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Jennifer
49 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 49 - 59
Responsible and a go getter,by the way I'm 50yrs
Fun and happy ,l am a responsible we'll brought up lady with deep African and Nigerian back ground.Those of you who are interested only in sex and nudes, please keep off because it's a huge turn off,l will block you instantly.Life doesn't begin and end with sex,get a life.l am all for a beautiful relationship where we bond and love one another till eternity
geelo
48 • Mombasa, Coast, Kenya
Seeking: Male 43 - 75
Looking for long term, Serious relationship
I Am kenyan lady living in mombasa kenya, single mum 47years, with one son.Im Christian, passionate,strong,creative,adventurous,independent,hardworking,confident,intelligent,social,cheerful,honesty, loyal,faithfully,kind,loving,caring woman, looking for aman who's hardworking,dependant,trustworthy sense of humor and can communicate,for a long term relationship and marriage. I'm ready to settle.please read carefully my account and message me if interested for serious relationship..
Sunny
44 • Sheffield, South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 45 - 55
Good Vibes Only
I'm a digital nomad slowly traveling the world. So far I've traveled to 17 countries. Currently in the UK and would love to have a life partner to share the journey. Happy to also make genuine connections with pure souls around the world. Absolutely not interested in hookups, FWB or any other sexual entanglements. Do not ask me for money or visa sponsorship!
Milli
41 • Uyo, Akwa Ibom, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 45 - 70
Is that you? Let's travel the world together❤️❤️
Down to earth, hard working Single Mom.looking for a life partner we could travel the world together and enjoy life in it's fullness. "adventure girl"😂😂kid well taking care of. Mama needs her emotional happiness too❤️ please don't come inbox to ask me for p**ussy pics..or bring your balls on video call to me first day. I think I know what I want..my man should equally knows the reality of online dating
Jay
49 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 40 - 61
Soft-hearted. God-centered. Intentional about love
I’m a graceful, grounded woman who believes in love that is intentional, kind, and built on mutual respect. I value depth — real conversations, shared laughter, and a man who shows up with both faith and effort. My life is guided by God, purpose, and a desire for a healthy partnership that flows, nourishes, and grows. I’m drawn to a mature and emotionally intelligent man — someone who leads with integrity, communicates with clarity, and understands the beauty of consistency. If you’re family-oriented, financially responsible, and believe in romance, effort, and loyalty, we’ll get along beautifully. I’m here for a genuine connection that can grow into a meaningful and lasting companionship. If you are a man who prays, plans, and pursues — with intention — then I’m happy you found me.
Nancie
41 • Meru, Eastern, Kenya
Seeking: Male 38 - 59
DAUGHTER OF JESUS,I DON'T SEND NUDES,NO SIR.
eskima
49 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 50 - 70
LOOKING FOR REAL CONNECTIONS
I'm,a,loving, adventurous woman with a,sense,of humour, who is not here for scammers jokers,and if your profile,don have pic don bother pls.young gentlemen can't date u not a sugarmummy swipe next and again hate those men who only thinks woman are after their money nowadays woman are dependant, but still we cannot love without money to sustain and pls if I write to u and don like it just say sorry,kindly I'm so genuine I beg if u know,u are just playing with my minds don't.im God fearing woman,who is ready to settle even in my country.
Herrieta
45 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 40 - 59
Serious men please.
Smart beautiful and hardworking. I'm proud to be a Nigerian not all Nigerians are scammers or fake get to know me. Video calling is a must alot of fake people out here. I love cooking,watching movies and good music. Scammers stay clear please. Be ready to hold a conversation. If you are ready and want to settle down and get the black wife effect chat me up now. I'm not here to play games and please don't ask for nudes you won't get it. Serious minded men please.
immaculate
41 • Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 50 - 99
Down to earth, intelligent, beautiful and humble.
"I'm a warm and welcoming person with a kind and compassionate heart. I'm confident and self-assured, yet humble and modest. I'm resilient and adaptable, always looking for solutions and ways to improve. I'm passionate and driven, with a strong sense of purpose and direction. I'm grateful for the people in my life and strive to be empathetic, supportive, and understanding .
E
42 • Bowie, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Male 38 - 48
Feminine, intellectual, playful, and caring lady who has a wide range of interests in hobbies, topics, music, and movies. A well-rounded understanding of the world and of people. I value honesty, respect, my religious and cultural values, family, and communication. I am goal-oriented, and I like neat, clean, and beautiful environments. I love the beach and tranquility.
