Meet South African Singles Over 40

Linda

45 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 45 - 99

To my soulmate my name is Linda am 41years old am single. I consider myself a very sweet loving and friendly caring person. Always respect the next person i enjoy being a round people i love and i love to live life. Am looking for a lovely mature man for a serious relationship . I like to clean , travel, comedy , and spending time with my better half. If you not serious please do not contact me.

Reina

48 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 48 - 59

Perverts stay away from me . yes read it again.

I'm loving, polite and very passionate person and very sensual person, open minded . I'm fun loving, with a good sense of humour. I like nature, being outdoors, hiking long walks , I like to dance and listen to music 😊🎶.. I love to travel when I can.

simk

44 • Mandini, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

Seeking: Male 55 - 70

A strictly one man woman and extremely passionate.

I am an honest ; straight forward and genuine person . I believe in either all or nothing. I am strictly a one man woman who knows how to give and appreciate love in return . I love children and senior citizens .I am one of the best lover you can come across . I love giving than receiving . I am looking for someone who will love me for me .I know when it's time to laugh and I know when it's not . Cant fake anything to save my life . I I am happy or upset about something you will know .

Irene

46 • Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 45 - 65

My King where are you!!!!!!

I am an educated black lady, very independent . Very loyal and honest person. A Christian. Fitness is part of my daily life. If you are looking for nude pictures, check somewhere else please. Nude pictures or you want to show me your private part please don't contact me. I think this is loud. I'm looking for my king here not social prostitution.

Merry

48 • Krugersdorp, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 47 - 60

ln God l trust,l believe,l have a hope.

I’m a 48-year-old Zimbabwean single mom and God fearing lady l believe in God and in true love.l values honesty, trust, and real connections. After focusing on raising my family and personal growth, I’m ready to welcome someone who shares my passion for life, family, and creating something lasting together.

diamond

44 • Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa

Seeking: Male 41 - 60

I am the future you are looking for

Independent woman,like to challenge my mind with new things learning every skill weather is for a man or woman ,I can make fire ND braai meat by myself,I paint my house with my son ND cut grass ,make clothes for my family I took sewing lessons,I'm 60/40 introvert ND extrovert,I enjoy my space more

Zethu

43 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

Seeking: Male 35 - 65

"Ready to Write Our Love Story Together"🫂 👌

I can describe myself as an introvert, unique in many ways I like to do things differently, I like to things better then the other day, soft at heart loving and caring, I like helping people which makes me happy at most times, I like trying new things like new recipes of cooking and baking, feel free to make a quick joke I have a good sense of humour, on my free time I do yoga which I love the most, it keeps my energy level high enough, feel free to ask me any questions ☺️

Khini

49 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 50 - 63

I’m here for something meaningful. If you’re emoti...

Welcome, and thank you for visiting my profile. 😊 After spending a few years in the UK, I’ve returned home to South Africa with a deeper sense of self and purpose. Along my journey, I studied alternative well-being therapies in South Korea, where I became certified in Meditation, Breath Work, and Meridian-based movement (similar to yoga). These practices have become a meaningful part of how I live and connect with the world. I embrace a soft, feminine way of being—grounded in nurturing energy, calm strength, and emotional depth. I value emotional honesty, kindness, and the quiet power of a sincere heart. I believe that love should be intentional, present, and wholehearted. Life is too precious for half-measures. When shared with the right person, even the simplest moments can feel full and joyful. I will love you deeply and support your growth, as I hope to be supported in return. My time alone has taught me to value connection even more deeply—not out of lack, but out of clarity. I know what I have to give, and I’m no longer afraid to show affection, gratitude, and tenderness. I don’t believe in playing games—just being real, showing up with grace, and letting things unfold naturally. I lead a simple, soulful life and appreciate the beauty of nature, meaningful conversations, and genuine companionship. If you’re someone who values emotional maturity, a calm spirit, and a woman who leads with her heart—then I’d love to connect. May your time here bring you closer to something beautiful. 🌻 Warmest wishes. PS: I value presence, peace, and emotional safety. I’m not here for transient pleasures, but for something that nourishes the heart.🙏🙏

Dee

41 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 30 - 45

Serious only

Smart, goal and career oriented. On the thick side and want a man who will appreciate and love me as I am.I am looking to settle down and start own family, so no time to play games. I am also drama and gabbage free and expect same from my man.

