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Linda
Diamond
49
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 99
Traditional woman fun and loving .
Am a traditional woman kind loving and caring. Am family oriented i like trying out new things and love outdoor activities. I like to clean , travel, comedy , and spending time with my better half. If you not serious please do not contact me.
jess
Platinum Member
42
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 58
I'm a Christian so I believe in GOD.
im a good person with full of love and respect..im looking for my future husband someone who I can spend the rest of my life with and remember we will be video call chatting to see if we both really if you can't video call then you are not the one im looking for...I won't ask you for money because I came to this place for love nothing alse. if you ask me for nudes I will block you immediately and im not here for games so only serious man who can chat with me.
Busi
Standard Member
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
I'm looking for a companion, long term.
I'm a very loving, caring and loyal woman, love cooking, I have good morals, I respect people, love laughing, I smile all the time cause it brings out the best in me, keeping my body fit an living a healthy lifestyle is part of my life, I have a son
simk
Standard Member
48
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Mandini, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 55 - 70
A strictly one man woman and extremely passionate.
I am an honest ; straight forward and genuine person . I believe in either all or nothing. I am strictly a one man woman who knows how to give and appreciate love in return . I love children and senior citizens .I am one of the best lover you can come across . I love giving than receiving . I am looking for someone who will love me for me .I know when it's time to laugh and I know when it's not . Cant fake anything to save my life . I I am happy or upset about something you will know .
Dash
Standard Member
43
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Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 41 - 60
I’ll request a video call to confirm
Easy and full of life! I am looking for someone who is here for genuine connection, I am a lover of life and ready to meet my King. I am a big communicator and very much available, do not speak to me if you are too busy, I want someone that wants me
diamond
Standard Member
45
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 41 - 60
I am the future you are looking for
Independent woman,like to challenge my mind with new things learning every skill weather is for a man or woman ,I can make fire ND braai meat by myself,I paint my house with my son ND cut grass ,make clothes for my family I took sewing lessons,I'm 60/40 introvert ND extrovert,I enjoy my space more
Zethu
Standard Member
44
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 65
"Ready to Write Our Love Story Together"🫂 👌
I can describe myself as an introvert, unique in many ways I like to do things differently, I like to things better then the other day, soft at heart loving and caring, I like helping people which makes me happy at most times, I like trying new things like new recipes of cooking and baking, feel free to make a quick joke I have a good sense of humour, on my free time I do yoga which I love the most, it keeps my energy level high enough, feel free to ask me any questions ☺️
Thuli
Standard Member
40
•
Margate, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 75
Swipe away if you not willing to meet in person.
A well groomed, fun, loving and passionate young lady. I love traveling and enjoy the finer things in life. I am a family oriented person and my world revolves around my loved ones. I love whole heartedly and honestly. I believe in second chances and believe that if one truly believes in something, they can surely achieve it.
Bridget
Standard Member
Verified
40
•
Taung, North-West, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 42 - 51
Kindness can never be overrated 🤗
Warm, loyal, and always up for a good laugh. I believe life is already too serious, so I truly appreciate people with a great sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, you’re already halfway there! Love means the world to me—I have a big heart and a
Elizabeth
Standard Member
Verified
46
•
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 60
Ghananians and Nigerians please don’t bother!!!
I’m someone who truly believes in the power of kindness, honesty, and love. I do my best to treat others with respect and compassion, and I value deep, meaningful connections. I take pride in being genuine—what you see is what you get. Whether it’s through my actions or my words, I strive to bring positivity and sincerity into the lives of those around me. Being there for others, staying true to my values, and leading with my heart are all important parts of who I am.
Kaylicious
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 57 - 60
If you are from NIGERIA, USA pls don't bother me
**PLEASE NOTE** I WILL NOT RESPOND TO ANY FLASH MESSAGES. If you are interested in me than please use your keyboard letters and send me a message... BOOOOMMM!! i'm looking for a MATURE GENTLEMAN.. I'm 40+ years of age, love being in a company of a gentleman who has no hang-ups about being with a Black beauty. I'm looking for something long term and a gentleman who is willing to treat me like a queen as I will treat him like my king. I love to be spoilt and pampered, so if you are not willing to do that then please kindly move along and don't waste my time and energy.
Janice
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 34 - 34
"Chosen"
Hi! I'm Janice, a kind-hearted and genuine person waiting for someone to share life's moments with. I value honesty, empathy, and kindness. In my free time, I enjoy watching documentaries.. I'm excited to meet someone special and see where things go.