Jinnie
46 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 46 - 56
Easy going Christian chic and lover of peace.
Easy going and "uncomplicated" cuz I believe life is really that simple. Honest to a fault...literally. Considerate and selfless(as I am often told). I personally believe less is more in everything - speech, fashion, decor etc. However, I can indulge
Harry
48 • Meru, Eastern, Kenya
Seeking: Male 49 - 60
Harry
Am beautiful African queen,looking for a serious life partner,i love traveling,am outgoing fun loving,. ,no nudes please and I am a devoted Christian.,am strong ,kind , Smart am very supportive,loving ,caring and respectful woman.I don't need small boys please..I need a man who knows what he wants and a man who is focused...
Lilian
49 • Arusha, Arusha, Tanzania
Seeking: Male 45 - 80
Love of my life.
Roseline
41 • Abakaliki, Ebonyi, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 43 - 55
Rooted in culture, rising with purpose.
Perfectly imperfect — just like life. I believe in deep conversations, and laughing at the chaos because let’s be real, it gets chaotic. I’m someone who values honesty, emotional intelligence, and people who show up as they are — no filters needed.
Zurika
44 • Mombasa, Coast, Kenya
Seeking: Male 50 - 55
Serious long term relationship
Hello, am looking for a long term relationship with a mature and God fearing guy who's looking to settle down soon. I am a God fearing and kind soul who loves the indoors. A sweet glass of wine makes my evening sometimes. I have a heart for orphans and the less privileged.
Caroline
48 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 50 - 75
Normal is a cliché, but weird is fantastic.
I love to plan my trips and go out on mini-adventures once I feel comfortable there. I am a peaceful and organized self with moral and self discipline. You can say I'm an organized free spirit. I love to try out new food, immerse myself in the beautiful culture of other places, and meet locals. I'm excited to meet you so we can plan our next adventure together! My best friend says I have a silly and quirky sense of humor. I laugh a lot, and I'm most myself and relaxed when playing "Apples to Apples."
Christine
43 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 43 - 50
Ready to take a leap of Faith into the love-realm
I am a beautiful Kenyan woman who's basically looking for a lifelong partner, someone whose goals include settling and having a family, not one night stands. My Christian faith is important to me and would like a man who feels the same way. I am a passionate, happy, fun, extroverted soul whose intelligent, quite independent, self aware and balanced. I enjoy good laughs, good food, conversations, reading, going to new places, a curious creative mind and don't mind learning new stuff or experiences, not forgetting how I like going to the theatre. Lately also enjoying working out and healthy holistic living. I appreciate honesty, I can actually laugh at myself and move on. I value relationships with family, friends and nature. I enjoy both relaxing at home and going out to places for discovery. I am also a boy mum, and feel so blessed to be raising a great human. *MEN WITH NO PROFILE PIC OR DETAILS, PLEASE SAVE YOUR TIME. I'LL IGNORE YOU. The excuse of meeting fakes in here doesn't cut it. I'm also putting myself at risk for being here, either way I've made a choice to take the plunge. If you can't, forget asking for numbers. Reach out if my profile catches your eye.
Wairimu
45 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 33 - 53
I'm ready to partner with a man who is ready too.
Like a river, I flow. Like a river, I am patient. Like a river, I cut through obstacles. Like a river, I am a womb. Like a river, I flood. Like a river, I am self sustaining. Like a river, I have seasons. Like a river, I dry out. Like a river, I ran deep. Like a river, I am life giving. Like a river, I am.
Onyi
47 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 40 - 68
I am a very truthful person and I love truth
I am a focus, intelligent, truthful, Bold, out spoken, a bit shy, caring,humble, modest, multi talented, caring, and very good in buisness, fast learner, unique and vritious . Please do not come asking for nudes or showing me your nude pics. If you are for games please 🙏 don't talk to me. If you are Indian or Asian please do not chat me. gay and bisexual please stay away from me. never contact me at all. I am only connected to men of values. If asking women to show you their nude body is your priority better not talk to me. I am very good and fast in blocking people I consider virus 🦠🦟 to my blood.
Nondumiso
41 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 58
Guess What? Your Search Ends Here! 😉
Hello! I’m Nondu from South Africa. I have a passion for adventure, whether it’s discovering new destinations or embracing unique experiences. I cherish authentic connections and enjoy sharing laughs and engaging conversations. I’m seeking someone who also loves to travel and is open to embarking on exciting new journeys. Let’s explore where this adventure leads us!
