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Busi
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 55
I'm looking for a companion, long term.
I'm a very loving, caring and loyal woman, love cooking, I have good morals, I respect people, love laughing, I smile all the time cause it brings out the best in me, keeping my body fit an living a healthy lifestyle is part of my life, I have a son
Reina
48 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 48 - 58
Perverts stay away from me . yes read it again.
I'm loving, polite and very passionate person and very sensual person, open minded . I'm fun loving, with a good sense of humour. I like nature, being outdoors, hiking long walks , I like to dance and listen to music 😊🎶.. I love to travel when I can.
simk
47 • Mandini, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 55 - 70
A strictly one man woman and extremely passionate.
I am an honest ; straight forward and genuine person . I believe in either all or nothing. I am strictly a one man woman who knows how to give and appreciate love in return . I love children and senior citizens .I am one of the best lover you can come across . I love giving than receiving . I am looking for someone who will love me for me .I know when it's time to laugh and I know when it's not . Cant fake anything to save my life . I I am happy or upset about something you will know .
Irene
49 • Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 65
My King where are you!!!!!!
I am an educated black lady, very independent . Very loyal and honest person. A Christian. Fitness is part of my daily life. If you are looking for nude pictures, check somewhere else please. Nude pictures or you want to show me your private part please don't contact me. I think this is loud. I'm looking for my king here not social prostitution.
diamond
44 • Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 60
I am the future you are looking for
Independent woman,like to challenge my mind with new things learning every skill weather is for a man or woman ,I can make fire ND braai meat by myself,I paint my house with my son ND cut grass ,make clothes for my family I took sewing lessons,I'm 60/40 introvert ND extrovert,I enjoy my space more
Zethu
44 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 35 - 65
"Ready to Write Our Love Story Together"🫂 👌
I can describe myself as an introvert, unique in many ways I like to do things differently, I like to things better then the other day, soft at heart loving and caring, I like helping people which makes me happy at most times, I like trying new things like new recipes of cooking and baking, feel free to make a quick joke I have a good sense of humour, on my free time I do yoga which I love the most, it keeps my energy level high enough, feel free to ask me any questions ☺️
Thuli
40 • Margate, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 75
Swipe away if you not willing to meet in person.
A well groomed, fun, loving and passionate young lady. I love traveling and enjoy the finer things in life. I am a family oriented person and my world revolves around my loved ones. I love whole heartedly and honestly. I believe in second chances and believe that if one truly believes in something, they can surely achieve it.
Elizabeth
46 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 60
Ghananians and Nigerians please don’t bother!!!
I’m someone who truly believes in the power of kindness, honesty, and love. I do my best to treat others with respect and compassion, and I value deep, meaningful connections. I take pride in being genuine—what you see is what you get. Whether it’s through my actions or my words, I strive to bring positivity and sincerity into the lives of those around me. Being there for others, staying true to my values, and leading with my heart are all important parts of who I am.
Kaylicious
40 • Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 57 - 60
If you are from NIGERIA, USA pls don't bother me
**PLEASE NOTE** I WILL NOT RESPOND TO ANY FLASH MESSAGES. If you are interested in me than please use your keyboard letters and send me a message... BOOOOMMM!! i'm looking for a MATURE GENTLEMAN.. I'm 40+ years of age, love being in a company of a gentleman who has no hang-ups about being with a Black beauty. I'm looking for something long term and a gentleman who is willing to treat me like a queen as I will treat him like my king. I love to be spoilt and pampered, so if you are not willing to do that then please kindly move along and don't waste my time and energy.
Dee
43 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 30 - 45
Serious only
Smart, goal and career oriented. On the thick side and want a man who will appreciate and love me as I am.I am looking to settle down and start own family, so no time to play games. I am also drama and gabbage free and expect same from my man.
Zee
43 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 70
LOVE, COMMITMENT, BEST FRIEND, TAKING IT SLOW THOU
Loving, caring, honest, romantic, laid back, very humble, trustworthy, just cool, adaptive, understanding, playful, silly sometimes, serious sometimes. No nude pics you'll get from me. I'm kinda old school. I love God and I'm a Christian and won't convert to any other religion, I'm 42, divorced, have 2 kids please don't ask me again things I've mentioned. 🤓👋I DON'T WANT KIDS ANYMORE. I love the outdoors, walks on the beach, love nature wholeheartedly. Sensual, traveling, football and love dogs. If you love dogs please pass I'm not for you. Love quiet romantic nights with my partner. Video call on WhatsApp is a must for me. If you can't video call don't waste my time and yours. No Nigeria ians or Ghanaians please. Meeting someone from Norway or Sweden will be a huge bonus. I love Norway and Sweden because of their conservative nature 🏕️🏞️
Kayo
44 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 46 - 56
Love life. Warm hearted n Principled.
