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Mary
45 • Ibadan, Oyo, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 45 - 60
Looking for an intentional man.
I am a lady who believes in mutual respect,love and building compatibility. I love to be loved while I reciprocate the same. I believe marriage is beautiful when you are with your friend. I want someone with good intentions and ready to settle down, no game, no fake. If you have great qualities that match mine, feel free to message me.
Precious
40 • Mombasa, Coast, Kenya
Seeking: Male 40 - 67
Let’s create our own love story…….
I’m an elegant outgoing woman who is smart ambitious and business minded. I value meaningful conversations, connections and know how to balance a purposeful life with genuine fun and laughter. I’m Calm, caring, and past casual dating. I love good conversations, shared laughs, and small gestures that mean a lot. I’m here for a true partner—someone to grow with, feel at home with, and create a steady, loving life together………
bunmi
40 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Male 45 - 75
I am quite the package without the baggage.
You have to ask. Please I am real and heavily chested… all completely real so please don’t ask. Do not message if you can not talk on the phone or video call me. Do not bring the baggage of past experiences to me neither, New person new vibe ( only positive ones ) clean slate so please don’t drag me into my ex did this and that cuz I’m not going to do that to you. If you don’t know how to be a real man in all it’s ramifications please stay off, there are too many boys that look like men out there and that don’t even know what they are doing. I am a very peaceful person that hates drama so I don’t give it. I love learning so stimulate my mind. I’m a great cook and a homebody but I like adventure as well. Just be real, honest and open, I don’t bite. I don’t judge or take people for granted. I have got big big love in my heart alas, but no good man to spend it with. Perhaps you are the one… let’s get to know each other.
Alice
41 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 38 - 50
Loving the solo journey, but open to a co-pilot 🥰
To walk through this earth and not fall deeply in love? You haven’t lived at all. And I plan to LIVE. Hehe!_ I’m an intentional, Godly, romantic ambivert with a soft heart for family. I do music for a living 🎶 and I make jollof that’ll honestly ruin you for other women 😌 Big on: cooking, sports, classic movies, archaeology, arts, gardening, and deep convos that last till 2am._ Fluent in: Afrobeats, laughter, and love languages._
Magaret
43 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 41 - 60
intentional, witty always smiling.
I am the kind of person who laughs easily, love meaningful conversations, and believes life is best lived with intention.I’m kind, witty and genuinely love meeting people and learning their stories. I’m a goal-getter who works hard but also knows ho
Cedellah
40 • Embakasi, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 40 - 70
African queen looking for her king
I'm cedellah, a 40years sweet soul from Kenya. I'm a friendly and ambitious personwith great sense of humor,I love personal growth, meaningful conversations and meeting people from different cultures.I value kindness, loyalty, respect,and genuine connections. I'm a great cook and I love trying new cuisines,am outgoing and love the beach.
Emily
42 • Kasarani, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 43 - 57
Hello 👋
Hello, I'm Emily. A mother of two beautiful children. A girl and a boy aged 16 and 12. I'm always happy, kind and loving. I enjoy outdoors including walking, camping etc. I'm looking for something real and long-term, someone who we can enjoy life wit
Caroline
49 • Busia, Western, Kenya
Seeking: Male 47 - 75
Just me looking, hoping, and wishing.
I’m a confident, feminine woman who enjoys living life beautifully. I believe in positive energy, meaningful connections, and surrounding myself with people who know how to appreciate and be appreciated. I carry myself with grace, but I also have a playful side once you get to know me. I enjoy dressing up for nice dinners, soft music, deep conversations, and peaceful moments. I’m affectionate, loyal, and supportive to the right person. I believe a real connection is built on respect, generosity, and mutual understanding. When I care about someone, I show it fully. I’m attracted to a mature, successful, and emotionally intelligent gentleman who understands the value of partnership. A man who is stable, confident, and enjoys taking care of his woman. I appreciate a man who leads with kindness and knows that treating a woman well brings out her best. I also love different kinds of gifts from friends — thoughtful surprises, flowers, perfumes, cute little things, or even experiences. For me, gifts are not just material; they are a beautiful way of showing appreciation and affection. I believe generosity and gratitude go hand in hand. If you’re established, respectful, discreet, and ready for something enjoyable and mutually rewarding, we’ll get along perfectly. I don’t entertain drama or games — just good vibes, honesty, and chemistry. Let’s create something exciting, comfortable, and unforgettable. 💫
Elizabeth
43 • Westlands, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 45 - 50
Big heart, open mind and good intentions.