Hellen
43 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 38 - 57
Hey Soulmate 💞
I’m a creative and curious individual with a strong passion for hospitality. Outside of my professional interests, I love exploring new cultures, traveling, and experimenting with cooking. I’m also passionate about sustainability and enjoy volunteering for environmental causes. Whether I’m creating, learning, or spending time with loved ones, I always seek new experiences and ways to grow.
Lola
40 • Gloucester, Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 45 - 70
I give as much love as you can receive it.
I describe myself as sweet as candy...with a warm personality, free-spirited and playful but with a touch of introvertedness. I am a mother so I am a package deal, family is important to me. I am also looking for someone who is ready to settle down and have a family. I am however initially wanting friendship to see how things develop. There is no rush. We can take our time getting to know each other and build a relationship that will hopefully last. The kind of man I am attracted to is someone who is much older than me and mature like old wine. A man who will allow me to be in my feminine energy. Someone who is protective but also caring. l am an author who loves going to poetry clubs. I also love jazz, classical music, opera, art, wine tasting, traveling, theatre, and visiting the museum. I am Sapiosexual and love good conversations and learning from my partner. If intelligence is your thing too message me and let's meet for coffee.
Olatoyosi
48 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 47 - 53
Godly matured charming and fún loving lady.
Funny, loving and loyal... ❤️💕 A high energy person that wakes up every day optimistically expecting great things to happen. I love beauty and have a keen eye for it. I’m a professional, daughter, sister and friend. An awesome cook,kind, open though frank, and I have a naughty side. I take it a day at a time knowing that God has our lives in His hands. I was raised in a loving, highly intelligent family in Lagos Nigeria and taught not to suffer fools easily. I’m an optimist with one foot planted firmly on the ground and belive you can do whatever you believe . I believe in love, kids, family, God and the goodness in everyone until I am proven otherwise. Sincerity, honesty, hard work and trust are big values for me. I’m feminine—in all ways. I love to nurture and I do it naturally and quite well. I’m not looking for someone to complete me. I’m complete. Romance, good open communication and possibly even love are believes I cherish. I like the way it feels to be really present without any hidden agendas or ulterior motives though and the romantic feeling of being in love and loved. Things I love: travelling around and, discovering new places and the beach( despite not being able to swim, 😂laughing until my sides hurt, a nice glass of wine, family , kids, a home cooked meal , TV comedies or a nice movie at the cinema, exercising and staying fit and you know...other stuff. Here’s a tip for contacting me. Please avoid a cut and paste. It makes me smile when I think you’ve actually read my profile and write something . I’m not that intrigued by “hi” or “you’re hot” and nothing more. Just a heads up..Likewise, please accept my apologies if you take the time to write something heartfelt and I don’t respond. It’s not always possible and it’s nothing personal. One last thing....I love completely and entirely and expect reciprocal
Milka
46 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 48 - 69
Humble.....
i mind my peace..... Sometimes we live a normal life,but always feel we are missing something somehow.when you are sick and no one to accompany you to the doctor,or when you are sitting in a restaurant reading menu and no one to share opinion and ordering a meal for one.... when you work till late night bored to go to bed alone because no one to wish you good night or cuddle you to sleep,when you pick up your phone and see there's no new messages.....but until you meet that one person who asks you how was your day/morning/night or work,the one who tells you to drink more water 💦,have you eaten?, drive safe,have a good day or good morning 🌄,the one who have sent you the messages when you check ✔️ your phone,...........Because of that person, your world seems more complete....the one my heart ❤️ yearns for....
Juliet
42 • Konongo, Ashanti, Ghana
Seeking: Male 34 - 62
I am here seriously looking for someone
I am REAL,And Looking for someone REAL....I considered fairly stable, although I do have my moments. I consider myself fairly independent, and enjoy the single life, but like a lot of people, I'm looking for that spark, the romantic, sensual exciteme
Gee
44 • Mufulira, Copperbelt, Zambia
Seeking: Male 45 - 57
Focused, hardworking and GOD Fearing
I believe in GOD in Heaven. I am a frank speaker. I enjoy learning from others,too. LOVE is from GOD. A man and woman need to be faithful to each other despite the distance.I believe in academic excellence,too. Use your talents in life; the way to go in life
Beatrice
42 • Lusaka, Lusaka, Zambia
Seeking: Male 45 - 65
Am looking for a serious,honesty man
 . I am Beatrice ,a 41yr old single mother and a dedicated christian.Am looking for a man who is serious and wants to be in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage.i love to workout,cook,going out and sometimes just stay in at home watching movies,soccer etc and having a glass of wine.am very jovial and i love commitment in a relationship,Am very loyal I love sight seeing ,holidays Am outgoing. I love romance and cuddling
Vera
41 • Accra, Greater Accra, Ghana
Seeking: Male 40 - 70
He who finds a wife, finds a Good thing
A virtous Africa woman, looking for a best friend, God-fearing, respectful, honesty, responsible, deciated,and, determined man who does not mined being love , supported and help by a woman,who tells him he is the most handsome man.if it bothers you to that vacation, being kissed, adoraed and massaged after work swipe to the left .
