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Linda
45 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 99
Traditional woman fun and loving .
Am a traditional woman kind loving and caring. Am family oriented i like trying out new things and love outdoor activities. I like to clean , travel, comedy , and spending time with my better half. If you not serious please do not contact me.
Reina
48 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 48 - 59
Perverts stay away from me . yes read it again.
I'm loving, polite and very passionate person and very sensual person, open minded . I'm fun loving, with a good sense of humour. I like nature, being outdoors, hiking long walks , I like to dance and listen to music 😊🎶.. I love to travel when I can.
simk
44 • Mandini, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 55 - 70
A strictly one man woman and extremely passionate.
I am an honest ; straight forward and genuine person . I believe in either all or nothing. I am strictly a one man woman who knows how to give and appreciate love in return . I love children and senior citizens .I am one of the best lover you can come across . I love giving than receiving . I am looking for someone who will love me for me .I know when it's time to laugh and I know when it's not . Cant fake anything to save my life . I I am happy or upset about something you will know .
Irene
46 • Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 65
My King where are you!!!!!!
I am an educated black lady, very independent . Very loyal and honest person. A Christian. Fitness is part of my daily life. If you are looking for nude pictures, check somewhere else please. Nude pictures or you want to show me your private part please don't contact me. I think this is loud. I'm looking for my king here not social prostitution.
Jelani
46 • Tzaneen, Limpopo, South Africa
Seeking: Male 48 - 75
I'm vibrant, outgoing and trustworthy person.
I'm a fun, outgoing, considerate, hardworking and caring person. I'm family oriented and prefer to spend time creating beautiful memories. I love nature. I believe in transparency, mutual respect and invest quality time when in a relationship. I resp
diamond
44 • Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 60
I am the future you are looking for
Independent woman,like to challenge my mind with new things learning every skill weather is for a man or woman ,I can make fire ND braai meat by myself,I paint my house with my son ND cut grass ,make clothes for my family I took sewing lessons,I'm 60/40 introvert ND extrovert,I enjoy my space more
Zethu
43 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 35 - 65
"Ready to Write Our Love Story Together"🫂 👌
I can describe myself as an introvert, unique in many ways I like to do things differently, I like to things better then the other day, soft at heart loving and caring, I like helping people which makes me happy at most times, I like trying new things like new recipes of cooking and baking, feel free to make a quick joke I have a good sense of humour, on my free time I do yoga which I love the most, it keeps my energy level high enough, feel free to ask me any questions ☺️
Khini
49 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 50 - 63
Here for something meaningful🍀
Welcome, and thank you for visiting my profile😊 After spending a few years in the UK, I’ve returned home to South Africa with a deeper sense of self. Along my journey, I studied alternative well-being therapies in South Korea, where I certified i
Elizabeth
43 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 60
“Where Meaningful Relationships Begin”
I’m someone who truly believes in the power of kindness, honesty, and love. I do my best to treat others with respect and compassion, and I value deep, meaningful connections. I take pride in being genuine—what you see is what you get. Whether it’s through my actions or my words, I strive to bring positivity and sincerity into the lives of those around me. Being there for others, staying true to my values, and leading with my heart are all important parts of who I am.
Zee
42 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 65
LOVE, COMMITMENT, BEST FRIEND, TAKING IT SLOW THOU
Loving, caring, honest, romantic, laid back, very humble, trustworthy, just cool, adaptive, understanding, playful, silly sometimes, serious sometimes. No nude pics you'll get from me. I'm kinda old school. I love God and I'm a Christian and won't convert to any other religion, I'm 42, divorced, have 2 kids please don't ask me again things I've mentioned. 🤓👋I DON'T WANT KIDS ANYMORE. I love the outdoors, walks on the beach, love nature wholeheartedly. Sensual, traveling, football and love dogs. If you love dogs please pass I'm not for you. Love quiet romantic nights with my partner. Video call on WhatsApp is a must for me. If you can't video call don't waste my time and yours. No Nigerians or Ghanaians please
Shreshtha
47 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 59
Personality speaks louder than appearance
Im widowed for 13 years. A good Christian lady. Drama free. Love music n would go for a live concert anytime. Im very jovial love to laugh n be happy. I appreciate cultures n diversities. Learning about ways of life n different cultures intrigues me. Im overall a very simple person. God bless u... Thank u for reading me.... Good luck
Kayo
42 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 46 - 56
Love life. Warm hearted n Principled.