Zee

42 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

Seeking: Male 40 - 60

Relationship but taking it slow

Loving, caring, honest, laid back, very humble, trustworthy, just cool, adaptive, understanding, playful. No nude pics you'll get from me. I'm kinda old school. I'm a Christian and won't convert to any other religion, I'm 42, divorced, have 2 kids please don't ask me again things I've mentioned. 🤓👋I DON'T WANT KIDS ANYMORE

Shreshtha

47 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 40 - 59

Personality speaks louder than appearance

Im widowed for 13 years. A good Christian lady. Drama free. Love music n would go for a live concert anytime. Im very jovial love to laugh n be happy. I appreciate cultures n diversities. Learning about ways of life n different cultures intrigues me. Im overall a very simple person. God bless u... Thank u for reading me.... Good luck

Kayo

42 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 46 - 56

Love life. Warm hearted n Principled.

Honesty n Respect will help one go a long way. I believe it's the little things that matters most. Kisses, love, laugh, care. When I love, I love with passion. When I hate, well m too pretty to hate. Family oriented n Yes finding pleasure in turning a house into a home. Not a trophy wife type though I prefer to bring my share to the table. Makes me feel whole. (I love kids but not sure I wanna have more, on that note: I definitely wouldn't mind helping my partner in raising the kids.Taking care of my man who appreciates me Now that completes my mission. A team player. I try to keep fit n healthy. My spiritual being is equally important to me.

Yay

43 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 40 - 60

I still believe in love

I would like to think that I am kind, loving, and a very humble woman. I am an ambivert. I am honest, and when I love, I love unconditionally. Just like everybody, I have my good and bad sides. I am not perfect, but every day I strive to do better than a day before. I'm in search of someone who will offer me true love, and I know I can offer the same. I have 2 kids, and do not want to have more, but love the idea of a blended family, and will love your kids as if they were mine. I'm not here for games, or hookups, and I don't want to be objectified for fetish fantasies. I'm not here to judge or look down on anyone, I am just at a point in my life where I know exactly what I want. If you're here for games and fantasies, I humbly request that you please do not contact me.

Bongie

40 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

Seeking: Male 39 - 60

Kind honest lovin lady lookin for hard working man

I am easy going soft spoken and a bit shy when I'm around strangers bt loosen up once we click. l'm open minded considerate and not complicated. I love family and am looking for a serious relationship, l am a 40 years old single mother of 2 girls.

African love nest

43 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 43 - 60

Intentional & direct

"Trust and honesty" are my 2 serious factors to form a concrete foundation so take my word for it.An extrovert and open minded to experiences & some new knowledge. I am family orientated and christian. I am affectionate and out spoken I have never been married and no kids but open to motherhood still. I am a graduate of public relations management through University of South Africa I am old school with values and principles I am affectionate very touchy and let loose by just looking at each other without uttering words I am hopefull to meet the right guy. I adore love truly so If i might be the lady for your peaceful soul and mind let's chat.NB: no nudes , no online sex , no rudeness or arrogance. Only seriously looking especially marriage

Sluh

42 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

Seeking: Male 44 - 58

Let me submit to the love you'll give me

I'm a humble intelligent woman, loving, caring and honesty. I'm funny to be around with I speak my mind but in a respectful manner short tempered but I don't hold grudge. I like sea walk with my man holding hands. happiness is very important to me

Grace

49 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 50 - 65

Ebony lady seeking male for adventure and travel

Fully vaccinated ebony lady. I presently live in Johannesburg, South Africa and i own a boarding cattery and a cat grooming business. I spend my free time surfing the net or watching Amazon prime or Netflix and of course making luxury cold process so

Pum

40 • Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 43 - 51

What you see is what you get

What you see is what you get I'm not trying to be someone that I'm not. I come from a big family so I love people. Im funny in my own way. I don't trust easily I ask questions if I don't understand. I'm an athletic love running. I respect ppl who respects others.im open minded . I respect other ppls culture . I'm a Christian. That's all for now.

Khay

48 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 45 - 54

Driven by faith

Hi there! I’m a passionate, faith-driven person who believes in living with purpose and intention. My journey has taken me through some amazing experiences, which have helped shape me into someone who values authenticity, resilience, and kindness. I’m someone who enjoys both deep conversations and a good laugh, and I love spending time in nature – whether it’s a peaceful walk in the park or simply enjoying a quiet moment. I’m looking for a meaningful connection with someone who shares similar values and is ready to explore life together with joy, faith, and mutual respect. If you’re grounded, compassionate, and appreciate the little things, we might just get along!

