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Neo
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45
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Kuruman, Northern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 46
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I'm not going to make you fall for preposterous claims made by so many on these sites or tell you stories of how we are going to hop on a jet to Rome with old President Zuma as our personal tour guide, or how I resemble Ryan Gosling... I rather give you a refreshing perspective - the truth. I don't resemble Ryan Gosling :-) I pay my mortgage. I am a general contractor and career driven in running my own business which I find very rewarding, although I believe in living a balanced life. I don't do drama. At All. I can easily find an excuse to break out the power tools (after all, I am a guy ;-) The spotlight is not my friend. Introvert Extrovert. Old fashioned to a certain degree. Basically, I love living life. I enjoy the outdoors, travelling, adventure - in any form at any time from scuba, kayaking, hiking etc, love movies and series, shopping, campfires. I'm straightforward fun-loving guy who enjoys being active but also have time to relax and unwind. A few things important to me: God, my son, coffee, moral values, music, peace of mind, empathy and compassion, communication in a relationship.
Abdou
Standard Member
42
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 27 - 36
I am looking for a team player...a second wife
I am a Muslim man born in Benin but currently staying in South Africa. I am looking for someone I can build a home with and would love to have children in the future. Human beings are layered beings and you can only know someone from spending time w
Lance
Standard Member
43
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 23 - 41
Hi I'm lance kuhnel from South Africa
I'm single father of one adopted boy I'm 40 year's old turning 41 this month I'm a production manager at a embroidery company and I'm just looking for serious relationship I'm not yet sucribe on the dating app just give me time and I will respond soo
Mahesh
Standard Member
46
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 35 - 46
100% Genuine that's me 🤪🤪🤪
lm a simple down to earth guy. How takes my life very seriously. lm not someone that goes around using people for there money or go around taking advantage of them in away. lm a very Independent guy. lm a very Caring person , Very Romantic , very Spontaneous , Very Loving , Have a super sense of humor. lm a live wire 🤪🤪🤪. Most important I have a heart ❤️ like gold. I'm someone who believes in 50 / 50... You meet me half way , I Wil meet you half way. you go the extra mile for me , I Wil do the same for you !
Micheal
Standard Member
42
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Bloemfontein, Free State, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 46
Respect one another
I am a south African and I am here with respect and discipline and even if we don't agree on certain issues let's respect each other because we are living in different world but that's not mean we are different we are one and true love doesn't have b
Tom
Standard Member
Verified
46
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 46
READ MY PROFILE
Im sincere..down to earth.. what you see is what you get. I am factual, easy going, live a healthy life in the gym, outdoors. My favourite music is 80's..but listen to classical and rock, jazz and blues.. My favourite actor is Christian Bale for his versatility.. I play some piano.. have worked in the USA, Bermuda,Brazil (many times- love the vibrancy and warmth of the people), many countries in Africa, Mauritius, Germany, Switzerland and England),was married to a foreigner.. no kids.. anything else... ask... my intentions are pure. I speak English, Afrikaans and Portuguese and bits and pieces German (as I am from German ancestory and my home language Afrikaans is somehow similiar), a few sentences in Japanese (did a course), and some local Zulu and Sotho I can video call and call myself and you by name. Can you?
Chris
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44
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 45 - 80
Chris Teba 43yrs a man that respects others
Meeting a talkative happy joking person, lovely carering with sense of humor. If can get a chance find someone you regret why could be long getting someone giving the best love from inside nd outside be happy all times, because we leave short time in
leag
Standard Member
41
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 23 - 41
pls try to read my profile coz theres more of me.
I'm a jolly Nd Holly young man, ambitious, who loves to bring valuables at home, so if you are valuable enough, come with me Nd see where my love is, I bet you will enjoy ur stay with me. 😘😍🤗♥️😋 good personality attracts lots of love i think. perhaps should i say love to be loved in return?🤔. perfection comes with lots of mistakes, and success is the sum of small efforts repeated day in day out. can you hear that at the back there ? Self-control is strength , Calmness is mastery. Yo have to get to the point where your moods doesn't shift based on the significant actions of someone else. Dont allow others to control the direction of your life. Dont allow emitions to overpower you intelligence.