I am a 43 year old God fearing lady. Single and a Mum of 1 teenage boy. An Accountant by profession. I am kind, caring & straightforward. I enjoy working out at the gym, outdoor activities,hikes, traveling & dancing. I am open to new experiences of having fun & adventure.
Gladys
43 • Nakuru, Rift Valley, Kenya
Seeking: Male 54 - 99
"God-centered and compassionate.
"I’m a caring and faith-driven individual who believes in living a life guided by God’s word. As a caregiver, I’ve spent years dedicating myself to helping others, and I love building meaningful connections. In my free time, I enjoy reading the Bible (Psalms is my favorite), exploring new ideas, and finding joy in life’s little blessings. I’m looking for someone who shares my Christian values and is ready to grow together in faith and love."
rhoda
43 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 30 - 65
Soft-spoken but strong. A proud mum.
Not here for your wallet, Collin from New Zealand already saw my worth😄. (that's a joke)I’m here for depth, dignity, and a man who knows what he lost when he let go. Family oriented. Let's leave this app and watch sunsets for the rest of our lives😊 I love cooking, art, music, selfcare, reading( no specific genre) just to mention but a few. Where's my King at? Ps: Pervs to the left please, I dont send nudes
SOPHISTICATED
41 • Mombasa, Coast, Kenya
Seeking: Male 50 - 70
AM A LOVER NOT A FIGHTER.LOOKING FOR A WHITEMAN.
I am very bubbly. Enjoy life to the fullest. i love Road trips, Nature and simple yet making and leaving a good impression on me!! Am crazy and very daring to enjoy life together.. Am still into making a home and cooking best cooked meals with love at home. Berbeque Sundays and baking..love it. or Roadtrip weekend to the cabin😇😇
maselina
43 • Kwale, Coast, Kenya
Seeking: Male 43 - 79
Looking for my king
Am a 42 year old mother of one from kenya.Am looking for a mature man aged between 43 to 75 years old for a serious mrelationship. I valze honesty ,kindness and strong family bond and if you are ready build meaningful future together and share similar values together please get in touch with me.I would love to connect with you.NOTE :I have no interest in wasting time on games,meaningless conversations or discussions that are only about sex
Dela
45 • Abakaliki, Ebonyi, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 44 - 60
I am a beautiful lady who is very intentional, creative and very proactive.I am smart, ready and willing to learn new things.I am fun to be with and have plenty of love,care, respect to give.However, I don't like drama,lies and cheating.I am a good
Phyllis
44 • Richmond, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Male 44 - 50
Purpose-driven, Passion-led, Love-ready!
I live each day with intention, guided by faith and fueled by passion. Whether I’m enjoying a quiet evening, exploring a new place, or laughing until my cheeks hurt, I try to embrace life wholeheartedly. I’m reserved at first, but once I open up, you’ll find warmth, depth, and a touch of playful humor. I really do find joy in life’s simple pleasures. Goal-oriented and driven, I’m always striving to grow while keeping my values at the center. I’m ready to share life’s adventures with someone who’s equally grounded and optimistic
Johanna
40 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 41 - 60
A LITTLE BIT OF ME
I'll come back to this😉
Natalie
41 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 42 - 99
Human Rights Law student
am a dedicated and hardworking student currently pursuing my studies. I am passionate about learning new skills, working well with others, and challenging myself to achieve my academic and personal goals. I am eager to apply my knowledge to real-life
Angela
40 • Thika, Central, Kenya
Seeking: Male 41 - 64
Fluent in Sarcasm, coffee and Laughter
I am a grounded soul who values real conversation, kindness, and good energy. I work in a unique and beautiful place surrounded by nature, which keeps me connected to what really matters. I love deep talks, shared laughter, and the little things that make life meaningful.