Honesty n Respect will help one go a long way. I believe it's the little things that matters most. Kisses, love, laugh, care. When I love, I love with passion. When I hate, well m too pretty to hate. Family oriented n Yes finding pleasure in turning a house into a home. Not a trophy wife type though I prefer to bring my share to the table. Makes me feel whole. (I love kids but not sure I wanna have more, on that note: I definitely wouldn't mind helping my partner in raising the kids.Taking care of my man who appreciates me Now that completes my mission.  A team player. I try to keep fit n healthy. My spiritual being is equally important to me.
Yay
45 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 60
I still believe in love
I would like to think that I am kind, loving, and a very humble woman. I am an ambivert. I am honest, and when I love, I love unconditionally. Just like everybody, I have my good and bad sides. I am not perfect, but every day I strive to do better than a day before. I'm in search of someone who will offer me true love, and I know I can offer the same. I have 2 kids, and do not want to have more, but love the idea of a blended family, and will love your kids as if they were mine. I'm not here for games, or hookups, and I don't want to be objectified for fetish fantasies. I'm not here to judge or look down on anyone, I am just at a point in my life where I know exactly what I want. If you're here for games and fantasies, I humbly request that you please do not contact me.
Gorata
41 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 57
am a loving single woman , love to travel and meet new people, learning more bout their culture .. I love cooking and baking .. my favorite food , I love pasta.. I don’t have kids but I adore kids so much .. I always keep smiling that makes me so happy ❤️
Bongie
40 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 60
Kind honest lovin lady lookin for hard working man
I am easy going soft spoken and a bit shy when I'm around strangers bt loosen up once we click. l'm open minded considerate and not complicated. I love family and am looking for a serious relationship, l am a 40 years old single mother of 2 girls.
Love bloom
45 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 60
Intentional & direct
"Trust and honesty" are my 2 serious factors to form a concrete foundation so take my word for it.An extrovert and open minded. I am family orientated and christian. I am affectionate and out spoken I have never been married and no kids but open to
Lusanda
40 • Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 70
LOOKING FOR NUDE PICTURES THEN DON;T TEXT ME PLS
I am not here to tell lies or pretentious stories about myself. What you see is what you get, Honesty is a strong virtue to emulate. I l am honest, straight forward, tolerable, and love to laugh, love to read adventure stories and some romance novels and scientific books a little crime stories too, I love to see the mountains and enjoy wine tasting and festive events, catching up with tv series and Netflix dramas ,travel, cook, prefer decent and positive and fun conversations without boundaries. I also prefer to wake up next to my computer while working on future projects. I enjoy a good day reading and watching tv while having a glass of wine. Make my day. Tell me an interesting story about yourself and you will enjoy me better.
Favour
42 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 36 - 50
life partner : a believer of true love
I am a single Christian lady .i am a mum of 1 teenager incase it's not your favourite. I am a passionate and self-motivated woman who aims for the best in everything I do. I am ambitious and I believe in love even if I haven't found one yet.i believe in marriage too and . I am looking for a man who can accept who I am and be a resilient partner, excited to build a life together.
Sluh
43 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 44 - 58
Let me submit to the love you'll give me
I'm a humble intelligent woman, loving, caring and honesty. I'm funny to be around with I speak my mind but in a respectful manner short tempered but I don't hold grudge. I like sea walk with my man holding hands. happiness is very important to me
Pum
43 • Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 51
What you see is what you get
What you see is what you get I'm not trying to be someone that I'm not. I come from a big family so I love people. Im funny in my own way. I don't trust easily I ask questions if I don't understand. I'm an athletic love running. I respect ppl who respects others.im open minded . I respect other ppls culture . I'm a Christian. That's all for now.
Khay
48 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 54
Driven by faith
Hi there! I’m a passionate, faith-driven person who believes in living with purpose and intention. My journey has taken me through some amazing experiences, which have helped shape me into someone who values authenticity, resilience, and kindness. I’m someone who enjoys both deep conversations and a good laugh, and I love spending time in nature – whether it’s a peaceful walk in the park or simply enjoying a quiet moment. I’m looking for a meaningful connection with someone who shares similar values and is ready to explore life together with joy, faith, and mutual respect. If you’re grounded, compassionate, and appreciate the little things, we might just get along!
