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Thuli
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38
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Margate, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 75
Smoke:
Don't smoke
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A well groomed, fun, loving and passionate young lady. I love traveling and enjoy the finer things in life. I am a family oriented person and my world revolves around my loved ones. I love whole heartedly and honestly. I believe in second chances and believe that if one truly believes in something, they can surely achieve it.
Lexie
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20
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Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 18 - 40
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Searching for love
Life is better when shared with someone special. I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who values kindness, humor and deep conversations. I'm a big fan of exploring new places and cozy nights in. If you're someone who is ready to build
Thando
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30
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New Germany, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 45
Smoke:
Don't smoke
My Self-Summary Hi, I'm Thando! A teacher by prof...
Hi, I'm Thando! A Teacher by profession. I'm new to online dating. As I navigate this journey I'm excited to be here. The chance to meet unique, engaging & interesting people. Four words to describe me, positive, courageous, a little shy & I love to laugh. I'm a single 30 year old beautiful lady without a child. My Christian faith is important to me, so I want a man who feels the same way. Looking forward to meeting someone special. A gentle, caring, loving, humble & kind man.
Khini
Standard Member
49
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 63
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Here for something meaningful🍀
Welcome, and thank you for visiting my profile😊 After spending a few years in the UK, I’ve returned home to South Africa with a deeper sense of self. Along my journey, I studied alternative well-being therapies in South Korea, where I certified in Meditation, Breath Work, and Meridian-based movement. I embrace femininity, nurturing and calm. I value emotional honesty and kindness. I believe that love should be intentional when shared with the right person. I will love you deeply and support your growth, as I hope to be supported in return. My time alone has taught me to value connection. I know what I have to give, and appreciate affection, gratitude, and tenderness. I don’t believe in playing games, but showing and letting things unfold naturally. I lead a simple life and appreciate the beauty of nature, meaningful conversations, and genuine companionship. If you’re someone who values emotional maturity, calm, and a woman who leads with her heart, then I’d love to connect. May your time here bring you closer to something beautiful. Life is too precious for half-measures. 🌻 Warmest wishes. PS: With all due respect, to save your time, please know that I am only here for something real.
Bridget
Standard Member
Verified
38
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Taung, North-West, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 42 - 51
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Kindness can never be overrated 🤗
Warm, loyal, and always up for a good laugh. I believe life is already too serious, so I truly appreciate people with a great sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, you’re already halfway there! Love means the world to me—I have a big heart and a
Elizabeth
Standard Member
Verified
43
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Ghananians and Nigerians please don’t bother!!!
I’m someone who truly believes in the power of kindness, honesty, and love. I do my best to treat others with respect and compassion, and I value deep, meaningful connections. I take pride in being genuine—what you see is what you get. Whether it’s through my actions or my words, I strive to bring positivity and sincerity into the lives of those around me. Being there for others, staying true to my values, and leading with my heart are all important parts of who I am.
Kaylicious
Standard Member
Verified
39
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Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 57 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
If you are from NIGERIA, USA pls don't bother me
**PLEASE NOTE** I WILL NOT RESPOND TO ANY FLASH MESSAGES. If you are interested in me than please use your keyboard letters and send me a message... BOOOOMMM!! i'm looking for a MATURE GENTLEMAN.. I'm 38 years of age, love being in a company of a gentleman who has no hang-ups about being with a Black beauty. I'm looking for something long term and a gentleman who is willing to treat me like a queen as I will treat him like my king. I love to be spoilt and pampered, so if you are not willing to do that then please kindly move along and don't waste my time and energy.
Naomi
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36
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 31 - 50
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Confidence is attractive
I'm single, professional and full of life. Adventure is my middle name. I spend my weekends trying new things like hiking, watching sports and sometimes participating in sports. I love new experiences whether it's a cultural experience, art, new food and traveling in general. I've dived with sharks, yes I'm that girl...