Linda
43 • Accra, Greater Accra, Ghana
Seeking: Male 40 - 60
looking for my king
I’m a very decent , honest, faithful , respectful, loyal and a God fearing single mother of two grown children and a police officer from the northern part of Ghana. . I live and work in Accra. please I’m not interested in men who want to see me in naked pictures or asking me to dress indecently for them while making video calls. If you’re not interested in a woman with children please don’t contact me. OR if you can not respond to my messages or calls please stay away from me. I’m looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage and not here to defraud any man. I wish every man a good luck as we all search for love. If you like me message me
Michael
40 • Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 40 - 70
HAPPINESS IS FREE, LOVE IS HAPPINESS,I CHOOSE 💕💕
I AM PRINCESS BLESSING UFEDO OJO MICHAEL, I AM AN AFRICAN LADY AND A MOTHER OF THREE KIDS A CHEF AND RISING UP AFRICA ACTOR WORKING WITH THE NIGERIA FEDERAL GOVERNMENT AS A CORRECTIONAL OFFICER, I AM A VERY GENTLE AND EASY GOING PERSON,IF YOU ARE LUC
Nosa
46 • Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male
Christ in me the hope of glory, I'm God fearing
please kindly read my profile before you like or send me message, I am a God fearing person, I love good things of life and adventurious , I'm adaptive, am friendly, Im a lover of Jesus, I love nature, I live a healthy life style and very fit, I have a great sense of humor. very romantic, I have a lot of love to give to the right person.
Cecily
42 • Embakasi, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 40 - 59
Strictly serious person,
I'm a kind and smart woman. Loving, hardworking God fearing and sweet. I'm raising my two boys alone. I love attention from my man and romance is key. I love and care alot so definitely expect the same. I reciprocate,I support and love uncondition
Tracy
41 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 45 - 51
Am a very simple , beautiful and attractive ..…..
Am a very intelligent woman and all i need out here is genuine love. I love nature , home cooked meals .. a great bunter over fun conversations .. if you are fun , open and free about life and not that serious all the time , looking for something solid and meaningful , flexible in all aspects of life ,then lets connect and see how this goes . Pointer !!!!!! If you are interested in virtual sex , online sex exchanging numbers and nudes online , also men that are still married!!!!!! , kindly sorrry please dont bother reaching out !
Annette
45 • Accra, Greater Accra, Ghana
Seeking: Male 42 - 97
serious, reality and loyalty
I'm ANNETTE from Ghana, I'm 44years of age, a journalist by profession, but now into business, I'm a single lady searching for a serious partner, I love listening to music, dancing, travelling, cooking, I'm really an emotional lady with lots of love, and also love to be naughty with my partner , no matter the location. I'm an hardworking lady with alot of working experiences and travelling experiences, I always want to be around my lovely partner and play with him.
Queen
40 • Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Male 35 - 75
"Looking for Laughter, Adventure, and Connection!
I love spending my free time reading, going to art museums, musicals, plays, live bands, traveling, painting, and Netflix & Chill. I value meaningful connections and enjoy deep conversations about life, dreams, and everything in between. Friends describe me as adventurous, kind, funny, passionate and I believe in the importance of laughter and enjoying every moment. I’m also someone who loves camping, hiking, watching movies, traveling or trying new restaurants. However, I have never been outside of the United Sates. I’m looking for a partner who shares similar values, enjoys having fun, and is open to creating new experiences together. If you’re someone who has similar interests we could have a lot of fun together!"
Matilda
43 • Westlands, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 43 - 70
Big beautiful Kenyan heart seeking a lasting love
Hi there! It’s Matilda here, a beautiful and proud Kenyan woman with a calm spirit and a warm smile. I work in a clerical role, where I’ve learned the value of organization, patience, and attention to detail—but outside the office, I’m all about laughter, good conversation, and meaningful connections. I believe in honesty, loyalty, and treating people with kindness. My friends would describe me as dependable, thoughtful, and someone who always shows up for the people she cares about. I enjoy simple pleasures—listening to music, trying new recipes, nature walks, dressing up for a nice dinner, or just relaxing at home with good company. Family is very important to me, and I carry strong values rooted in respect and love. I’m romantic at heart and believe that the best relationships are built on friendship, communication, and mutual support.
Nelly
42 • Dover, Kent, United Kingdom
Seeking: Male 44 - 51
stress free life💃💃💃✌️
im someone who really values honesty, loyalty, and good conversation. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, and I’m always trying to learn and grow, I love to help others grow as well if I can .whether through work or personal experiences.
Vanessa yarks
41 • Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 41 - 55
life isn't hard,it depend on how you handle it.
