my mouth that I wish I could rewind. Again, I am imperfect and at times will be a complete jackass. I promise to work on my words before speaking and hurting you. ∙ Surprise me. Do something unexpected for me that only you can come up with. ∙ Invest in me. If we are going to become intimate, I want you to invest in the time we share together and be present. There is nothing lonelier than being in a relationship where both are vapid, and two people merely share the same air. Turn off your phone to be there fully with me. I will do the same. ∙ Lastly, be gentle with me sexually, as I have not had a lover in a long time. I may be clumsy. I am not the same person I was 20 years ago — even 30 years ago. My libido has taken a turn since menopause and things don’t function as well as they used to. But please, be kind and non-judgmental with me and I will be the same. I love what we will become. I love what we will create together. I love the idea of being with you emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Thank you for being in my life…
Sasha
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34
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Westlands, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 30 - 50
Marital Status:
Divorced
You will definitely want to see me again!
I am bit of a traditional girl, raised in the coastal villages of Southern Coast of Kenya. I am teach Maths and I am pretty good with numbers. I come out as Shy at first, but If our energies match I am a total different person. That should be a sign that I am into you, when I able to dance freely, enjoy a glass of wine, laugh out loud and show you sides most people don't get to see. I love indoor plants (these are my pets), I love the smell of rain and a view of the Ocean. I also really enjoy staying indoors with good a good movie and good food. No one word answers please!
mercy
Standard Member
24
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Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 26 - 50
Marital Status:
Divorced
loyal and patience
Mercy from kenya,24yrs, single and got kids or waiting for my prince charming,quit jovial, sensitive on things,a family oriented person trying to look life in a different perspective, hardworking,God fearing loving and a caring person, hope l get to
Stella
Standard Member
39
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Bomet, Rift Valley, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 38 - 57
Marital Status:
Divorced
love is very important and understanding
am a woman of humour which I Don't like to rush to nonsense things. am patient to wait am very understanding and ready to forgive when things went wrong. am kind and Humble and God fearing. I will not except lies.dont ask me money that is not love.we will share money when we will be together. Good relationship determined alot
Tiana
Standard Member
27
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Westlands, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 30 - 80
Marital Status:
Divorced
hardworking lady I love God with All my heart, am not hear to play game soo if u know your work it to text hey how are u and goodnite you better not text I need something serious I prefer to date someone who has kids coz I I have kids, I love being told the truth.love is beatiful thing i don’t judge…… am past playing games
NGU
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Verified
35
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Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 50 - 60
Marital Status:
Divorced
looking for my prince for love and marriage
I'm very understanding,patience ,kind ,selfless and very honest and transparent and very romantic 💕💕.,fun to be with and will always make you laugh . I'm a one MAN -WOMAN,ALWAYS FAITHFUL IN MY RELATIONSHIP . family oriented.openminded.i love cleanliness, personal hygiene-par excellent,a very good cook 🍔🍔🥯🍖🌮🍗🥣 trust me on that African dishes and the likes.A SUPER WIFE MATERIAL,UR HOME GIRL 🧑🍳 .I have a great sense of humour,decent and reserve.very healthy too.i love nature,THE ⛱️🏖️ BEACHES, 🏝️🏖️AMUSEMENT PARKS, WATER PARKS 🏊🏊,i'm the best thing that can ever happen to U!!!👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆 I just hate LIES.
Pinky
Standard Member
42
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Kumasi, Ashanti, Ghana
Seeking:
Male 50 - 99
Marital Status:
Divorced
Simple, Quality and Sexy.
Searching....Please am real not fake like everybody thinks whoever is from Ghana is a scammer. NO NO NO. Am real and not fake And this is very important to me I would like to have a video call on whoever replies to my messages or gets in touch with me. Please. I am serious and not here to play games.