Gloriah
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 57
I am an queen 👸
🌸 I’m a kind-hearted, God-fearing woman who believes in real love, loyalty, and meaningful connection. I’m looking for a serious relationship built on trust, respect, and communication that will lead to marriage. I’m also a proud mom of beautiful,
Tabetha
48 • Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 65
Looking for a love that feels like home
I’m a warm-hearted, traditional woman who believes in faith, loyalty, and the beauty of lasting love. I treasure meaningful connection, gentle affection, and a man who leads with kindness and strength. A man who fears God. While I hold dear to timele
Paully
48 • Badplaas, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking: Male 44 - 54
Looking for true love & its components .
I am decent ,Goal oriented, Fun, Loving & Caring. I love outgoing and socializing with the right people. I am a mother of 2 lovely daughters. I am a good hearted . I like romance.....I can love with no limitations when I am completely comfortable with my partner. I know exactly what i am looking for and can not compromise for anything lesser. Scammers dont waste your time on me as I expose you before you even get to do your scams on me. I know how to catch one😐
Chengetai
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 60
My name is chengetai I'm from Zimbabwe now am staying in south Africa am a hard worker , caring , submissive respectful am negative status for hiv,l love myself the way am and thank God with the things l have , lam a tailor ,my free time l will work
Deborah
47 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 60
Looking for my soulmate, my other half,my best fre
I'm a simple fun lady from South Africa, i'm a God fearing woman humble, kind and respectful, loyal and transparent. I'm a hard worker i love peace. I treat other people the same way i want to be treated. My hobbies is watching movies, swimming, playing volleyball and cooking African food. I love to explore, to learn more about other cultures and other countries. I love travelling a lot.Please Do Not Ask for my Whatsapp number in few days of chatting i dont like that.
Provie
42 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 55
Every Life Has a Story, Let Us Share Ours.
originally from Rwanda but currently living in South Africa. I love plants, coffee, music, roadtrips... I Have two kids 21 and 11 years old. I'm introvert/extrovert depending on the company, but, can be very spontaneous, I'd be happy to join you on whatever is that excite you. I love my little life, I can spend time with myself and I really love it but would be wonderful to have someone to share it with, you don't have to match my weirdo everybody is different as long as our souls resonate... I'm dedicated, kind and honest person.
Becky
40 • Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 36 - 45
Ready to Write Our Love Story Together
Hey, I'm Becky, outgoing, creative lovely lady. I am a hopeless romantic and always strive to believe in the good within everyone. I'm straightforward about my needs, and honest when I feel hurt. I am looking for an equally positive partner who love
Dineo
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 37 - 56
MS Dee
"Hi there! I'm Miss Dee, a 39-year-old Account Receivables administrator by day and a fun-loving adventurer by night. When I'm not crunching numbers, you can find me trying out new restaurants, or curled up with a good book. I'm looking for someone who shares my sense of humor, loves to try new things, and values honesty and kindness. If you're a fellow foodie, or travel enthusiast, let's connect!
St
42 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 65
very honest, caring and have no time for dishonesty peopl. I'm not here for games. And I have seen there are alot of people here who are just joining because they are bored and this makes them dishonest too. At times I want to deactivated the dating site. please not all of us are here for prostitution and gold digging. I don't need your money I want your true love heart. Scammers please stay away
Bridget Mpala
44 • Mafikeng, North-West, South Africa
Seeking: Male 47 - 60
A respected principled lady with dignity ,caring,
Iam a child of God serving with passion and faithfulness .A teacher of the word of God
Rejoice
42 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 49 - 65
Looking for the one to share it all
Nature lover , bookwarm ,and aspiring world traveller looking for an adventurous ,kindkind-hearted match
Nokuthula
44 • Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 49 - 57
Will always believe in True love and i love life
very humble and and free spirit, who loves art venture to travel around
Rose
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 56
Waridi
Confident, fun-loving, kind-hearted woman who believes in love, deep conversations, and laughter. I enjoy traveling, new adventures, and meaningful connections. Planning to meet you soon – let’s create something real!
Esperança
41 • Stellenbosch, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 60
In search of a profound, longlasting relationship
Iam a loving person, I strongly believe in forgiveness

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