Honesty n Respect will help one go a long way. I believe it's the little things that matters most. Kisses, love, laugh, care. When I love, I love with passion. When I hate, well m too pretty to hate. Family oriented n Yes finding pleasure in turning a house into a home. Not a trophy wife type though I prefer to bring my share to the table. Makes me feel whole. (I love kids but not sure I wanna have more, on that note: I definitely wouldn't mind helping my partner in raising the kids.Taking care of my man who appreciates me Now that completes my mission.  A team player. I try to keep fit n healthy. My spiritual being is equally important to me.
Yay
43 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 60
I still believe in love
I would like to think that I am kind, loving, and a very humble woman. I am an ambivert. I am honest, and when I love, I love unconditionally. Just like everybody, I have my good and bad sides. I am not perfect, but every day I strive to do better than a day before. I'm in search of someone who will offer me true love, and I know I can offer the same. I have 2 kids, and do not want to have more, but love the idea of a blended family, and will love your kids as if they were mine. I'm not here for games, or hookups, and I don't want to be objectified for fetish fantasies. I'm not here to judge or look down on anyone, I am just at a point in my life where I know exactly what I want. If you're here for games and fantasies, I humbly request that you please do not contact me.
Bongie
40 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 60
Kind honest lovin lady lookin for hard working man
I am easy going soft spoken and a bit shy when I'm around strangers bt loosen up once we click. l'm open minded considerate and not complicated. I love family and am looking for a serious relationship, l am a 40 years old single mother of 2 girls.
African love nest
43 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 60
Intentional & direct
"Trust and honesty" are my 2 serious factors to form a concrete foundation so take my word for it.An extrovert and open minded to experiences & some new knowledge. I am family orientated and christian. I am affectionate and out spoken I have never been married and no kids but open to motherhood still. I am a graduate of public relations management through University of South Africa I am old school with values and principles I am affectionate very touchy and let loose by just looking at each other without uttering words I am hopefull to meet the right guy. I adore love truly so If i might be the lady for your peaceful soul and mind let's chat.NB: no nudes , no online sex , no rudeness or arrogance. Only seriously looking especially marriage
Sluh
42 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 44 - 58
Let me submit to the love you'll give me
I'm a humble intelligent woman, loving, caring and honesty. I'm funny to be around with I speak my mind but in a respectful manner short tempered but I don't hold grudge. I like sea walk with my man holding hands. happiness is very important to me
Grace
49 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 50 - 65
Ebony lady seeking male for adventure and travel
Fully vaccinated ebony lady. I presently live in Johannesburg, South Africa and i own a boarding cattery and a cat grooming business. I spend my free time surfing the net or watching Amazon prime or Netflix and of course making luxury cold process so
Pum
40 • Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 51
What you see is what you get
What you see is what you get I'm not trying to be someone that I'm not. I come from a big family so I love people. Im funny in my own way. I don't trust easily I ask questions if I don't understand. I'm an athletic love running. I respect ppl who respects others.im open minded . I respect other ppls culture . I'm a Christian. That's all for now.
Khay
48 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 54
Driven by faith
Hi there! I’m a passionate, faith-driven person who believes in living with purpose and intention. My journey has taken me through some amazing experiences, which have helped shape me into someone who values authenticity, resilience, and kindness. I’m someone who enjoys both deep conversations and a good laugh, and I love spending time in nature – whether it’s a peaceful walk in the park or simply enjoying a quiet moment. I’m looking for a meaningful connection with someone who shares similar values and is ready to explore life together with joy, faith, and mutual respect. If you’re grounded, compassionate, and appreciate the little things, we might just get along!
Maki
45 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 49 - 60
Gorgeous and Kind but straight forward talker
Im 46 years South African beautiful woman, I am a kind person naturally, God loving and love to connect with different people globally. I value people who are honest and truthful. Always treat others with respect.. Kindness dont cost a penny. I am a professional worker, so I will never ever ask you a data, airtime , money, marriage etc.. Im here to connect and build friendship, serious relationship whatever that can come out of two people. If you are here for scamming, dont waste your time, i know all the tricks by now through experience 😎 sooo dont even try...