Hira
Standard Member
35
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Nuneaton, Warwickshire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Male 35 - 59
Marital Status:
Divorced
If u trust me 2 have your back I trust u 2 lead
I am Hira originally from Ethiopia,. I enjoy working out and try to stay healthy as much as I can but enjoy the occasional treats once in a while..I love cooking and going out for long walks..I am a Netflix kind of gal..if your in to clubbing sorry to disappoint..I have travelled few places and would love to do more in the future.
Debra
Standard Member
50
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Arusha, Arusha, Tanzania
Seeking:
Male 45 - 62
Marital Status:
Divorced
Been Around the World and I... I Can't Find My Bab...
I recently moved to Africa after living in Asia for five years. I travel home to the US often. I love the US but not too sure it loves Us. I'm a fast and deep thinker. I desire mental fourplay. If you like your lady like a cup of coffee, i.e., black,
Gee
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Mufulira, Copperbelt, Zambia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 57
Marital Status:
Divorced
Focused, hardworking and GOD Fearing
I believe in GOD in Heaven. I am a frank speaker. I enjoy learning from others,too. LOVE is from GOD. A man and woman need to be faithful to each other despite the distance.I believe in academic excellence,too. Use your talents in life; the way to go in life
Anne
Standard Member
50
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Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 50 - 62
Marital Status:
Divorced
Strictly 50yrs or above. Serious guys only.
Though extroverted, I choose to go slow… I like and enjoy interacting with the nature - scenic drives, talking walks around the neighborhood…. I am honest and open minded, but when I discover dishonesty in a friend, I disappear into thin air. I love life but would be better with a partner that suits me….
Lordina
Standard Member
37
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Sunyani, Brong-Ahafo, Ghana
Seeking:
Male 84 - 97
Marital Status:
Divorced
Lorrdy♥️😍
I am a very pretty calm girl and hardworking I love to be with people and love learning of new things.Love fashion and always learn to discover new things related to fashion.And also I love giving and love to care about others and provide them their needs if I could.
Monique
Standard Member
40
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Bromley, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Male 38 - 49
Marital Status:
Divorced
Still, my heart remains open… UK based preferred...
I’ve been separated for 3.5 years, divorced for 2.5 years, and am here to open myself back up to a committed relationship. I work in business across tech, digital and media industries. I’m a creative who likes to write and a mum/co-parent. I geek out on the intersection of technology, psychology and biology. I enjoy reading, writing, traveling and dancing. I like to keep both my physical and mental health fit. I love good wholesome food and wine. Subscribe to the growth mindset philosophy, and of the thinking that growing is a continuum. therefore will be more attracted to mindsets who share this thinking.
Zarina
Standard Member
48
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 56
Marital Status:
Divorced
Lets write our story
I am a single parent. Love life , nature and children. I dont like to waste time on something that does not want me. I do not invite complications in my life. I preach happiness and honesty. Thats my lifestyle. I appreciate the little things in life. I believe that every living being, whether human animal or nature has the right to be here and deserves to be loved. A healthy lifestyle, good music and good food compliments me.
Glenda
Standard Member
Verified
52
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New Orleans, Louisiana, United States
Seeking:
Male 35 - 62
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking to come visit or maybe move….
I am a 52 year old woman, not looking for currently have two dogs that I love so much! And they live inside, if thats a problem then you may pass on me. I ask questions and I dress in shorts, skirts and love dresses and bright cultural clothing and jewelry. i do drink and smoke occasionally but NOT cigarettes!!!
Carolyne
Standard Member
Verified
31
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Laikipia, Rift Valley, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 33 - 80
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for my better half
God-fearing lady, honest, loyal, respectful. On my free time I like to dance, walking, gardening, cooking. I'm searching for a serious relationship that may lead to marriage. If your not serious don't waste your time. Polite reminder DON'T ASK ME TO SEND YOU NUDES I'll just block you
Leena
Standard Member
43
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Otjiwarongo, Otjozondjupa, Namibia
Seeking:
Male 41 - 60
Marital Status:
Divorced
The Queen herself..