Am down to earth, smart and lovely soul, hard working. Very emotional when my spirit connect. I love when what I give is reciprocated. I can be very forward sometimes,I do have a strong face sometimes but within me, am very soft. I don't take nonsen
ilos
43 • Ado-Odo/Otta, Ogun, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 45 - 70
am a good example of a homely women.
am a Christian a lover of God, very homely I like to cook my kitchen is the best part of my house.,am open minded. very straight forward honest, intelligence I'm hardworking I like people who know what they want and go for it. because that is who I am ready to listen I'm adaptive and friendly, like everyone around me to be happy I like to be treated nicely am a goal getter 😊 cleanliness is my watchworld my word is my Bond.if you are the one come let's make memories together and be happy♥️hope to see you on my DM.
Stella
41 • Mukono, Central Region, Uganda
Seeking: Male 50 - 83
let's take a chance on each other
My name is Stella and am from Uganda. Kampala. am down to earth and honest woman. am mature woman, 40 years of age and I look very very good and attractive black woman who is looking for white man . am real simple and easy to get along with. dont have kids, never been married. am here looking for one man who is ready for relationship and ready to take it to another level. I have alot of love to give to the right man. let's talk and see what happens
Funmike
44 • Accra, Greater Accra, Ghana
Seeking: Male 40 - 45
🌹simply humanitarian🌹
Full of positive energy and adventurous...💃life is beautiful beyond unrealistic selfish desires that might forever ripe beyond the blue clouds. so, why not live the moment with love and kindness towards humanity 🫶 Run your race with fun and modesty all a long bearing your set 'goals in mind, paying close attention to needs instead of wants and be disciplined to avoid unnecessary distractions...............................................Well, I updated my profile 👇👇👇👇👇👇 for those of you who likes and favorite me without reading more about me ....................( I'm a 43 Nigerian, base in another country, a widow, mother of 3 and I raise my 3 children from nursery/Primary stage to higher institution as an independent single mother, balances multiple roles as well as managing challenges doing it all with love and purpose... I consider myself patient, strong, creative, self-reliance, purpose driven and resourceful... I'm proud of myself cos I don't wait or beg for support; I am the support... I'm a healthcare assistant, specialized in children with special needs and disabilities and seniors living with Alzheimer's dementia. I creates time to support others in the best way I could despite being a single mother. so, I see myself as an answer to someone's 'a man" prayers and genuine desire cos my personality defines me ). 💥💥.... so please guys, keep moving to the next profile if you're allergic to a Nigerian who's working in another country or a widow/single mother💥keep walking !💥. no offense meant 🤷 My qualities are for that real man with values for my personalities💯 beauty is in the eye of the beholder 💞. Thank you!
Jacqueline
40 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 49 - 99
Looking for my person
I am open minded woman who is hard working, optimistic,honest, caring, sensual and hilarious. I am here to meet my person, lover, best friend and " partner in crime" to make some forever sweet memories in our relationship. I love going for evening walks,listening to good music, dancing and watching documentaries
Ini
43 • Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 50 - 65
Here for someone special. Not here for games
Intelligent and very humorous, kind and compassionate. I love honesty and sincerity. Hate lies and deception. I love family and I love helping people. I'm very down to earth. I love cooking, dancing, travel. Emotionally mature. I love nature and art.
Gloria
41 • Lashibi, Greater Accra, Ghana
Seeking: Male 50 - 70
Pure Gem💎 serious Suiters only 😉
I believe a woman should be taken cared of by her man., financially, physically, mentaly, materialy and emotionally. I do not believe in 50/50. Being a woman who is already self sufficient, I desire a man who is equally so even more wealthier than myself. I love gift 🎁 surprised trips and all the lovelies money can buy. I like to be in my purest femininity, that brings out the girly side making the relationship sweet and fun. I am selfish with the things I love and I don't like sharing my man, so please be discipline with self control. With that said, let's get to know each other no fakeness no scammers. Video calls are welcomed.
Leila
45 • Central, Nairobi, Kenya
Seeking: Male 40 - 70
looking for long term relationship
Am a very hardworking loving and caring lady.am looking for a serious relationship which will lead to marriage.what I will bring to the table in this relationship is ..Good love.Good food care and respect to the man who will choose me I promise to be a good dnd respectful lady.loving my soulmate is my weakness.I promise to be good in bedroom too and open to be corrected 😜

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