Dee
Standard Member
41
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 45
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Serious only
Smart, goal and career oriented. On the thick side and want a man who will appreciate and love me as I am.I am looking to settle down and start own family, so no time to play games. I am also drama and gabbage free and expect same from my man.
Lynette
Standard Member
Verified
31
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Nelspruit, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Nice to meet you
Okay. Lets hope I won't bore you with the details No offense to any color or race but my preference is caucasian. Well I find them fearless, risk takers and true to their words. I might be proven wrong and that's okay I read the bible because I am a christian and that's how my mother raised me. I also like things, e.g driving fast cars, shopping but biggest of all is I love cooking and one more thing is my passport is completely empty,😅😅 Ask me any question. The site is called INTERNATIONAL I want to travel a thousand miles
Afrodille
Standard Member
39
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 65
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Let's connect
"I’m someone who values real connection, good vibes, and meaningful conversations. I love discovering new places, or just getting lost in a deep chat about life, love, food or anything random. I'm here to meet open-minded people, share a few laughs,
Zanele
Standard Member
Verified
25
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East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 28 - 38
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Zanele Gebeda🌸
I am a mom to a three-year old girl. I have never been married. I have 3 sisters, and I'm the youngest. I used to live with my eldest sister (whom we call the deputy parent because both our parents have passed on), my brother-in-law who practically raised me, my niece and nephew. Now I livebwoth my daughter in a small sea-side suburban town of East London, South Africa. I am an introvert, but also love people. I respect everyone around me no matter how old or young they are. I am soft spoken, get nervous to be in large groups that I don't know. I carry a sense of calmness and peace.
Zee
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
Smoke:
Don't smoke
LOVE, COMMITMENT, BEST FRIEND, TAKING IT SLOW THOU
Loving, caring, honest, romantic, laid back, very humble, trustworthy, just cool, adaptive, understanding, playful, silly sometimes, serious sometimes. No nude pics you'll get from me. I'm kinda old school. I love God and I'm a Christian and won't convert to any other religion, I'm 42, divorced, have 2 kids please don't ask me again things I've mentioned. 🤓👋I DON'T WANT KIDS ANYMORE. I love the outdoors, walks on the beach, love nature wholeheartedly. Sensual, traveling, football and love dogs. If you love dogs please pass I'm not for you. Love quiet romantic nights with my partner. Video call on WhatsApp is a must for me. If you can't video call don't waste my time and yours. No Nigeria ians or Ghanaians please. Meeting someone from Norway or Sweden will be a huge bonus. I love Norway and Sweden because of their conservative nature 🏕️🏞️
Lebogang
Standard Member
Verified
27
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 29 - 45
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Looking for a life partner not passing time🙏💕
I'm bubbly, friendly and shy at the same time. I feed off energy, what I get is what I give back. Very outspoken and straightforward. Don't like wasting time. I like my space but at the same time I like exploring. I like looking good, going out, being spoilt and given attention. I love cooking, shopping and traveling but most importantly I love my family and they always come first and value them.
Vanecia
Standard Member
31
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Rustenburg, North-West, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 32 - 58
Smoke:
Don't smoke
A mother,go getter and a hard worker,good cook and very understanding,love soul music,easy to get along with though I don't go out much,sucker for love,patient,persistent and real,I don't talk much and I hate fights and lies,don't know how to yell and I really love peace, im a dreamer and most of them come true
Shreshtha
Standard Member
47
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 59
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Personality speaks louder than appearance
Im widowed for 13 years. A good Christian lady. Drama free. Love music n would go for a live concert anytime. Im very jovial love to laugh n be happy. I appreciate cultures n diversities. Learning about ways of life n different cultures intrigues me. Im overall a very simple person. God bless u... Thank u for reading me.... Good luck
Tatiana
Standard Member
31
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
An Open Book
I'm just a normal girl looking for love and for someone to not give up on her. I was brought up in a Christian family and subscribe to Christian ideals.My friends describe me as outgoing, sociable, fun to be around and talkative (sometimes). I see myself as a goal getter. I am very loving and love children as l have one of my own. I am looking for someone to love me for me💕. No fake profiles, l won't respond.