Zee
Standard Member
Verified
43
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
ONLY VANILLAS. I LOVE MY COFFEE WITH CREAM
Loving, caring, honest, romantic, laid back, very humble, trustworthy, just cool, adaptive, understanding, playful, silly sometimes, serious sometimes. No nude pics you'll get from me. I'm kinda old school. I love God and I'm a Christian and won't convert to any other religion, I'm 42, divorced, have 2 kids please don't ask me again things I've mentioned. 🤓👋I DON'T WANT KIDS ANYMORE. I love the outdoors, walks on the beach, love nature wholeheartedly. Sensual, traveling, football and love dogs. If you love dogs please pass I'm not for you. Love quiet romantic nights with my partner. Video call on WhatsApp is a must for me. If you can't video call don't waste my time and yours. No Nigerians or Ghanaians please
Kayo
Standard Member
44
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 46 - 64
Love life. Warm hearted n Principled.
Honesty n Respect will help one go a long way. I believe it's the little things that matters most. Kisses, love, laugh, live. Family oriented n Yes finding pleasure in turning a house into a home. Taking care of my man who appreciates me Now that completes my mission. ;A team player. I try to keep fit n healthy. My spiritual being is equally important to me.
Gorata
Standard Member
42
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 57
am a loving single woman , love to travel and meet new people, learning more bout their culture .. I love cooking and baking .. my favorite food , I love pasta.. I don’t have kids but I adore kids so much .. I always keep smiling that makes me so happy ❤️
Bongie
Standard Member
40
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 60
Kind honest lovin lady lookin for hard working man
I am easy going soft spoken and a bit shy when I'm around strangers bt loosen up once we click. l'm open minded considerate and not complicated. I love family and am looking for a serious relationship, l am a 40 years old single mother of 2 girls.
Nomthemba
Standard Member
49
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Newcastle, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 60
Love ❤️ is beutiful
I'm an open person who likes to socializing.I like nature very well.Im open minded person who enjoys learning new things,cultures and other people's way of living.I takes life as it comes.I don't have time for scammers or players don't even try to talk with me because I will block you immediately.Im the woman of the caliber respect is the key to me.Im here to search for love not players.Please read my profile 1st before you come in my inbox.Video call is the 1st thing to be done.
Lusanda
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
LOOKING FOR NUDE PICTURES THEN DON;T TEXT ME PLS
I am not here to tell lies or pretentious stories about myself. What you see is what you get, Honesty is a strong virtue to emulate. I l am honest, straight forward, tolerable, and love to laugh, love to read adventure stories and some romance novels and scientific books a little crime stories too, I love to see the mountains and enjoy wine tasting and festive events, catching up with tv series and Netflix dramas ,travel, cook, prefer decent and positive and fun conversations without boundaries. I also prefer to wake up next to my computer while working on future projects. I enjoy a good day reading and watching tv while having a glass of wine. Make my day. Tell me an interesting story about yourself and you will enjoy me better.
Favour
Standard Member
42
•
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 36 - 50
life partner : a believer of true love
I am a single Christian lady .i am a mum of 1 teenager incase it's not your favourite. I am a passionate and self-motivated woman who aims for the best in everything I do. I am ambitious and I believe in love even if I haven't found one yet.i believe in marriage too and . I am looking for a man who can accept who I am and be a resilient partner, excited to build a life together.
Sluh
Standard Member
43
•
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 58
Let me submit to the love you'll give me
I'm a humble intelligent woman, loving, caring and honesty. I'm funny to be around with I speak my mind but in a respectful manner short tempered but I don't hold grudge. I like sea walk with my man holding hands. happiness is very important to me
Pum
Standard Member
43
•
Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 51
What you see is what you get
What you see is what you get I'm not trying to be someone that I'm not. I come from a big family so I love people. Im funny in my own way. I don't trust easily I ask questions if I don't understand. I'm an athletic love running. I respect ppl who respects others.im open minded . I respect other ppls culture . I'm a Christian. That's all for now.
peggy
Standard Member
41
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 46 - 68
I’m happily searching for a real connection🥰
Hi 👋 my name is Peggy , black African from Zambia 🇿🇲 layed back , I love being indoors and traveling seeing new places. am a single mother of 2 boys 21 and 12 yrs old irrespectively. I have a great sense of humor, I give peace and not drama. am a family oriented person, where I come from family is everything. my kids are my number one priority, having said that I would love to meet someone who shares the same values with me , a family oriented man I can share my heart ❤️ with. what I bring to the table, I bring peace , respect, love and loyalty , these things are very important to me . As a single mother I love cooking for my children when am with them it’s something that gives me joy😊.Am a devoted Christian and I don’t joke with my faith. Am not here for fun , am not here to exchange naked pictures, my body is only ment for my future husband. I’m looking forward to meet my life partner someday 🥰 the search continues till my future husband gets me off this app, wherever you are distance is not the barrier. Am not a premium member, please text me if you like my profile 🥰.