Ifeakanwa
40 • Asaba, Delta, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 32 - 58
Looking for a heart that loves beyond my size
Am a simple easy going and big bold and pretty lady,am blood group B and genotype AS ,As a Christian woman seeking love, I bring a vibrant mix of faith and interests. Devoted to Emmanuel TV and Streams of Joy international,(aka what God cannot do does not exist)i love listening to blues and gospel songs and hate negative presence alot.,,i seek a partner who shares spiritual values, bringing us closer to God the more. I enjoy comedy, action thrillers, Disney cartoons, and Christian movies, reflecting my joyful spirit. Despite facing odema which has caused my feet to be swollen and does not allow me to wear shoes but flat slippers, I approach life with resilience and hope, supported by faith and medical care. Embracing my boldness,shape and beauty, I seek a partner who appreciates me inside and out. In my quest for love, I desire a companion who shares my faith and zest for life, journeying towards a brighter future together.are you the one?
Aimée
43 • Madrid, Madrid, Spain
Seeking: Male 48 - 52
Smart man who has time for me ❤
I need a Real Man for Pure and Genuine LOVE. Show me Respect, Friendship,Care, fun...you'll get ALL of me... I'm loyal, tenacious, fun, caring I can forgive. I wish I could find a Christian, New Born, to Share Love and Family. Man to do business with? Why not I'm Entrepreneur. I wish I could share this and my Faith with Him. NO CIGARETTE / NO DRUGS / NO ALCOHOLIC
Sheila
48 • Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 42 - 54
Where are you?
Am vivacious, hardworking, rarely outgoing, very loyal, team Player, strong support system. I am a peace loving person. If I am not working, I rather stay home. I love tocook, bake and typically try to live my life to the full. I also love to cycle and take walks it also helps me relax. I am not a perfect person but when there are unresoved issues I am usually the first to broker peace. I volunteer in medcal outreacges whenever the need arises. I always reach ut to help people when itswithin my reach. I am a helpless romantic, I am kind, empathetic and love Jesus, I don't judge people, always give them the benefit of the doubt until they prove otherwise. If you want to be around a humorous person count me in. Never a deal moment. I never give up. I believe no situation is insurmountable. I put the needs of those I love before my needs.
Toto
42 • Berlin, Berlin, Germany
Seeking: Male 33 - 48
Looking for THE ONE
Looking for a gentleman who is well ready to build something serious and who is ready for commitment. \N\Na nice, respectful, loyal, funny, lovely, empathetic man with good values and morals. \N am bringing the same attributes to the table. \I don't bring the same attributes that I would like the potential partner to have with and beyond. \N Have your heart in the right place.
Kaite
40 • Ado-Odo/Otta, Ogun, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 40 - 99
Matured minds only
I believe in open communication, standing in our truth, being honest, and having integrity. Honoring and respecting each other is high on my list. I treat people the way I like to be treated. I believe what comes around goes around. I am a very compassionate person.
Ng🥰
40 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 50 - 90
“If you are real, I’m listening.”
I’m not everyone’s cup of tea… but for the right man, I’m the whole pot. 😉💫 Kindhearted, intentional, and fully aware of my worth. Seeking a generous, genuine man who values laughter, honesty, and real connection. Flattery is fine, but keep it classy—vulgarity gets you blocked faster than you can hit send. 🙃 If video calls scare you, this won’t work. No drama ❌ No scammers ❌ No time-wasters ❌ If you’re mature, fun, and ready for something meaningful… you just might have found your match. 😘
Liza
43 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 45 - 55
I am honest, caring and understanding
I am an honest, sincere person and very simple. I have lived and loved, but recently discovered a need to search for someone to fill the missing link in my life. I have a heart of gold, pleasing, romantic, fun to be with and a queen who will always look out for her king which I hope it can be you.

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