Kayo
Standard Member
42
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 46 - 56
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Love life. Warm hearted n Principled.
Honesty n Respect will help one go a long way. I believe it's the little things that matters most. Kisses, love, laugh, care. When I love, I love with passion. When I hate, well m too pretty to hate. Family oriented n Yes finding pleasure in turning a house into a home. Not a trophy wife type though I prefer to bring my share to the table. Makes me feel whole. (I love kids but not sure I wanna have more, on that note: I definitely wouldn't mind helping my partner in raising the kids.Taking care of my man who appreciates me Now that completes my mission. A team player. I try to keep fit n healthy. My spiritual being is equally important to me.
zama
Standard Member
27
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 19 - 37
Smoke:
Don't smoke
looking for a great companion
I know my worth. Im gold. God fearing. Smart and capable. If you are seeking a headless woman I ain't the one. Hard worker, currently doing my final year towards a bachelor in international relations. I want to travel the world and make all my dreams come true.
Yanda
Standard Member
27
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Elim, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 45
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Please read my profile🌸 I am old school 🥰
hey, I am sorry that it took you long to find me but I am here now☺️. Trust me it will be worth it because you are ready to love and be loved. I am not here to waste your time because I am also looking forward to love and be loved, I know that we will be in a long distance relationship for some time don’t worry, I will choose you not because we will be having it easy but because I want you. Looking forward to meet you it’s been a while ooooh before I forget, I am goofy with sense of humor and my family says I laugh like a hyena, I am sorry that you will go through that 😂, aint sorry at the same time. I am a very simple woman that you would not even find it hard to make her happy. Please be kind, respect and love people 🌸🌸😁. Hi My bestfriend 😊🌸
Deedee
Standard Member
24
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 27 - 37
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't be shy😅
Hey potential. I'm 28yrs old not 24. I am an easygoing person who loves to enjoy life. Some of my favorite things include listening to all types of music, watching movies and comedy shows, learning new things through documentaries, taking time for self-care, exploring nature through hiking, and spending time in my garden. * A video call is essential*
Latoya
Standard Member
31
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 32 - 58
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Ambiverts have superpowers
The hardest thing to write about is yourself. Humans are like onions, we have layers. Once you think you know someone, they unravel themselves and show you another version of themselves. I'd prefer to be referred to as cake because just like onions, they have layers too, except they are beautiful, delicate and tasty but the sentiments remain the same.
keitumetse
Standard Member
34
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Germiston, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 34 - 57
Smoke:
Don't smoke
"Genuine and down-to-earth seeking the same."❤️
Mandy
Standard Member
31
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 45
Smoke:
Don't smoke
I’m not here for hookup. Respect me🙏🏾
I do not want to be a cyber girlfriend, nor am I willing to be in a polygamous relationship. You are a million miles away and unwilling to visit? Then do not bother contacting me. The most annoying line is "I'm coming to Africa soon." Man, I DONT CARE! If you do not have a profile picture, I will not respond to your messages, and instead will block you.
Yay
Standard Member
43
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
I still believe in love
I would like to think that I am kind, loving, and a very humble woman. I am an ambivert. I am honest, and when I love, I love unconditionally. Just like everybody, I have my good and bad sides. I am not perfect, but every day I strive to do better than a day before. I'm in search of someone who will offer me true love, and I know I can offer the same. I have 2 kids, and do not want to have more, but love the idea of a blended family, and will love your kids as if they were mine. I'm not here for games, or hookups, and I don't want to be objectified for fetish fantasies. I'm not here to judge or look down on anyone, I am just at a point in my life where I know exactly what I want. If you're here for games and fantasies, I humbly request that you please do not contact me.