Caring loving respectful black beautiful Queen searching for true love or friendship ..but very sensitive at times.I think I have the right ingredients so let's mix them and see how far it goes..Let my outer beauty capture your eyes and my inner beauty capture your heart. ♥️
Bianca
Standard Member
Verified
47
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Mombasa, Coast, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 65 - 85
Marital Status:
Divorced
Is there any genuine man left in this earth???👏💞
Hi! Am bianca from Mombasa Kenya,and am a woman who works hard,.am very humble woman who is also loving,caring, loyal and down to earth.i don't like trouble,so i try very much to live a private life,i also choose friends who are same kind.on my free time i like watching movies, socializing, taking long walks, reading novels,walk at the beach. cleaness and smelling good is a must 👏
corazon
Standard Member
55
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Mwanza, Mwanza, Tanzania
Seeking:
Male 52 - 65
Marital Status:
Divorced
Read carefully my profile
I am a black African woman and proud of it. I speak French (mother tongue) and also fluent in Spanish and English. I am quite beautiful, classy and very neat. I have Christian values . I am a little crazy but responsible enough. I am correct and very respectful of others whatever their origin, religion, culture etc ...
Caro
Standard Member
43
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Etinan, Akwa Ibom, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 35 - 60
Marital Status:
Divorced
I am 31 years old
I am a loveable, caring, romantic person who is straightforward and open-minded. I am 31years. I want a man that will love me the way I am, correct me when I go astray and will be there for me. I am educated and creative, always looking for new ideas and things to explore.
Ann
Standard Member
50
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Kisumu, Nyanza, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 50 - 63
Marital Status:
Divorced
Am a Queen searching for her King.
Am a kind and Passionate woman with a very strong character, a big heart, honest, faithful and talkative too. I have a great sense of humour and I laugh a lot. I love to cuddle and romance my partner at every opportunity available to the one I develop chemistry with. I love to be showed so much love and attention at every available opportunity. I equally have the fear of God and a strong Christian for that matter. I love Jesus.
Lenatta
Gold Member
56
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Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 44 - 60
Marital Status:
Divorced
Serious
I am a fun loving and very caring African woman a plus size with extra curves that I am very proud of. Looking to find a connection from friendship that can lead to something more. Please don't ask for nude pictures and am not interested in hookups . Young boys don't waste your time because if you are not over 45 years old you are of no use to me.... It is so funny how almost all men profiles say to women here at this site that " don't ask for money or don't ask for that" and yet almost all of them the very first thing they do after introduction is to say they want video sex....yes video sex..... preaching water while drinking wine...... Talk about double standard...afro site is about relationships... dating....if a man can't communicate without the need to wank or whatever it is that they do then please move on to the next and stop wasting my time.
RevJackie
Standard Member
Verified
71
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Long Branch, New Jersey, United States
Seeking:
Male 65 - 72
Marital Status:
Divorced
CHRISTIAN WOMAN LOOKING FOR SOULFUL LIFEMATE
VERY PROMINENT CLERGY PROFESSOR RETIRED EXPERTISE THEOLOGY AFRICAN AMERICAN AND WOMENS STUDIES LOOKING FOR LOVE AND MARRIAGE AND SOMEONBE WHO WANTS THE SAME KIND COMPASSIONATE ROMANTIC GRACIOUS INTELLIGENT RESPONSIBLE RESPECTFUL fyi VERY TRADITIONAL VALUES NO PREMARITAL NO EXTRAMARITAL SEX NO POLYGAMY VERY MONOGAMOUS STILL GORGEOUS RIGHTEOUS CHRISTIAN AT AGE 64 AMEN
Oyebisi
Standard Member
Verified
51
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Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
Marital Status:
Divorced
CHARACTER
l am a loving African woman who believes in honesty and fairness. l am hardworking, trusting, strict with values and lovingly welcoming. l appreciate people a lot and l place a lot of premium on kindness as well as faithfulness. l am loving and open to new experiences as these make me conscious of life even better.