Maki

45 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 47 - 60

Gorgeous and Kind but straight forward talker

Im 46 years South African beautiful woman, I am a kind person naturally, God loving and love to connect with different people globally. I value people who are honest and truthful. Always treat others with respect.. Kindness dont cost a penny. I am a professional worker, so I will never ever ask you a data, airtime , money, marriage etc.. Im here to connect and build friendship, serious relationship whatever that can come out of two people. If you are here for scamming, dont waste your time, i know all the tricks by now through experience 😎 sooo dont even try...

Nombuyekezo

48 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Seeking: Male 43 - 58

my love life partner is out there

Hy i am an african woman looking for a love life patner..i am single never married due to disappointment from my fiance who is a father to my daughter. what a painful experience..but i made closer with that..i believe i was not born to be alone,my k

Paully

44 • Badplaas, Mpumalanga, South Africa

Seeking: Male 44 - 54

Looking for true love & its components .

I am decent ,Goal oriented, Fun, Loving & Caring. I love outgoing and socializing with the right people. I am a mother of 2 lovely daughters. I am a good hearted . I like romance.....I can love with no limitations when I am completely comfortable with my partner. I know exactly what i am looking for and can not compromise for anything lesser. Scammers dont waste your time on me as I expose you before you even get to do your scams on me. I know how to catch one😐

Chengetai

40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 39 - 60

My name is chengetai I'm from Zimbabwe now am staying in south Africa am a hard worker , caring , submissive respectful am negative status for hiv,l love myself the way am and thank God with the things l have , lam a tailor ,my free time l will work

Deborah

45 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

Seeking: Male 41 - 60

Looking for my soulmate, my other half,my best fre

I'm a simple fun lady from South Africa, i'm a God fearing woman humble, kind and respectful, loyal and transparent. I'm a hard worker i love peace. I treat other people the same way i want to be treated. My hobbies is watching movies, swimming, playing volleyball and cooking African food. I love to explore, to learn more about other cultures and other countries. I love travelling a lot.Please Do Not Ask for my Whatsapp number in few days of chatting i dont like that.

Provie

42 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Seeking: Male 37 - 56

Every Life Has a Story, Let Us Share Ours.

originally from Rwanda but currently living in South Africa. I love plants, coffee, music, roadtrips... I Have two kids 21 and 11 years old. I'm introvert/extrovert depending on the company, but, can be very spontaneous, I'd be happy to join you on

madumane

49 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 30 - 85

African woman

I am a loving African queen, who is looking for loving king with lots of love and respect. I know they is still love out there, but only if you find someone honest.l love traveling farming, i have a small land whereby I grow my crops, im a nature loving person. I also love sports and i love playing netball. I'm also a nature lover

St

41 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 41 - 65

very honest, caring and have no time for dishonesty peopl. I'm not here for games. And I have seen there are alot of people here who are just joining because they are bored and this makes them dishonest too. At times I want to deactivated the dating site. please not all of us are here for prostitution and gold digging. I don't need your money I want your true love heart. Scammers please stay away

Rejoice

41 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

Seeking: Male 49 - 65

Looking for the one to share it all

Nature lover , bookwarm ,and aspiring world traveller looking for an adventurous ,kindkind-hearted match

Nokuthula

44 • Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa

Seeking: Male 49 - 57

Will always believe in True love and i love life

very humble and and free spirit, who loves art venture to travel around

cynthia

40 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Seeking: Male 50 - 79

Am new here. Two heads are better than one

I’m a woman in the prime of her life. I am dynamic, active, I always try to go with a positive attitude in life and it is difficult to get me off this path. In general, I consider myself a sincere person, with a good sense of humour and a big heart.

Rose

40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 39 - 56

Waridi

Confident, fun-loving, kind-hearted woman who believes in love, deep conversations, and laughter. I enjoy traveling, new adventures, and meaningful connections. Planning to meet you soon – let’s create something real!

Siwe

43 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

Seeking: Male 42 - 70

Meaningful, Authentic connection relationship.

I am fun, loving, affectionate, caring woman. I am single and loyal girl.

Esperança

41 • Stellenbosch, Western Cape, South Africa

Seeking: Male 43 - 60

In search of a profound, longlasting relationship

Iam a loving person, I strongly believe in forgiveness

DINEO

43 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Seeking: Male 50 - 60

Amira

44 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Seeking: Male 50 - 60

Am your best friend !

I am an open book with a loving and caring heart . Communication is key !

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