Mohluoa
Standard Member
Verified
48
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 42
If you are looking for white man don't contact me
Clone
Standard Member
43
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 65
#Dedicated only to the Special Person in My Life
I want you to know how much I value our connection and the bond we share. I am committed to being a reliable and trustworthy partner—someone who is grounded, respectful, and straightforward in every situation. Keeping my promises is of utmost importa
Lucky
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48
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 26 - 46
Lucky is very loyal, caring and romantic. very straight forward does not beat around the Bush. He is here locking for love 😍 not Business or invest or trading. No date will be appreciated SCAMMERS, Liars, or chancery don't bother me pls.
Morgan
Standard Member
44
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 44 - 54
Am a caring, loving and humble gentle individual. Am looking for some one for a serious relationship. Am looking for a woman who is decent, who loves and respects herself and still willing to get me peace, honesty, love and stability in a relationshi
Shakeel
Standard Member
45
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La Mercy, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 28 - 37
Zeus
Serious but funny yet no clown, down to earth and humble but to proud to beg
Sammy
Standard Member
42
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Edenvale, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 35 - 80
Looking for a Longterm relationship
Im sammy based in SA single looking forward to meet my dream man only ppl who are serious if you are not serious please pass
Steve
Standard Member
41
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 42
Daniel
Standard Member
48
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 65
I know you are there searching .....
Patrick
Standard Member
41
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Witbank, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 24 - 44
Let's chat and see where it will teck us
I'm a very simple person who like to travel around the world
vincent
Standard Member
41
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 24 - 42
Let's connect and see what the future holds
Easy person, honest and professional, likes people and have massive respect for women.
Sizani
Standard Member
41
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 50 - 70
I'm an explorer
Shy but fun
Mkayz
Standard Member
Verified
43
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Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 24 - 45
The only way to know me, is to get to know me...
Fun loving, optimistic, interesting, witty, a dreamer, quirky, spontaneous, loves cooking, I could go on and on... The rest, get in touch and find out for yourself. You will not be disappointed ;-)
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T-man
Standard Member
41
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Thohoyandou, Limpopo, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 40
Don't Take My Kindness Fow Weakness!!! 😎
I'm a very humble & decent person who loves himself for who I am!!!
Bruno
Standard Member
48
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 27 - 46
Down to earth
Polite, love nature and travel
Tahepo
Standard Member
42
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 27 - 49
Tony
Standard Member
47
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 38 - 55
Jesus Tia
Standard Member
44
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 26 - 48
loving / Respecting My Partner brings Me Joy
I'm a Loving/Always Joyful Soul... L Amour est Ma Langue
Humphrey
Standard Member
47
•
Edenvale, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 27 - 46
I love my self and people around me
Hard working man I love spending time with loved one in free time
Palesa
Standard Member
40
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 41 - 48
Brian
Standard Member
48
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Cullinan, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 50
donald
Standard Member
43
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Grahamstown, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 47
Only looking for the special life partner
simple easy goal and a loyal man
Sandile
Standard Member
47
•
Tsakane, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 28
Creative, Direct, Gentleman with courage 🌍
I love Nature, it's beauty and it's wild, I talk straight, NB. I'm worth a a decent life, place and or people..., willing to go around the world and it's beuaty, places, I love My Managing career ! 🌍
Des
Standard Member
47
•
Rustenburg, North-West, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 26 - 35
I'm looking for someone to have fun with
I'm an entrepreneur at heart, loves adventurous activities but can easily stay home and cuddle.
Dessy
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 35
A soulmate is needed
Hi there! I'm Dessy, a 39-year-old with a passion for life and a heart full of dreams. Im living my life in world with enthusiasm and dedication. By night, you can find me listening to music's, exploring new adventures and soaking up the little joys
Brent
Standard Member
41
•
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 35 - 45
Friendship
Need female friendships
James
Standard Member
49
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Witbank, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking:
Female
Compatable
Maverick, dreamer, believer
Jay
Standard Member
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 38 - 43
Charming South African
Charming South African
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