Maame
Standard Member
Verified
24
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Accra, Greater Accra, Ghana
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Marital Status:
Divorced
I’m looking for love, hope you’re the one
Hello there, I’m happy you decided to take a look at my profile. This means you have great taste 😊 so here’s what you should know. I’m a beautiful intelligent lady with a lovely smile. I love simplicity but with elegance and class. Loving, caring an
shamane
Standard Member
51
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New York, New York, United States
Seeking:
Male 50 - 55
Marital Status:
Divorced
charming me
I am attractive and sexy, love to cuddle and very family oriented likes to be honest and faithful to my partner and respect others. I also like to look good, smell good and feel good. I also believe in reasoning. My hobbies r home decorating, gospel music, and a little of soca and hip hop musics. I dont like nagging.
Myriam
Standard Member
64
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New York, New York, United States
Seeking:
Male 50 - 65
Marital Status:
Divorced
LOOKING FOR A LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIP
I am a 61 years old woman with a great sense of humor. I love people, love life, have a positive attitude. I am an easy going not difficult to get along with. I am very intelligent, well educated, trustworthy, understanding and caring.I am a very goo
janet
Standard Member
38
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Hamburg, Hamburg, Germany
Seeking:
Male 35 - 70
Marital Status:
Divorced
love , honesty nd transparency, amicability
I am a feminine and adventurous woman looking for the man with whom I will be able to realize all my dreams and desires. I have so many different ideas, business plans, and hopes for the future family. I want to find partner with whom I will be able to create strong and friendly family. Do you also want this? If yes, do not hesitate, but write me right now! As I told you I am ready to leave everything for my future family. If you are looking for the same things here, please let me know! I will wait impatiently for your letter!
Mercie
Standard Member
Verified
48
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Plano, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Male 48 - 60
Marital Status:
Divorced
Be Kind Whenever Possible. It is Always Possible.
Kind, caring, humble. Working on my faith in Christ. Grateful for the grace and mercy He extends to me every single day. My faith is very important to me. It's inclusive of everyone. I am kind, somewhat funny or so am told, humble, living on integrity and working daily on my faith. I love travelling and meeting new people.
Karole
Standard Member
36
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Mombasa, Coast, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 35 - 57
Marital Status:
Divorced
keep it real fake are blocked
Self driven,lover of life.Loving fun and being around good people.Very outgoing.Hard working and goal oriented.Believes in teamwork and also likes someone who are open and speak their mind out.During leaisure likes watching movies and drinking wine.Very intimate and loves good sex.Great sex is thereuptic🤩🤩
Lilly
Standard Member
40
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Dagoretti, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
Marital Status:
Divorced
I know I will find you 😁
I'm a divorced 40 years old now living as a single mum with my kids. I'm humble, respectful and I like jokes. I have 3 children. I was divorced 3 years ago and I'm ready now for new love. I'm a one man lady and gives all when it comes to love. I like cooking, watching movies and just staying home with my family. If you feel attracted, feel free to message. Thanks. Lilly
Georgette
Standard Member
50
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Bertoua, East, Cameroon
Seeking:
Male 55 - 95
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for an Endless Love...
I am a dynamic woman, with a great joy of living. I have the fear of the Lord. I am passionate about cinema, reading, travel, restaurants, internet, music, dance, beach. As physical activity I practice jogging, gym, aerobics. I am sweet, enterprising, affectionate, respectful and above all I have a lot of love to give.
DEE
Standard Member
Verified
59
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Salford, Manchester, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Male 52 - 63
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for Love
I am described as a caring, compassionate and thoughtful person. I am selfless always willing and available to provide a helping hand, for my family and friends. Very out going, go out for lunch, meals with a glass of wine. I love to travel and would
Munei
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39
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for a life partner. Scammers stay away
I’m a career driven lady and always looking to learn new things about myself and the world around me. I’m an introvert and enjoy more intimate settings like staying in watch movies, docies over a glass of wine. But also don’t mind the outdoors cause I enjoy marathons, hiking, and running. I’m always optimistic, independent and fun person to be around. I’m honest, driven, adventurous, hardworking, humble, kind and confident.
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