Michelle
Standard Member
21
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Ficksburg, Free State, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 25 - 45
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Catch me if you can.😍
💌: We the people of this profile(ME) do realize the jokes, frogs and waste of time that may come with some(if not most) users on this site. We(I) have therefore taken it upon ourselves to issue this NOTICE. 1. You shall not message me if you are looking for “fun” and being here is your pass-time. Get a hobby! 2. You shall not message me and attempt to make a connection if you are “bad” at communication. And, you find daily communication and conversations tiring or meaningless. 3. You shall not message me if you are a man of low self esteem. If you lack confidence in your abilities, beliefs and shape, I recommend you find a therapist that’s closest to you. 4. You shall not message me if you haven’t learnt to take responsibility and accountability for your life decisions, choices and entire existence. (Siri, call “Mom.” Looking forward to meet you, YOU.💐
Lilly
Standard Member
37
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 58
Smoke:
Don't smoke
well groomed and submissive beautiful African quee
I'm 37 beautiful in and out, very submissive well groomed, well mannered, I'm not here to look for money I'm not here to do phone sex if ur interested in me I prefer we do video call first before we take things further I would like to proof if your n
Patient
Standard Member
27
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 62
Smoke:
Don't smoke
hie everyone ❤️, I'm looking for serious
hie everyone I'm looking for serious relationship that and in Marriage.i don't want someone who asks nude picture I want real men not scammer. I want serious relationship I want someone who is ready to come in Zimbabwe . I want someone who is ready to settle down to bould family . it's my first time to be in dating app I hope I will find real men
Agnes
Standard Member
28
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Bethlehem, Free State, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 54
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Keep the faith with good intentions 🙏🏻
I am an easy going lady who loves the finer and find joy in simple things such as the romantic dates,dancing, weekend getaways,self development books, socializing occasionally, learning new recipes, traveling and spending time with family.Elsewhere I like adventure and discovery new things because YOLO.
Bubuhle
Standard Member
Verified
52
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 53 - 70
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Love is infinite ❤️💝♥️❣️
Spontaneous,romantic,loving, a very caring somebody ,compassionate and still strongly believes in love. I'm 52 years turning 53 don't text me if you are under the age of 53 ,have no intentions whatsoever to be a sugar Mama,maybe if it all goes well I'll think about in another life !
Gorata
Standard Member
39
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 57
Smoke:
Don't smoke
am a loving single woman , love to travel and meet new people, learning more bout their culture .. I love cooking and baking .. my favorite food , I love pasta.. I don’t have kids but I adore kids so much .. I always keep smiling that makes me so happy ❤️
Rii
Standard Member
Verified
32
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 80
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Life is Great, But Maybe It Can Be Better With You
I've always had an incredible passion for living life to its fullest. I am a hopeless romantic and always strive to believe in the good within everyone. I'm straightforward and honest. I am not here to ask airtime or money 💰from anyone please don’t click my profile for playing games or asking for nude pictures….
Yolanda
Standard Member
27
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 27 - 57
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Genuine connections only. No request for nudes.
I'm a hopeless romantic at heart, always searching for someone to share life's adventures with. I love exploring new places, trying new experiences, and savoring good food with great company. But most importantly, being a mom is my greatest joy - spending time with my daughter brings me endless happiness and fulfillment.
Patricia🇿🇦
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37
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
I'm hard to get yo know but impossible to forget!
Once you've tasted my energy you'll always be thirsty! I'm a homebody who believes in true love and happy ever afters. I keep my circle small and choose who I let in my space. I want someone who knows what he wants, consistancy, stability, security, honesty, respect, loyalty and lots of love. I believe in commitment and to be obedient towards your partner. I am God fearing and puts God in the centre of everything that I do.
Lebo
Standard Member
Verified
55
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Atteridgeville, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 52 - 60
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Kind heart, strong mind, and love traveling
I’m a warm, faith-driven woman. I love to travel, enjoy cooking meals that bring people together, and value loyalty, purpose, and meaningful connection. I’m ready to share life with someone who’s serious, kind, and grounded.
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