Nombuyekezo
48 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 58
my love life partner is out there
Hy i am an african woman looking for a love life patner..i am single never married due to disappointment from my fiance who is a father to my daughter. what a painful experience..but i made closer with that..i believe i was not born to be alone,my k
Tabetha
48 • Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 65
Looking for a love that feels like home
I’m a warm-hearted, traditional woman who believes in faith, loyalty, and the beauty of lasting love. I treasure meaningful connection, gentle affection, and a man who leads with kindness and strength. A man who fears God. While I hold dear to timele
Paully
44 • Badplaas, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking: Male 44 - 54
Looking for true love & its components .
I am decent ,Goal oriented, Fun, Loving & Caring. I love outgoing and socializing with the right people. I am a mother of 2 lovely daughters. I am a good hearted . I like romance.....I can love with no limitations when I am completely comfortable with my partner. I know exactly what i am looking for and can not compromise for anything lesser. Scammers dont waste your time on me as I expose you before you even get to do your scams on me. I know how to catch one😐
Chengetai
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 60
My name is chengetai I'm from Zimbabwe now am staying in south Africa am a hard worker , caring , submissive respectful am negative status for hiv,l love myself the way am and thank God with the things l have , lam a tailor ,my free time l will work
Deborah
45 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 60
Looking for my soulmate, my other half,my best fre
I'm a simple fun lady from South Africa, i'm a God fearing woman humble, kind and respectful, loyal and transparent. I'm a hard worker i love peace. I treat other people the same way i want to be treated. My hobbies is watching movies, swimming, playing volleyball and cooking African food. I love to explore, to learn more about other cultures and other countries. I love travelling a lot.Please Do Not Ask for my Whatsapp number in few days of chatting i dont like that.
Provie
42 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 37 - 56
Every Life Has a Story, Let Us Share Ours.
originally from Rwanda but currently living in South Africa. I love plants, coffee, music, roadtrips... I Have two kids 21 and 11 years old. I'm introvert/extrovert depending on the company, but, can be very spontaneous, I'd be happy to join you on whatever is that excite you. I love my little life, I can spend time with myself and I really love it but would be wonderful to have someone to share it with, you don't have to match my weirdo everybody is different as long as our souls resonate... I'm dedicated, kind and honest person.
madumane
49 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 30 - 85
African woman
I am a loving African queen, who is looking for loving king with lots of love and respect. I know they is still love out there, but only if you find someone honest.l love traveling farming, i have a small land whereby I grow my crops, im a nature loving person. I also love sports and i love playing netball. I'm also a nature lover
St
41 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 65
very honest, caring and have no time for dishonesty peopl. I'm not here for games. And I have seen there are alot of people here who are just joining because they are bored and this makes them dishonest too. At times I want to deactivated the dating site. please not all of us are here for prostitution and gold digging. I don't need your money I want your true love heart. Scammers please stay away
Bridget Mpala
44 • Mafikeng, North-West, South Africa
Seeking: Male 47 - 60
A respected principled lady with dignity ,caring,
Iam a child of God serving with passion and faithfulness .A teacher of the word of God
Rejoice
41 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 49 - 65
Looking for the one to share it all
Nature lover , bookwarm ,and aspiring world traveller looking for an adventurous ,kindkind-hearted match
Nokuthula
44 • Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 49 - 57
Will always believe in True love and i love life
very humble and and free spirit, who loves art venture to travel around
cynthia
40 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 50 - 79
Am new here. Two heads are better than one
I’m a woman in the prime of her life. I am dynamic, active, I always try to go with a positive attitude in life and it is difficult to get me off this path. In general, I consider myself a sincere person, with a good sense of humour and a big heart.
Rose
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 56
Waridi
Confident, fun-loving, kind-hearted woman who believes in love, deep conversations, and laughter. I enjoy traveling, new adventures, and meaningful connections. Planning to meet you soon – let’s create something real!
Esperança
41 • Stellenbosch, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 60
In search of a profound, longlasting relationship
Iam a loving person, I strongly believe in forgiveness
DINEO
43 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 50 - 60

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