Gloriah
Standard Member
40
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 57
I am an queen 👸
🌸 I’m a kind-hearted, God-fearing woman who believes in real love, loyalty, and meaningful connection. I’m looking for a serious relationship built on trust, respect, and communication that will lead to marriage. I’m also a proud mom of beautiful,
Thando
Standard Member
44
•
East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 66
natural, authentic
Thando is my short name for Nothando which means love ❤️.I am a Zimbabwean living in South Africa and I’ve been living here for more than ten years. I am a Christian (God fearing). A mother who is independent (not rich), I am able through God’s provi
Vee
Standard Member
40
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
Honesty, love and focus
Am an African woman who wears her crown with pride ,looking for my king ,I love family ,love to laugh enjoy life with the little moments that money can't buy ,my 2 beautiful daughters are my world ,and so much willing to have that special man that will complete us ,and will be loved and cherished
Paully
Standard Member
Verified
48
•
Badplaas, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 48 - 60
Looking for true love & its components .
I am decent ,Goal oriented, Fun, Loving & Caring. I love outgoing and socializing with the right people. I am a mother of 2 lovely daughters. I am a good hearted . I like romance.....I can love with no limitations when I am completely comfortable with my partner. I know exactly what i am looking for and can not compromise for anything lesser. Scammers dont waste your time on me as I expose you before you even get to do your scams on me. I know how to catch one😐
Chengetai
Standard Member
40
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 60
My name is chengetai I'm from Zimbabwe now am staying in south Africa am a hard worker , caring , submissive respectful am negative status for hiv,l love myself the way am and thank God with the things l have , lam a tailor ,my free time l will work
Deborah
Standard Member
47
•
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 41 - 60
Looking for my soulmate, my other half,my best fre
I'm a simple fun lady from South Africa, i'm a God fearing woman humble, kind and respectful, loyal and transparent. I'm a hard worker i love peace. I treat other people the same way i want to be treated. My hobbies is watching movies, swimming, playing volleyball and cooking African food. I love to explore, to learn more about other cultures and other countries. I love travelling a lot.Please Do Not Ask for my Whatsapp number in few days of chatting i dont like that.
Laila
Standard Member
46
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Looking for a life partner
I consider myself to be a loving and caring individual, that knows what she wants in life and is not prepared to settle for less. I am religious and practice Islam in all I do. I am a family oriented person, but also like to socialize and interact wi
Becky
Standard Member
40
•
Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 36 - 45
Ready to Write Our Love Story Together
Hey, I'm Becky, outgoing, creative lovely lady. I am a hopeless romantic and always strive to believe in the good within everyone. I'm straightforward about my needs, and honest when I feel hurt. I am looking for an equally positive partner who love
Dineo
Standard Member
40
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 56
MS Dee
"Hi there! I'm Miss Dee, a 39-year-old Account Receivables administrator by day and a fun-loving adventurer by night. When I'm not crunching numbers, you can find me trying out new restaurants, or curled up with a good book. I'm looking for someone who shares my sense of humor, loves to try new things, and values honesty and kindness. If you're a fellow foodie, or travel enthusiast, let's connect!
Bokgalo
Standard Member
41
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
A passionate lover of life
I am a passionate lover of life and believe that there is always something to be grateful for in every situation. I am a family oriented soul who values relationships. Life is a gift that provides new opportunities daily, for us to unwrap its beauty
St
Standard Member
42
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 41 - 65
very honest, caring and have no time for dishonesty peopl. I'm not here for games. And I have seen there are alot of people here who are just joining because they are bored and this makes them dishonest too. At times I want to deactivated the dating site. please not all of us are here for prostitution and gold digging. I don't need your money I want your true love heart. Scammers please stay away
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jayne
Standard Member
44
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 65
Cynthia
Standard Member
41
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Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 50
Seeking serious relationship
I'm honest and outgoing person
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