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Neo
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46
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Kuruman, Northern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 46
Click that Message Me Button.
I'm not going to make you fall for preposterous claims made by so many on these sites or tell you stories of how we are going to hop on a jet to Rome with old President Zuma as our personal tour guide, or how I resemble Ryan Gosling... I rather give you a refreshing perspective - the truth. I don't resemble Ryan Gosling :-) I pay my mortgage. I am a general contractor and career driven in running my own business which I find very rewarding, although I believe in living a balanced life. I don't do drama. At All. I can easily find an excuse to break out the power tools (after all, I am a guy ;-) The spotlight is not my friend. Introvert Extrovert. Old fashioned to a certain degree. Basically, I love living life. I enjoy the outdoors, travelling, adventure - in any form at any time from scuba, kayaking, hiking etc, love movies and series, shopping, campfires. I'm straightforward fun-loving guy who enjoys being active but also have time to relax and unwind. A few things important to me: God, my son, coffee, moral values, music, peace of mind, empathy and compassion, communication in a relationship.
Fikile
Standard Member
40
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 23 - 47
Looking for a sincere life time partner
I am 40 years old men I'm just looking for simple loving woman well mannered hardworking because I am hard worker try to have a better life. Atleast she must have something or trying to have something to combine with what I have, sotogether that we
leag
Standard Member
42
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 23 - 41
pls try to read my profile coz theres more of me.
I'm a jolly Nd Holly young man, ambitious, who loves to bring valuables at home, so if you are valuable enough, come with me Nd see where my love is, I bet you will enjoy ur stay with me. 😘😍🤗♥️😋 good personality attracts lots of love i think. perhaps should i say love to be loved in return?🤔. perfection comes with lots of mistakes, and success is the sum of small efforts repeated day in day out. can you hear that at the back there ? Self-control is strength , Calmness is mastery. Yo have to get to the point where your moods doesn't shift based on the significant actions of someone else. Dont allow others to control the direction of your life. Dont allow emitions to overpower you intelligence.
Mohluoa
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Verified
49
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 42
If you are looking for white man don't contact me
No Nigerians and Ghanaians please, I'll not respond to you
Clone
Standard Member
44
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 65
#Dedicated only to the Special Person in My Life
I want you to know how much I value our connection and the bond we share. I am committed to being a reliable and trustworthy partner—someone who is grounded, respectful, and straightforward in every situation. Keeping my promises is of utmost importa
Lucky
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49
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 26 - 46
Lucky is very loyal, caring and romantic. very straight forward does not beat around the Bush. He is here locking for love 😍 not Business or invest or trading. No date will be appreciated SCAMMERS, Liars, or chancery don't bother me pls.
Vivian
Standard Member
48
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 26 - 45
let's get to know eachother
I'm 46 yrs old. I'm a short white male. I love to cook and make delicious meals. I do masterbate sometimes since I live alone for 7yrs now. I try to masterbate once every 2nd week it's healthy and I still need to get rid of my seeds 🤣🤣🤣🤣 hone
Morgan
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45
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 44 - 54
Am a caring, loving and humble gentle individual. Am looking for some one for a serious relationship. Am looking for a woman who is decent, who loves and respects herself and still willing to get me peace, honesty, love and stability in a relationshi
Shakeel
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46
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La Mercy, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 28 - 37
Zeus
Serious but funny yet no clown, down to earth and humble but to proud to beg
Sammy
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43
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Edenvale, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 35 - 80
Looking for a Longterm relationship
Im sammy based in SA single looking forward to meet my dream man only ppl who are serious if you are not serious please pass
Steve
Standard Member
42
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 42
Daniel
Standard Member
49
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 65
I know you are there searching .....
Patrick
Standard Member
42
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Witbank, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 24 - 44
Let's chat and see where it will teck us
I'm a very simple person who like to travel around the world
Sizani
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42
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 50 - 70
I'm an explorer
Shy but fun
Mkayz
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Verified
44
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Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 24 - 45
The only way to know me, is to get to know me...
Fun loving, optimistic, interesting, witty, a dreamer, quirky, spontaneous, loves cooking, I could go on and on... The rest, get in touch and find out for yourself. You will not be disappointed ;-)
Thabo
Standard Member
47
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Krugersdorp, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 40
DreamCatcher
For you to find out on me
Melvis
Standard Member
45
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 23 - 35
My sunshine, my only sunshine.
It's quite complex to describe oneself without being perceived as boastful. However, I would describe myself as a caring, kind and loving gentle man. I am a one woman's man and by far the meekest man on earth after Moses in the bible.
Ben
Standard Member
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Be a men
I'm easy going, spontaneous, loving, ready to settle
Prince
Standard Member
40
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 40 - 70
“Growth-Minded Man Seeking a Real Partner”
I’m a calm, focused man who values honesty, growth, and peace of mind. I believe in building something meaningful with the right person, not wasting time on games. I’m hardworking, respectful, and intentional about where I’m going in life. Looking to
Stud
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45
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 40 - 70
Onyeka
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44
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 19 - 47
Curious and always learning.
The laid-back dreamer
Torel
Standard Member
43
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 30 - 51
I'm letting it all flow
Outgoing and fun to be with, love spontaneous chats and laughter
Femmy
Standard Member
43
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 30 - 60
T-man
Standard Member
42
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Thohoyandou, Limpopo, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 40
Don't Take My Kindness Fow Weakness!!! 😎
I'm a very humble & decent person who loves himself for who I am!!!
Joe
Standard Member
40
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 68
Casual Vibes Only 🍹
Looking to meet up with women from Cape town. if you're up for a vibe, feel free to drop me a message
Tahepo
Standard Member
43
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 27 - 49
Lovagio
Standard Member
48
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Rustenburg, North-West, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 47
Choose to change !!!
Ek hou van baie dinge, maar as ek nie van 'n hou nie sal ek jou dadelik se as jy meer wil wiet moet maar jy my vra asseblief,❤️
Tony
Standard Member
48
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 38 - 55
Lullaby
Standard Member
46
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 44
Jesus Tia
Standard Member
45
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 26 - 48
loving / Respecting My Partner brings Me Joy
I'm a Loving/Always Joyful Soul... L Amour est Ma Langue
𝑹𝒐𝒐𝒏𝒆𝒚
Standard Member
47
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Bloemfontein, Free State, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 27 - 48
Wana know?
𝑨𝒎 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒔𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒈𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒍𝒆 𝒅𝒖𝒅𝒆 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆...
Humphrey
Standard Member
49
•
Edenvale, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 27 - 46
I love my self and people around me
Hard working man I love spending time with loved one in free time
Palesa
Standard Member
41
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 41 - 48
Brian
Standard Member
49
•
Cullinan, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 50
Jason
Standard Member
40
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Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 23 - 46
HONESTY IS MOST IMPORTANT TO ME
Caring and loving personality usually gets abused for my loyalty
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